Breakup advice oniiii...

[Elysium]

Just tell the truth , 4 months hinda awlak na, uba 4,5 Years nan awlak.

aththa, awrudu gaanak gihin oka kiwwama eyaata saahena duka hithey, ethakota hithennema awrudu gaanak thissema mata boru karaa nedha kiyalay enisa danmama aththa kiyala ain vena eka hondai

 

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[slickdeath]

hmm mata meka kiyahan ai ban umba yaluvune e kellath ekka? ai dan umbta eki honda madi vage penne?
meka online forum ekakne api umbava danne na aththma kiyahan apita thread balanna eka damma nam.

meka serious patn gatta ekak neme bn..mn ekigen no eka illagatta..dws 2k 3k katha kara..eeta passe mn itn ekita kmthi kiwa..mge hithe adryk thibbe ne eth..ekith mata kmthi kiwa..passe thamai dnagattae ekige 1st luv eka kiyala..anika e gdk seroius..puchideth mahalokuwata hithwa..

anika mta honda madi kmak neme..mata eki gena adryk hithenne ne..wisheshayak denne ne..wena kellk wagenm ona magulak kiyala hitapuden kiayala inna thibba..eth meka thawath ekita seroius wena eka withrai wenne..

 

[sajith.xp.pk]

Umbala wage unta thamai yako hena gahanne. Ehenam boru balaporoththu dunne ai ekita.

 

[slickdeath]

Umbala wage unta thamai yako hena gahanne. Ehenam boru balaporoththu dunne ai ekita.

hri bn..waraddak kare kiyala dnnwa..mata dn oni meka ekige hitha ridnne nethiwa nawaththanna..ekata krmayk thynwanm kiyapnko...matath hitha gnna beriwa inne.

 

[fitnesslanka]

Ok.thanks machn..i'm thinking of telling her the truth..anyway i'll take sometime and see whether there's a better option.

machan, don't take more time, take her out some where or meet her some where private & tell her the truth & say sorry ... be a man and do it as soon as possible!

Once I faced a scenario like this but it was bit different , I never thought this girl will fall in love with me , just treated her as a friend & a sister and suddenly one day she told me that she likes me & have feelings for me, simply she said "I love you and I told my parents about you " then I asked what was their reply? " They gave me the chance to chose the person that I trust & love until I die , so there is no objection from them" ... I was shocked because I never thought about her in that way and always treated her as a friend & a sister still and I felt guilty, I talked to her, explained her that she has misunderstood the way I treated to her but... she was so upset she never accepted that fact... She got mad at me, stopped talking to me, blocked me from everything ... I had no other option but to remain calm ... after some time she got back to me ... we remained as friends & again I felt like is is falling back ... so I opt out from all possible ways that she can connect/ contact me and gave her time to forget about me ... in recent past when I got back on-line she talked to me and said her parents found a match and she is getting married, I said "Congrats!" and she said "so now you are happy? but I don't like him I like you" ... I couldn't believe her after this much of time what she was saying, " I told her that he will treat you better & you will fall in love with him then." ... We remained friends but we don't talk as we used to be. She got married & she is happy now ( I guess with her smile in her wedding photos ) ... I know most of you will scold me & yes she was one of a kind, pretty, intelligent, kind hearted & educated and from a wealthy family , she was the only child and I don't think I will ever find a girl like her who will love me like she did but I never had feelings for her but when I hear the things happening these days with relationships I wish I had feelings for her then

So machan that was my true personal experience , if you don't have feelings for this girl please tell her the truth immediately and get out of her life before things get more complicated or my friend you can keep her for the rest of your life & have a happy family life

 

[fitnesslanka]

meka serious patn gatta ekak neme bn..mn ekigen no eka illagatta..dws 2k 3k katha kara..eeta passe mn itn ekita kmthi kiwa..mge hithe adryk thibbe ne eth..ekith mata kmthi kiwa..passe thamai dnagattae ekige 1st luv eka kiyala..anika e gdk seroius..puchideth mahalokuwata hithwa..

anika mta honda madi kmak neme..mata eki gena adryk hithenne ne..wisheshayak denne ne..wena kellk wagenm ona magulak kiyala hitapuden kiayala inna thibba..eth meka thawath ekita seroius wena eka withrai wenne..

ai manussayooooo ehema kemathi kiwwe umbata VAT badu gahanawa nathi wenna owage weda karanawata!! (issara gahuwe hena, dan ewata wada lokui VAT badu! )

 

[Rage Guy]

machan, don't take more time, take her out some where or meet her some where private & tell her the truth & say sorry ... be a man and do it as soon as possible!

Once I faced a scenario like this but it was bit different , I never thought this girl will fall in love with me , just treated her as a friend & a sister and suddenly one day she told me that she likes me & have feelings for me, simply she said "I love you and I told my parents about you " then I asked what was their reply? " They gave me the chance to chose the person that I trust & love until I die , so there is no objection from them" ... I was shocked because I never thought about her in that way and always treated her as a friend & a sister still and I felt guilty, I talked to her, explained her that she has misunderstood the way I treated to her but... she was so upset she never accepted that fact... She got mad at me, stopped talking to me, blocked me from everything ... I had no other option but to remain calm ... after some time she got back to me ... we remained as friends & again I felt like is is falling back ... so I opt out from all possible ways that she can connect/ contact me and gave her time to forget about me ... in recent past when I got back on-line she talked to me and said her parents found a match and she is getting married, I said "Congrats!" and she said "so now you are happy? but I don't like him I like you" ... I couldn't believe her after this much of time what she was saying, " I told her that he will treat you better & you will fall in love with him then." ... We remained friends but we don't talk as we used to be. She got married & she is happy now ( I guess with her smile in her wedding photos ) ... I know most of you will scold me & yes she was one of a kind, pretty, intelligent, kind hearted & educated and from a wealthy family , she was the only child and I don't think I will ever find a girl like her who will love me like she did but I never had feelings for her but when I hear the things happening these days with relationships I wish I had feelings for her then

So machan that was my true personal experience , if you don't have feelings for this girl please tell her the truth immediately and get out of her life before things get more complicated or my friend you can keep her for the rest of your life & have a happy family life

Remind me of myself 10 years back.Worst case is she tried to contact me on wedding night too.

 

[fitnesslanka]

Remind me of myself 10 years back.Worst case is she tried to contact me on wedding night too.

on her wedding night? well that is awkward!

 

[ryandok]

Remind me of myself 10 years back.Worst case is she tried to contact me on wedding night too.

so sad

 

[DIGger]

උඹ කෙල්ලත් එක්ක යාළු උනාට කොල්ලන්ට තමා ආස කියපන්

 

[ryandok]

සමහර උන් ( අපි වගේ උන් ) කෙල්ලෙක් හොයනවා පන ඇරලා මට ආදරේ කරයි කියලා බලාපොරොත්තුවෙන්.. එත් මලාට හම්බෙන්නේ නෑ ඒවගේ උන්.. ඒත් උබලට එහෙම හම්බෙලත් වටිනාකමක් නෑ...

 

[Aruna119]

1.Anika mama ekige 1st luv eka....

Meka patta boru bun . kello hama ekama kollo 100 ekka yalu wela hitiyath kiyanne inna kollata oya thamai mage first love eka kiyala.

2.Gedarata Kiyala wenna puluwan / ehema kiwwa kiyala boru kiyannath puluwan.

Ehema karanne protection ekata. a uba dala yai kiyala bayata or kalin una dewal ayeth nowenna.

uba kamathi nattnam thawa hopes denne nathuwa kelinma kiyapan.

සිරා කතාව සුද්දියෝ හොඳයි....

