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dimuthmike

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    I have seen that "Loving" mothers from western countries who ruined their child by letting all the things child want to do. Sexual changes happening in teenage boys. Some boys getting hormone levels different. Getting more estrogen than testosterone. It leads to have fiminine feelings.Its normal. But after passed that age he can continue life as a normal boy. But some parents in western countries with useless attention seeking liberal ideas, let their child to switch the gender. Ruining a good boy's life. If parents acted strictly his life would have saved.

    Wow.:)
     

    Oli_Vili

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    Hawas wei. Awlk nane

    හවස් වෙනකන් ඉවසන් ඉන්න බෑ දෙයියෝ තියෙන ඔක්කොම ෆොටෝස් වීඩියෝ දැම්ම දාපන් කෝ :lol: :love::yes:;)
     

    MR BOLD

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    I have seen that "Loving" mothers from western countries who ruined their child by letting all the things child want to do. Sexual changes happening in teenage boys. Some boys getting hormone levels different. Getting more estrogen than testosterone. It leads to have fiminine feelings.Its normal. But after passed that age he can continue life as a normal boy. But some parents in western countries with useless attention seeking liberal ideas, let their child to switch the gender. Ruining a good boy's life. If parents acted strictly his life would have saved.

    That is not 'love' dude!. love means to do something best for the child considering present and the future. it also include to correct the wrongs that child do.

    you seems mistaken about what the 'love' is.
    what you are referring is 'foolishness' and not the love.
     

    dayt0na

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    That is not 'love' dude!. love means to do something best for the child considering present and the future. it also include to correct the wrongs that child do.

    you seems mistaken about what the 'love' is.
    what you are referring is 'foolishness' and not the love.

    That is controlling, whether you don't like to use the word or not.
    Are we playing with words here?
     

    dayt0na

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    Not a assumption dude!
    controlling is bad parenting. loving is the best method.
    for a example if you try to control your girlfriend's feelings she will seek love from outside. but if you love her unconditionally, then she will be dedicated to you..

    This comparison does not make sense.
    A Romantic relationship is between two adults who can make informed decisions!
    A Child needs to be controlled to a certain degree and thought right from wrong.
    What's "Right" or "Wrong"" may depend on the particular culture :lol::lol:
     

    MR BOLD

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    That is controlling, whether you don't like to use the word or not.
    Are we playing with words here?

    there is a subtle difference,

    controlling means you do control child's behavior influenced by fear not love.
    loving means you do control child's behavior with love, not fear
     

    BLACKLIST_MEMBER

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    එහෙම වැඩක් නෑ බං ලමයෙක් හදල, උන් ගන්න ඕනෙ කාලෙ fun ගන්න ඕනෙ. එහෙම feelings override කරපුහාම තමයි social phobia, anxiety වගේ මානසික රෝග හැදෙන්නෙ.
    සොභාවිකව සොභාවධර්මයට පිටින් කරන විකාර රූපි ඕනෑම දෙයක් නිසා අතුරු ආභාද හැදෙනවා. සොභාවධර්මයට අදාළ නැහැ සංස්කෘතිය ද අරකද මේකද කෙහෙල්මල්. මිනිස්සු විහින් ඔලුවට දාගෙන ගූ ගොඩවල්, නිකන් විඳවනවා ජිවිතේ විඳින්න තියෙන කාලේ.
     

    MR BOLD

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    This comparison does not make sense.
    A Romantic relationship is between two adults who can make informed decisions!
    A Child needs to be controlled to a certain degree and thought right from wrong.
    What's "Right" or "Wrong"" may depend on the particular culture :lol::lol:

    I took that example because it can be easily understood. people understand the word 'love' in their respective levels. that's the problem here.

    my point is, the teenage girls should be self motivated to stay out of old aged people by their self repulsion and not by the fear to the parents..

    do you get my point?
     

    dayt0na

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    සොභාවිකව සොභාවධර්මයට පිටින් කරන විකාර රූපි ඕනෑම දෙයක් නිසා අතුරු ආභාද හැදෙනවා. සොභාවධර්මයට අදාළ නැහැ සංස්කෘතිය ද අරකද මේකද කෙහෙල්මල්. මිනිස්සු විහින් ඔලුවට දාගෙන ගූ ගොඩවල්, නිකන් විඳවනවා ජිවිතේ විඳින්න තියෙන කාලේ.

    True! but it will be a Game of Thrones in no Time :lol::lol::lol: