දකුණේ අයට කොළඹ උන්ව සෙට් වෙන්නේ නැද්ද? Specially වැලිගම/මිරිස්ස

KAZPER

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    I’m a local from colombo and I got an opportunity to work at a Restaurant in Weligama. I was counting fingers for this opportunity but I’m feelings anxious because many people warned me to be extra polite with southerners because they don’t trust people very much from Colombo and they’re very territorial. But if they trust you they’re the best people in the country.

    I’m an ambivert person but I believe I’m genuine and don’t want any conflicts with people around there because of my behaviors. Since I prefer sometimes to be alone by myself and I’m not the type of a person going around asking people how they’re doing and their personal stuff. Reason I’m saying this is because recently I visited this restaurant to discuss about the work and at there I didn’t feel very welcoming. I don’t know if it’s just me or they look differently at people from Colombo.

    Let me know what you guys think and also let me know how to win their trust and get along with them.
     

    Gingy

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    Stand your ground, don't act like *ponnaya*, You will make real friends :) Hora wage ahinsaka part dala inna amarui, thats when people do not trust you, Be open and speak your mind, fight if you have to. You will be one of them soon enough
     

    KAZPER

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    Stand your ground, don't act like *ponnaya*, You will make real friends :) Hora wage ahinsaka part dala inna amarui, thats when people do not trust you, Be open and speak your mind, fight if you have to. You will be one of them soon enough
    Thanks machan!
    මුලින්ම උන්ව බය කරගනින්. නැත්නම් කරදරයි
    ගෙදරට ගිහින් ගෙදර එකාව බය කරන්න වගේ කතාවක් ඒක 😂
     
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    Monkey D Dragon

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    Sampi08

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    ඔව්,වැලිගම එවුන් කොලබ ආවත් එහෙම තමා.උන් හිටන් ඉන්නෙ මාතර කියන්නෙ ලංකාව කියලා.
     
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    KAZPER

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    Ambivert nam tikam amarui. Dakune hama ekama wage extrovert . Amu waduru kunuharapa palanawa . Wali seen eke inne hugk welawata . kari kapati nisa alert eke inna ona. Nathnam ata dekawath ithuru wenne na. Habai ubwa unta fit unoth bokka galawala unath denwa.
    This is exactly what one of my friends told me who lived there for six months
     
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