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Fox Mulder89

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    Hi friends

    I want to know is it okay if girlfriend is 2 , 3 months older than me. this is series problem. Lord Buddha's has spoken than husband should be always older than wife. but i think that is more than 1, 2 years difference
    right ???
    I am a buddhist. when i asked my friends they said to me it is okay but i put it in here coz there are lot of people in elakiri who give good and accurate ideas and answers.

    this is not a joke and i am a senior member


     

    mr90486

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    Machan this is my personal view. If ideas matching, if she can understand me and I can understand her, and both of us care for each other, and most importantly if I LOVE her and she accepts it, then I don't care for age at all. I don't care even if she is 5 or 6 years older to me. seriously.

    This might not go well with people around me and people in the society but its my life after all. that's my personal view. I concentrate on most important aspects of a relationship. So for me personally Age gets a very low priority.
     
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    MeGusta

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    Only problem will be your wife will be old as same as you when you both grow old,When you are 50 your wife will be 50 too,Otherwise if you love each other there is no such issue.Mind that women mature way faster than men.

    other things are all society made up bullshits.Many people prefer to have a younger wife at least till they hit 50.Once you go for a party many people will look upon you for having a younger wife.There are advantages and disadvantages but it's all up to you..
     

    dmtx

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    බුදුහාමුදුරුවො දේශනා කරලා තියෙන්නේ බිරිදකගෙන් ස්වාමියාට ඉ‍ටුවිය යුතු යුතුකම් එ වගේම ස්වාමියාගේන් බිරිදට ඉ‍ටුවිය යුතු යුතුකම් ගැන බන්.:yes: උබ කියන දේ මම නම් අහලා නෑ.:dull:

    ඕක ප්‍රශ්නයක් නෑ බන් ලොකුවට:yes:
     

    Fox Mulder89

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    Machan this is my personal view. If ideas matching, if she can understand me and I can understand her, and both of us care for each other, and most importantly if I LOVE her and she accepts it, then I don't care for age at all. I don't care even if she is 5 or 6 years older to me. seriously.

    This might not go well with people around me and people in the society but its my life after all. that's my personal view. I concentrate on most important aspects of a relationship. So for me personally Age gets a very low priority.
    anee manda ban ela elaa oluwa awul ban
     

    Fox Mulder89

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    ehemaa kiyalaa thiyanawaa ban. mama kipa warayak ahalaaa thiyanawaa.
    බුදුහාමුදුරුවො දේශනා කරලා තියෙන්නේ බිරිදකගෙන් ස්වාමියාට ඉ‍ටුවිය යුතු යුතුකම් එ වගේම ස්වාමියාගේන් බිරිදට ඉ‍ටුවිය යුතු යුතුකම් ගැන බන්.:yes: උබ කියන දේ මම නම් අහලා නෑ.:dull:

    ඕක ප්‍රශ්නයක් නෑ බන් ලොකුවට:yes:
     

    mr90486

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    maasa 2k 3k nee ban. :confused::confused::confused:

    hama kellama control karanawaa ban. danatama eka eka ewaa kiyanawaa. :D:D:D

    thamaa mama ahuwee nahaa


    Machan oya hithanawanam e girl oyata match wenawa kiyala, eka thamai wadagathma de. Anyway, gedaring awlak wenneth nathi widihata kalpana karala honda decision ekak ganna. Oluwa awul karaganna epa. Since you've just completed the degree, you must give the higher priority to building your career. :yes::yes: Eka thamai machan me welawe oyata godak wadagath wenne.