Machan, your initial statement affects all so I believe everyone who uses EK has a right to comment on that.
And word of advice, if you think that these public forums needs to be your safe place or some shit then it isn't for you to be honest. And that has nothing to do about how long you have been on EK cos it is pure based on how mature you are. So if you are looking for a forum where you hear/read what you like I think FB/Insta are sort of the forums you are looking for. There you will get like minded people who will say shit that you find pleasing and safe