The Girl at the Bus stop <3

[Weird_Stranger]

'Hi' වගේ ඒවා කියල කතාව පටන් ගන්න යන්න එපා, එතකොට too formal, එහෙම උනාම හරියට proposal එකකට ගිහින් දෙන්න කතා කරන්න හදන mode එකක් එන්නේ, එතකොට ඔක්කොම හිර වෙලා බය වෙලා කෙල වෙනවා...
එකපාර නම අහන්න එපා, වෙන personal ඒවා අහන්නත් එපා...
කැමතිද කියලනන් කීයටවත් අහන්න එපා...
ඉස්සෙල්ලම බය නැතුව දෙන්නටම කතා කරන්න පුළුවන් level එකට communication හදා ගන්න...

දෙන්නටම පොඩි සම්බන්දයක් තියෙන පොඩි දෙයක් (වල් පල්) ගැන කතා කරන්න මුලින් - වැස්ස, traffic, town එකේ වෙනසක්, bus strike, cricket, phone bill change, etc.
පුංචි වාක්‍ය පාවිච්චි කරන්න...
කලින් plan කරගෙන යන ඒවාට වඩා ඒ වෙලාවට අදාල topic එකක් ගැන කියන්න/අහන්න...
උත්තර නොදී ඉන්න හේතුවක් නැති, බය වෙන්න ඕන නැති, දෙයක් කතාවට ගන්න...

slow එකේ relax එකේ යන්න, වැඩිය බලාපොරොත්තු තියාගෙන plan ගහගෙන යන්න එපා එතකොට ඉබේම කතාකරන ඒවා too formal වෙනවා...

අපිත් ඕව ඒ කාලෙ දැනන් හිටියේ නෑ, දැන් දැන ගත්තට ඕන වෙන්නෙත් නෑ, නැත්තෙමත් නෑ...

Bro, before I talked to her, I've been reading a lot about these stuff online, things like what you've said, how to apporach, what to say, etc. Both before & after I started to notice this girl. But the thing is, when I leave to meet her or when she's jst a few feets away from me, that's a whole different story, you know.

Just to make things worse, by nature, I'm mostly an introvert. In the past I've been very shy. But, with the time, I tried hard & could changed my mind to some extent.

& I forgot to say in my post. That, this is not my first encounter with a girl or the first girl I've been attracted to & tried for. But still, when it comes to girls, it's really a difficult thing.

Thanks!

 

[Weird_Stranger]

machan, keep trying. Results might appear late . But after reading your story, I think that she is having a kind of interest in you, so you may have a chance. Good luck

But don't keep much hopes. Get ready for any reply. But please do not overact & do not follow bad paths

Thanks

 

[Dath]

වෙන මුකුත් නෙවෙයි හේතුව ඒකිට කඩ්ඩ බැරුව ඇති.

Lmao

 

[Weird_Stranger]

ගිහින් කියන්න නංගි මන් ගාව gf කෙනෙක්ට වේකන්සියක් තියෙනවා ඇප්ලයි කරන්න ඕනෙනම් cv එකක් හදල දෙන්න කියලා..

ප.ලි. - හරි මාර්ගේ වගේ හදිසි වෙන්නෙත් නැතුව පරක්කු වෙන්නෙත් නැතුව යන්න

 

[lasa_dal]

වෙන මුකුත් නෙවෙයි හේතුව ඒකිට කඩ්ඩ බැරුව ඇති.

sirawata ban ubath mara talks thama denne

 

[Nash_Node]

dude... you said she's around your area right?

machang... easy case noh... find a connection

I means some one of your friends should know her and her friends should know them... blah blah.... find a connection... send a message through one of them..

may be your number.. asking her to drop a sms if she likes to talk ?

 

[asa4215]

oya wade matat una bun habai kellek nemei antek ekka

mama talk kalama wadiya kata kale na

dan dan meki balanwa hina wenawa horen balanwa eka wikarayai

ayet gihin talk karana inne

 

[simpleboy]

When I read your story, this song came to my mind.

 

[Weird_Stranger]

dude... you said she's around your area right?

machang... easy case noh... find a connection

I means some one of your friends should know her and her friends should know them... blah blah.... find a connection... send a message through one of them..

may be your number.. asking her to drop a sms if she likes to talk ?

I checked Facebook friends list of a few friends of mine, who're closer to there. But, what you're suggesting to do is smthing I sort of reluctant to do. Because, I', someone who value the privacy highly. & my life experience about people is not that good at sometimes.

Anyway, thanks machan.

 

[Thoppi_Chaminda]

oya wade matat una bun habai kellek nemei antek ekka

mama talk kalama wadiya kata kale na

dan dan meki balanwa hina wenawa horen balanwa eka wikarayai

ayet gihin talk karana inne

that's ma boy

 

[Weird_Stranger]

bump

 

[Thoppi_Chaminda]

machan while you're trying to that girl watch game of thrones in your free time.

 

[Weird_Stranger]

machan while you're trying to that girl watch game of thrones in your free time.

I'm up-to-date bro.

 

[Ironwingz]

You are on track bro......... Keep it up

 

[Weird_Stranger]

You are on track bro......... Keep it up

Don't know man. Let's see.

Thanks

 

[Weird_Stranger]

matath oya scene ekama wela thiyanawa
issara man class yaddi man yana train eke boxes 3i thiyenne. man naginne 3rd ekata hamadama wage. man nagina station ekata stations 3kata withara passe station eken kellek naginawa eki hamadama naginne man nagina ekatamai. ude office time nisa seats nathi nisa math dora gawa hitagena yanne arakith nagala man innawada hoyala man gawata wela thamai yanne eki german ekiyak. tika kalayak yaddi man wena suddiyek ekka set una. ekith ekka shopping karala gedara yaddi ara kellawa munata hamba una man wena kellek ekka athin allan yanawa dakkama eki man diha balala amuthu hinawak dala giya kello api diha balanne api gana thiyana interest ekatama kiyanna amarui. eka eka reasons thiyanawa

Yes bro.. We have to keep that in mind.

 

[Thoppi_Chaminda]

I'm up-to-date bro.

elaz

 

[Sams.Ryo]

good luck bro.

 

[Weird_Stranger]

good luck bro.

Thanks, But, I don't know if it's gonna work.

 

[Weird_Stranger]

Hi Guys!!!

It's been nearly six months since I published this thread. For those of you who are not up-to-date about the story, please read in order to understand the situation.

OK... After six months where am I now??.

The situation is not so different since that time I talked with her. I have to admit that although I've been trying to forget about her, it's not been very successful. Most of the days, in the evening, I arrive at that bus stop around the time she comes there. Just to see her. Somedays, I go there thinking about smiling with her for a moment. But, when I get there, it's a different situation.

& the thing is I know that when she has noticed that I'm around, she checks on me sometimes.

I couldn't see her for a few weeks. As you know, mostly because of the New Year season. After that, today, I saw her reaching the bus stop when I was reaching there too. Just when I got there, I saw that bus was coming our way from distance. When I looked at the bus, I noticed that she looked at me for a moment. But, I didn't check on her when she was looking at me.

To tell you the truth, this is sort of a miserable situation for both of us. I have thought at a lot of times that she might remorse at times as she didn't talk with me that day. I don't know... I feel that way at times.

This is life..

I want to share this with someone.