Your children are not your children.

prabaths

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    So if your wife makes love with Gibran, it's totally Gibran's problem and your wife is innocent? Your wife is not doing "paradara sevanaya"?:shocked::shocked::shocked:

    Lord Buddha didn't say that it's OK to have sex with "great" or "wise" people and have children, if he or she is married. Do you know that? or you are not wise enough to understand this simple theory?

    So you have turned this to the way you want so that you can have sex with other women. And you can say that they are more wiser than your wife.
    .....:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    Athula Uncle please answer if you can......


    Para Daara
    means another's wife.
    :)



    Ok. You call it whatever you want.

    Can you just answer my questions?

    I'm asking whether it's a sin or not if your wife sleeps with another man and make children? He may be Gibran or some other wiser guy.
    Do you approve it?
    Has lord buddha told that a married woman can sleep with another person and make children if that third person is more wiser than the person you are married to?


    :confused::confused::confused::confused:
     
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    There are lot of things you can do without touching a woman.

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
    That,
    when you don't have a woman.

    No need for those also.

    What I expect and get from sex
    is going subtler and subtler
    till you reach the stage that
    you don't need to touch.
    Less work and more joy.
    You can reach that height
    only with one partner.

    :)
     

    sri_lion

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    Lord Buddha didn't say that it's OK to have sex with "great" or "wise" people and have children, if he or she is married. Do you know that? or you are not wise enough to understand this simple theory?.

    Athula only quotes from Lord Buddha whenever he feels like basing the...

    1. Govt. (or should I say Mahinda :lol:)
    2. Sri Lanka
    3. Sinhalese

    the top 3 things he hates most! You can shuffle the numbering as you wish, I couldn't made up my mind either which one should be on top, because he hates all 3 equally!!! :lol:
     

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    Athula only quotes from Lord Buddha whenever he feels like basing the...

    1. Govt. (or should I say Mahinda :lol:)
    2. Sri Lanka
    3. Sinhalese

    the top 3 things he hates most! You can shuffle the numbering as you wish, I couldn't made up my mind either which one should be on top, because he hates all 3 equally!!! :lol:

    and sometimes he somehow manage to prove that lord buddha has recommended to sri lankans to vote for ranil by quoting some of those pali sutras :lol:
     
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    Ok. You call it whatever you want.

    Can you just answer my questions?

    I'm asking whether it's a sin or not if your wife sleeps with another man and make children? He may be Gibran or some other wiser guy.
    Do you approve it?
    Has lord buddha told that a married woman can sleep with another person and make children if that third person is more wiser than the person you are married to?


    :confused::confused::confused::confused:

    They commit a bad Karma.
    Lord Buddha does not approve it.

    In reality we know that
    it is a fluke that
    if a son of a wise man like Kahlil Gibran
    would be as wise as his father.

    Theorywise I don't approve it
    only because it is very doubtful
    that he will be like Kahlil Gibran..

    But practically
    if I would have a son exactly like Kahlil Gibran
    I wouldn't care who the father is.

    Seriously.

    Just because he would grow up in my company.

    I am very lonely.
    Other than my wife
    I don't have ANY friend
    who can discuss books movies people
    I am interested in.
    There are friends,
    but they are covered with their greed for money
    and other material things.

    So a son
    exactly like Kahlil Gibran
    would be a great companion.
    :lol:

     

    ~v3n0m~

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    They commit a bad Karma.
    Lord Buddha does not approve it.

    In reality we know that
    it is a fluke that
    if a son of a wise man like Kahlil Gibran
    would be as wise as his father.

    Theorywise I don't approve it
    only because it is very doubtful
    that he will be like Kahlil Gibran..

    But practically
    if I would have a son exactly like Kahlil Gibran
    I wouldn't care who the father is.

    Seriously.

    Just because he would grow up in my company.

    I am very lonely.
    Other than my wife
    I don't have ANY friend
    who can discuss books movies people
    I am interested in.
    There are friends,
    but they are covered with their greed for money
    and other material things.

    So a son
    exactly like Kahlil Gibran
    would be a great companion.
    :lol:



    I also wanted to quote from some smart a&s indian, but could find any.... oh! hey! how about Guru Pitka?

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    "If your Uncle Jack helped you off an elephant, would you help your Uncle jack off an elephant? "

    -Guru Pitka



    Anitya ROX

    ;)
     

    jayanthah

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    I also wanted to quote from some smart a&s indian, but could find any.... oh! hey! how about Guru Pitka?

    [/COLOR]
    "If your Uncle Jack helped you off an elephant, would you help your Uncle jack off an elephant? "

    -Guru Pitka



    Anitya ROX

    ;)

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    Elaz...meka mama adney dakke.......comedy lokayak.......elaz :)
    What about a quote from Mangala innocence???

