Need some advice... :-(

[dushan90]

First of all I don't know whether this is the right place to post this.
If i'm wrong, please correct it.

I need some serious advice Machan. I don't have anyone to tell this. So that's why I thought to post this on EK to get some advices.

Here is the matter.

Machan, there is this girl which I have special feelings for her. But machan, I can't go and ask her about this because of my parents don't like her. It's because that she is Buddhist and I'm a catholic.
I don't like to go against my parents too.
So thats why I didn't ask her because, I don't want to hurt her too.
Coz even if she said yes, I will have to give up on her in the future.
So I tried to be a best friend to her and stay like that. But it's so hard machan. Coz she is the first person in my life which I had feelings.
I don't think she will say NO if asked her coz even now she calls me at least twice a day and if not, I calls her. And she tells me everything and all...
So I fell like such an unlucky person, for being so close to each other and unable to tell her my true feelings.

So what should I do machan?
Please help me guys...

 

[Kumara456]

just wait with love..time will heal everything....

 

[dushan90]

just wait with love..time will heal everything....

 

[upe]

You guys are definitely in love....my suggestion is you should talk to your parents before conveying your true feelings to the girl. Parents are more considerate and appreciate their children talking to them before things get carried too far. They are the ones who know you the most and will give you the best advice. Don't wait until things get too far and you can't change what you have done. Tell your true situation and explain it to them and most probably, they will let you have your way. Don't be scared to talk to them! Good luck malli!

(p.s. I found my bf from ek and the first thing we did was tell our parents....he is Christian and I am Buddhist and we have been dating for almost 2 years now )

 

[¤--bACarDi--¤]

catholic Buddhist won't be a big deal man go ask her out!!

 

[dilhansen]

You guys are definitely in love....my suggestion is you should talk to your parents before conveying your true feelings to the girl. Parents are more considerate and appreciate their children talking to them before things get carried too far. They are the ones who know you the most and will give you the best advice. Don't wait until things get too far and you can't change what you have done. Tell your true situation and explain it to them and most probably, they will let you have your way. Don't be scared to talk to them! Good luck malli!

(p.s. I found my bf from ek and the first thing we did was tell our parents....he is Christian and I am Buddhist and we have been dating for almost 2 years now )

Well said Upe, most of our younger generation doing this mistake, 1st they should know that parents are not our enemy. some times they might be rough,harsh. They also not like to be this, they doing this with goodwill. we getting this in negative manner.

Dear Bro, as Upe telling talk with your parents. they will do proper thing to your life. Good luck

 

[razer knight]

bump.

 

[razer knight]

 

[razer knight]

dnt worry u would succeed!

 

[JKSSSS]

depends machan.....hw old are u?

 

[dushan90]

You guys are definitely in love....my suggestion is you should talk to your parents before conveying your true feelings to the girl. Parents are more considerate and appreciate their children talking to them before things get carried too far. They are the ones who know you the most and will give you the best advice. Don't wait until things get too far and you can't change what you have done. Tell your true situation and explain it to them and most probably, they will let you have your way. Don't be scared to talk to them! Good luck malli!

(p.s. I found my bf from ek and the first thing we did was tell our parents....he is Christian and I am Buddhist and we have been dating for almost 2 years now )

Thank you so much akki. I'll try my best. But i don't know how to enter to the subject!! You are the one with experience, so can you advice me on that too?

 

[dushan90]

depends machan.....hw old are u?

Y? I'm 21.

 

[dushan90]

Well said Upe, most of our younger generation doing this mistake, 1st they should know that parents are not our enemy. some times they might be rough,harsh. They also not like to be this, they doing this with goodwill. we getting this in negative manner.

Dear Bro, as Upe telling talk with your parents. they will do proper thing to your life. Good luck

Thanks for the advice bro...

 

[JKSSSS]

Y? I'm 21.

na ithin umba 14-18 vage nan oi feeling arila yanawa ne (usually)....umbe case eke nan ammalata katha karana eka tham honda

 

[dushan90]

catholic Buddhist won't be a big deal man go ask her out!!

The problem is not asking her out. My problem is with my parents no. I don't want to do anything without their blessings.

 

[dushan90]

na ithin umba 14-18 vage nan oi feeling arila yanawa ne (usually)....umbe case eke nan ammalata katha karana eka tham honda

Eka thama amaruma part eka bro

 

[¤--bACarDi--¤]

The problem is not asking her out. My problem is with my parents no. I don't want to do anything without their blessings.

why don't they like her??

 

[coolshano]

epa machan.. keep her as ur friend..

 

[IveyStyle]

love karanna issella..pirimiyek weyan...
konda kelin tiya ganin...

 

[dushan90]

Hey I talked with my mom about the matter. And she said that she'll ask dad and let me know the decision.