Hi Guys,
For a few weeks I've noticed a girl at the bus stop in town, from where I take the bus back to home in the evening. When I figured the time she arrives there, I started to arrive there near that time. For sometime, I've been checking on her. & I know that she's been checking on me too after she noticed that I'm doing so.
Last week, after trying several days to approach her, I said "Hi" to her at the bus stop. Before that, when she saw me coming to the bus stop, she had a little quick smile. Anyway, when I said "Hi", she didn't reply, or not even looked at me. Then, I asked her name anyway. Because, I thought that she might have not heard me at first, which was sort of impossible though. Anyway, she didn't reply or respond in anyway. She just looked at the direction where the bus's coming from. After a while, I thought that, for some reason, she doesn't want to interact with me or provoke me anymore. I didn't want to judge her.
I don't think she's married. I have seen a ring on her middle finger. Anyways, after that day, I intentionally, arrived later or sooner at the bus stop not to have an encounter with her. Then again, the day before yest., she arrived just after a few minutes. I was about 2, 3 meters away from her. The bus comes from the opposite direction from where I was waiting. So, if she wanted to look at me she has to turn a bit. So, I noticed that she turned her head & look at me several times. I tried not to look at her when she was looking at me & wanted to see what's happening. After all, she might wanted to look at me, the guy suddenly showed the interest of talking to her.
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I've seen her a few times in the last few months. It's correct to say that we two have caught each other checking on each other.
But, I've caught her checking on me much more than me getting caught.
She's from near our area. She gets down from the bus at a stop after me. So, about two weeks ago, we both took the bus in the night from the town. I intentionally sat on the back seat. She sat down two rows ahead. So, if she wants check on me she has to turn back. haha But that was not my ultimate plan. I sat at the back for a different reason. By that time, she knows at where I get down & then walk toward which direction to home from there, etc. So, this day, the bus reached my stop, but I didn't get down. Instead, I observed her reactions from the back. When the crowd started to get down, she tilted her head slowly side to side. I guessed that she was searching for me. Then, when she didn't see me get down, she turned her head to the right to look out of the windows. Because, when I get down from the bus, I have to cross the road to walk to home. She knows that. So, then my previous assumption about she was looking for me was seemingly correct. But, as still, I was at back of the bus, she couldn't see me on the road either. 
Then, the bus started to leave my stop. After few seconds, she turned her head a bit to the left & looked at the window mirrors in the other side of the bus. As you can imagine, that way she saw that I was still in the bus.
I forgot about mentioning this incident yest. night. Thought, it would be interesting.
I just want to share this with you & hope you will do the same. Any ideas, experience might be helpful.
Please, do not try to make jokes about this.
Thanks
For a few weeks I've noticed a girl at the bus stop in town, from where I take the bus back to home in the evening. When I figured the time she arrives there, I started to arrive there near that time. For sometime, I've been checking on her. & I know that she's been checking on me too after she noticed that I'm doing so.
Last week, after trying several days to approach her, I said "Hi" to her at the bus stop. Before that, when she saw me coming to the bus stop, she had a little quick smile. Anyway, when I said "Hi", she didn't reply, or not even looked at me. Then, I asked her name anyway. Because, I thought that she might have not heard me at first, which was sort of impossible though. Anyway, she didn't reply or respond in anyway. She just looked at the direction where the bus's coming from. After a while, I thought that, for some reason, she doesn't want to interact with me or provoke me anymore. I didn't want to judge her.
I don't think she's married. I have seen a ring on her middle finger. Anyways, after that day, I intentionally, arrived later or sooner at the bus stop not to have an encounter with her. Then again, the day before yest., she arrived just after a few minutes. I was about 2, 3 meters away from her. The bus comes from the opposite direction from where I was waiting. So, if she wanted to look at me she has to turn a bit. So, I noticed that she turned her head & look at me several times. I tried not to look at her when she was looking at me & wanted to see what's happening. After all, she might wanted to look at me, the guy suddenly showed the interest of talking to her.
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I'm adding this later..
I've seen her a few times in the last few months. It's correct to say that we two have caught each other checking on each other.
But, I've caught her checking on me much more than me getting caught.She's from near our area. She gets down from the bus at a stop after me. So, about two weeks ago, we both took the bus in the night from the town. I intentionally sat on the back seat. She sat down two rows ahead. So, if she wants check on me she has to turn back. haha
But that was not my ultimate plan. I sat at the back for a different reason. By that time, she knows at where I get down & then walk toward which direction to home from there, etc. So, this day, the bus reached my stop, but I didn't get down. Instead, I observed her reactions from the back. When the crowd started to get down, she tilted her head slowly side to side. I guessed that she was searching for me. Then, when she didn't see me get down, she turned her head to the right to look out of the windows. Because, when I get down from the bus, I have to cross the road to walk to home. She knows that. So, then my previous assumption about she was looking for me was seemingly correct. But, as still, I was at back of the bus, she couldn't see me on the road either. Then, the bus started to leave my stop. After few seconds, she turned her head a bit to the left & looked at the window mirrors in the other side of the bus. As you can imagine, that way she saw that I was still in the bus. I forgot about mentioning this incident yest. night. Thought, it would be interesting.
I just want to share this with you & hope you will do the same. Any ideas, experience might be helpful.
Please, do not try to make jokes about this.
Thanks
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