    Yeah......anityaya ROX :lol:
     

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    Athula only quotes from Lord Buddha whenever he feels like basing the...

    1. Govt. (or should I say Mahinda :lol:)
    2. Sri Lanka
    3. Sinhalese

    the top 3 things he hates most! You can shuffle the numbering as you wish, I couldn't made up my mind either which one should be on top, because he hates all 3 equally!!! :lol:

    adding more Gay and Lesbians too
     

    prabaths

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    Ok. You call it whatever you want.

    Can you just answer my questions?

    I'm asking whether it's a sin or not if your wife sleeps with another man and make children? He may be Gibran or some other wiser guy.
    Do you approve it?
    Has lord buddha told that a married woman can sleep with another person and make children if that third person is more wiser than the person you are married to?


    :confused::confused::confused::confused:


    They commit a bad Karma.
    Lord Buddha does not approve it.

    In reality we know that
    it is a fluke that
    if a son of a wise man like Kahlil Gibran
    would be as wise as his father.

    Theorywise I don't approve it
    only because it is very doubtful
    that he will be like Kahlil Gibran..

    But practically
    if I would have a son exactly like Kahlil Gibran
    I wouldn't care who the father is.

    Seriously.

    Just because he would grow up in my company.

    I am very lonely.
    Other than my wife
    I don't have ANY friend
    who can discuss books movies people
    I am interested in.
    There are friends,
    but they are covered with their greed for money
    and other material things.

    So a son
    exactly like Kahlil Gibran
    would be a great companion.
    :lol:


    Atula Uncle, what is this?

    Can you answer all the questions without going around the bush pls??
     

    prabaths

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    They commit a bad Karma.
    Lord Buddha does not approve it.

    In reality we know that
    it is a fluke that
    if a son of a wise man like Kahlil Gibran
    would be as wise as his father.

    Theorywise I don't approve it
    only because it is very doubtful
    that he will be like Kahlil Gibran..

    But practically
    if I would have a son exactly like Kahlil Gibran
    I wouldn't care who the father is.

    Seriously.

    Just because he would grow up in my company.

    I am very lonely.
    Other than my wife
    I don't have ANY friend
    who can discuss books movies people
    I am interested in.
    There are friends,
    but they are covered with their greed for money
    and other material things.

    So a son
    exactly like Kahlil Gibran
    would be a great companion.
    :lol:


    Now I know
    Kahlil Gibran is out of bounds
    in Elakiri.
    I thought you can at least understand me.
    :)


    OK. Does this mean......

    if your wife sleeps with Kahlil,

    *It's against Lord buddha's teachings
    *You don't approve it
    *It's a sin and they commit a bad karma
    *You are not sure that the child would be wise like Kahlil

    But.......
    You simply let them do it just because you expect the child to be wise because it's Kahlil's, because you can use the kid to cure your loneliness. Isn't that selfish? Isn't that a sin? You could have saved both of them from doing that sin but instead you promote them to do it. Isn't that another sin?

    You would give your wife for a "F**k" (sorry about the bad word, but it's the best word for this), anybody who is wise, like Kahlil or any other wiser guy?
    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

    You pretend to be a wise and honest guy than an average person but can't hide the rascal inside you. Isn't it? :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
     
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    OK. Does this mean......

    if your wife sleeps with Kahlil,

    *It's against Lord buddha's teachings
    *You don't approve it
    *It's a sin and they commit a bad karma
    *You are not sure that the child would be wise like Kahlil

    But.......
    You simply let them do it just because you expect the child to be wise because it's Kahlil's, because you can use the kid to cure your loneliness. Isn't that selfish? Isn't that a sin? You could have saved both of them from doing that sin but instead you promote them to do it. Isn't that another sin?

    You would give your wife for a "F**k" (sorry about the bad word, but it's the best word for this), anybody who is wise, like Kahlil or any other wiser guy?
    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

    You pretend to be a wise and honest guy than an average person but can't hide the rascal inside you. Isn't it? :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    This time you have understood a bit.
    Try again.

    If I will have a son like Kahlil or any other special person I love and respect
    I wouldn't care who is his father.
    I will be proud of him.
    But which great man can definitely make a son like him.
    Since this is not practically possible
    I do not commit any bad karma.

    It is just a saying
    to show how much I love them.

    Remember
    Buddha promised divyanganavo to Nanda
    if he gets enlightened,
    because practically Nanda wouldn't ask.
    :)
     
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    You pretend to be a wise and honest guy than an average person but can't hide the rascal inside you. Isn't it? :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    It is very difficult to pretend if not impossible
    to pretend as a wise guy.
    As a honest guy is very easy.
    I do not pretend to be better than me.

    I agree that I have a rascal in me.
    I need him to protect me from other rascals.
    :D