 

[Rage Guy]

on her wedding night? well that is awkward!

Yeah it haunted me for some long time

 

[fitnesslanka]

සමහර උන් ( අපි වගේ උන් ) කෙල්ලෙක් හොයනවා පන ඇරලා මට ආදරේ කරයි කියලා බලාපොරොත්තුවෙන්.. එත් මලාට හම්බෙන්නේ නෑ ඒවගේ උන්.. ඒත් උබලට එහෙම හම්බෙලත් වටිනාකමක් නෑ...

sigh awaasanawa brooo

 

[slickdeath]

machan, don't take more time, take her out some where or meet her some where private & tell her the truth & say sorry ... be a man and do it as soon as possible!

Once I faced a scenario like this but it was bit different , I never thought this girl will fall in love with me , just treated her as a friend & a sister and suddenly one day she told me that she likes me & have feelings for me, simply she said "I love you and I told my parents about you " then I asked what was their reply? " They gave me the chance to chose the person that I trust & love until I die , so there is no objection from them" ... I was shocked because I never thought about her in that way and always treated her as a friend & a sister still and I felt guilty, I talked to her, explained her that she has misunderstood the way I treated to her but... she was so upset she never accepted that fact... She got mad at me, stopped talking to me, blocked me from everything ... I had no other option but to remain calm ... after some time she got back to me ... we remained as friends & again I felt like is is falling back ... so I opt out from all possible ways that she can connect/ contact me and gave her time to forget about me ... in recent past when I got back on-line she talked to me and said her parents found a match and she is getting married, I said "Congrats!" and she said "so now you are happy? but I don't like him I like you" ... I couldn't believe her after this much of time what she was saying, " I told her that he will treat you better & you will fall in love with him then." ... We remained friends but we don't talk as we used to be. She got married & she is happy now ( I guess with her smile in her wedding photos ) ... I know most of you will scold me & yes she was one of a kind, pretty, intelligent, kind hearted & educated and from a wealthy family , she was the only child and I don't think I will ever find a girl like her who will love me like she did but I never had feelings for her but when I hear the things happening these days with relationships I wish I had feelings for her then

So machan that was my true personal experience , if you don't have feelings for this girl please tell her the truth immediately and get out of her life before things get more complicated or my friend you can keep her for the rest of your life & have a happy family life

i better tell her the truth rather than wasting her time..As i dn't have any real feeling for her maybe she's never get what she truly deserves staying with me any longer...

 

[slickdeath]

Remind me of myself 10 years back.Worst case is she tried to contact me on wedding night too.

Does your wife knw about her..?

 

[fitnesslanka]

i better tell her the truth rather than wasting her time..As i dn't have any real feeling for her maybe she's never get what she truly deserves staying with me any longer...

If she is true & honest with her actions then she never will get it from you since you don't have such feelings for, so you better accept that you have done something bad & say sorry to her. It will take sometime for her to get over it and move on but hopefully she will

 

[slickdeath]

උඹ කෙල්ලත් එක්ක යාළු උනාට කොල්ලන්ට තමා ආස කියපන්

adow sirawata mn yalu una mul dws wala ekita athal ekata wage kiwa ekiwa hambunne neththm mn aye kelloth ekkanm yalu wenne ne, kollek hoya gnnwa kiyala..kiwa boru thamai dn padadisn denne bn..uba eka kiwama mata eka mathk une..

 

[slickdeath]

සමහර උන් ( අපි වගේ උන් ) කෙල්ලෙක් හොයනවා පන ඇරලා මට ආදරේ කරයි කියලා බලාපොරොත්තුවෙන්.. එත් මලාට හම්බෙන්නේ නෑ ඒවගේ උන්.. ඒත් උබලට එහෙම හම්බෙලත් වටිනාකමක් නෑ...

Onawata wada serious wela luv krnna giyamath kello hambenne ne bn..habai ehema nowith ba..penwane mta wela thyna de