පර්ත්හි ඉන්දිකට සුදු බිරිය හා නැන්දම්මාගේ ප්‍රශ්න තිබුණා

proceso

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    Not gonna comment on this incident, as we don't know what truly happened.

    But a general comment to the discussion,

    If you grew up in Sri Lanka your whole life, and now you have settled down in a foreign country, it's a useless exercise to try to be one of them. PR/Naturalization doesn't make you one of them. This is what most people get wrong about integration. Integration is about respecting the rules, regulations, and culture of your new country. It's not about you becoming one of them.

    It's not just about the skin color (it is a factor, sure), but it's also about who you are, how & where you grew up. You can't magically change yourself just because of a piece of paper.

    The moment you realize you are not one of them, you'll enjoy your life outside SL much better.

    Racism is as real as you make it.
    Agree machan (Y)
     

    SLhuman

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    Not gonna comment on this incident, as we don't know what truly happened.

    But a general comment to the discussion,

    If you grew up in Sri Lanka your whole life, and now you have settled down in a foreign country, it's a useless exercise to try to be one of them. PR/Naturalization doesn't make you one of them. This is what most people get wrong about integration. Integration is about respecting the rules, regulations, and culture of your new country. It's not about you becoming one of them.

    It's not just about the skin color (it is a factor, sure), but it's also about who you are, how & where you grew up. You can't magically change yourself just because of a piece of paper.

    The moment you realize you are not one of them, you'll enjoy your life outside SL much better.

    Racism is as real as you make it.
    i am with you on that machan.. you never going to be them and they will never be you. you dont need to be them you just need to be economically strong as a community and yourself. look at the indians. sometimes you need to be thick skinned and not take racism into yourself. its easy to whine like a pussy but then you cant change the world.
    for example i have openly told aussies that its funny the way the speak becuase the mutter words and its very difficult to understand...when they laugh at some of the thing we do. its part of give and take.. till the asians in the world become powerful may be in 2100 like india and china we will be looked down upon. i dont blame them because all they see it shit things about us.
     
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    ruwantheekshana

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    you never going to be them and they will never be you. you dont need to be them you just need to be economically strong as a community and yourself
    Amen to this :-).

    Our main purpose of migrating should be to build a strong educational and financial background for ourselves.

    Additionally, if you wanna be accepted, you would have to blend into their society by attending their community events, functions, parties, and most importantly, accepting and practicing their values (the good ones of course).
     
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    MrCat

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    Amen to this :-).

    Our main purpose of migrating should be to build a strong educational and financial background for ourselves.

    Additionally, if you wanna be accepted, you would have to blend into their society by attending their community events, functions, parties, and most importantly, accepting and practicing their values (the good ones of course).

    Agree a 100%

    Most narrow minded and low IQ kinda people tend to see the world through social media crap written by similar kind of people. The fun bit is that they tend to jump to conclusions with certainty and then act based on the same crap as well. :lol: Not just in SL, it is a world-wide trend to make used of the gullible herd these days, how the heck did Trump and then Biden got "elected" as the president of the U.S of A otherwise?. :lol:

    "financial management", "common sense" and "language" is all you need to do well anywhere in the world really. And obviously paper qualifications + education to make a start!
     

    SLK_sri

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    මගේ නම් අදහස ඌ මනසික රෝගියෙක් කියන එක..ඔය මිතුරෝ කියන උනුත් හරි නම් ඔහොම දෙයක් නොවෙන්ඩ වග බලාගන්ඩ තිබ්බ, උනාට පස්සෙ කියවන මිතුරන්ගෙන් ඇති වැඩක් නැ


    a wagema thamai samaharu innawa, දෙයක් නොවෙන්ඩ වග බලාගන්ඩ kochchara kiuwath nahayata ahanne nathi moda pandiha wesige puthalath
     

    NushenD

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    මගේ නම් අදහස ඌ මනසික රෝගියෙක් කියන එක..ඔය මිතුරෝ කියන උනුත් හරි නම් ඔහොම දෙයක් නොවෙන්ඩ වග බලාගන්ඩ තිබ්බ, උනාට පස්සෙ කියවන මිතුරන්ගෙන් ඇති වැඩක් නැ
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    Emios

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    Ekek marala ivara unamawath sihiya enne nedda bn.e kiyanne amuthuma world ekakata yanawa athi brain eka
     

    Mr.Yo

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    ජර්මන්ලට පස්සේ වැඩිම කාලකන්නි racist ඉන්නේ ඔසී වල.
    lol..magula thama..europe eetapasse uk oya set ekenma last inne aus..ekath regional suburbs godak welawata...perth,QLD wage pattama racist
     

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