A girl can be your best friend?

dilan87

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    yeah defiantly t z possible...
    but da fact z dah even f u truly want 2 bcm her best friend either herslf or da friendz around u, would make u to see her and feel her as if she'z more to ur gal friend rather than da best buddy.

    but as they say a guy and a gal never can b friendz...i think it'z a bullshit
    my point z would u ever fall for ur own sister if she'z ur best friend???
    think abt t...it'z all abt u..and hw u take t
     
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    crazy_girl

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    well machan... i think u r luky to be on that side... but uknow.. iwasnt that much lukyy.. what happnd to me was my very own gal frnd which was with me for like 5 years.. all f sudden found a new friend... a best frnd like ur mentioning here... ( the reason for that was i was like too harsh for her and all.. and that bugger was a well listener and alll..)

    and after a while and many phone calls she and that guy had beacme lovers...

    and after that onl;y i got to knw the case....
    and i was shokked...

    then i desided to leave her as i cant stay wth her any longer....

    but she cried and promised me that she will forget everythng and alll..

    so i decided to gv her another chance... but it seeems very difiicult for her to forget ths soo called few months frnd rather than 5 years boy frnd...

    so day bfre y day i thght im gonna leave her forever and they will live happily...
    and im gonna inform that to her tomorrow....hmmmmmm
    thats allllll.....................................:(((


    Hey bro.. dun b stupid men..
    Its nt d best solution u cn take.. Well, me went thru d same thing sumdays back.. i knw hw hard it is.. but.. u knw, u try to b soft to her.. try 2 lstn 2 her.. try to love her more.. dats wt u gotta to rather dan lettin her go with andr..

    U knw wt.. i had d same thing wif ma BF.. May b cuz m still a small gal, the nature f a a gal around this age is playful nah.. so, i always remembrd ma 1st crush tho iv neva seen him nor tokd to him 4 ages.. ( more dan 3 years wage).. thos days we vr very best frnds.. but suddenly he threw me away.. n still i cnt find a reason.. but this stupid me was findin him n findin him.. lol.. Recently i found a guy who ws sooo much familiar to him.. i mean soo much like ma 1st crush.. and i was attached to him.. soo much.. i loved d way he tokd.. d way he behavd n all.. 4 d 1st tym imma lyf i lied to ma BF becoz i ws so attracted to him.. Btw, ma Bf ws soo confusd, n suddenly he found dat the guy who s tokin to me z a cybr sex bugger.. 1st he washes the brain n den make d gal watch porn.. actually dat tym ma Bf was about to leav me with dat guy cuz f ma hapines.. but eyata pinsidda wenda he told "no m nt gonna let u go with that bugger since he is a cyba sex lovr".. i fell soo sorry 4 maslf m him.. Atlast i 4got him n went back to ma BF.. :) thats wt hapnd.. I said this to u since u can get sumthin frm this stry.. Dun let ya gal go with andr.. (make sure that d person is a gud 1 unless u send her 4 her happiness).. Actually sacrificing is a very gud thing.. its andr factr of love.. but nt in this way bro.. Actually she doesnt like to leav u n dats y she promisd u dat she ll 4 get evrythin tho she cudnt.. Now wt u hv to think is At the end she still hs a feeling abt u in her heart nah.. so u shud knw to make her grow it.. Find ya mistakes n recorrect thos.. ALWAYS TRY TO B SOFT TO A GAL.. dun go 4 a broke up bro.. u still hv tym to solv it..think of wt i sayd twise..
     

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    Umm.. sahenda bonna oona prashnayak.. :D lol

    Actually a gal cn b d best frnd of a guy.. n i can giv loads of xamples to u 2 prove it.. But lemme say it like dis.. simply, its nt last long most f d tyms..
    If u hv a gf o sumday u gonna find a gf 4 sure nah.. so in dat situation its nt dat easy to keep a gal as ya best frnd.. Ya GF might tell u to stop chattin o hangin with her eventho she is just a frnd f urs.. even its ya best frnd n not more dan dan.. This goes same with d guys to.. thr ae soo many guys that iv seen, they dun like thr gals go hang with andr guy even tho he is her best frnd o jus a frnd f her.. dats d human nature.. so according to my theory.. its nt impossible to kp a gal as ya best frnd.. u can.. but its hell soo hard !!
    It last long only till ya a single !! lol :lol:
     

    nabil

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    well my so called "best friend" whose a girl turned out to become my girl friend. and in time to come my wife (hopefully).
    But we had a relationship between best friends and lovers for a looong time.

    But u can still be best friends with her even when going out. i dont see a problem. so according to that hypothesis, yes a girl can be your best friend. :)
     

    CoolCartoon

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    I'm with u machan..........
    mageth best friend una girl kenek innava..
    but I love her machan... i didn't tel her yet...

    things kinda different with me..i told her and she kinda wanted to it happen and now she wanna stay away from me... but she calls me every day and bla bla all complicated shit............
     

    Sonique

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    Oya dakina widihen thamai eka wenne. Girl kenek best friend wenna puluwanda mama danne na habai close friend kenek karaganna puluwan. Eka love ekak kiyala hithagena samahara kattiya wada kaagannawa :lol:
     

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    crazy_girl said:
    Umm.. sahenda bonna oona prashnayak.. :D lol

    Actually a gal cn b d best frnd of a guy.. n i can giv loads of xamples to u 2 prove it.. But lemme say it like dis.. simply, its nt last long most f d tyms..
    If u hv a gf o sumday u gonna find a gf 4 sure nah.. so in dat situation its nt dat easy to keep a gal as ya best frnd.. Ya GF might tell u to stop chattin o hangin with her eventho she is just a frnd f urs.. even its ya best frnd n not more dan dan.. This goes same with d guys to.. thr ae soo many guys that iv seen, they dun like thr gals go hang with andr guy even tho he is her best frnd o jus a frnd f her.. dats d human nature.. so according to my theory.. its nt impossible to kp a gal as ya best frnd.. u can.. but its hell soo hard !!
    It last long only till ya a single !! lol :lol:

    100% correct. :D
     

    CoolCartoon

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    sajithgamage said:
    for me , a girl cant be my best friend. it's never ever gonna happen coz the last tym i had a good best friend (girl) we ended up being lovers...:lol:

    and after when it came to thumbs-down for our relationship , all the friendship, love and bla bla bla vanished too ;)

    in conclusion, jst had one good best girl firnd and it wz a disaster...:lol: :P i donno abt the future though ;)

    so whts going on with u? i got to knw tht u got a crush these days, LYK OLD DAYS..:lol: ;) typical Janii ;)
    btw, wht wz the brand? ;) i mean alcohol? :P


    yeah typical me.... but things are kinda different than you think.....
    it is not just a crush...all complicated.... will talk to youh later... btw it is happy to see you still hang around here... :P

    alcohol brand.... some cheap red wine.....but i know what you are asking...lol.... sri lankan.
     

    CoolCartoon

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    crazy_girl said:
    Umm.. sahenda bonna oona prashnayak.. :D lol

    Actually a gal cn b d best frnd of a guy.. n i can giv loads of xamples to u 2 prove it.. But lemme say it like dis.. simply, its nt last long most f d tyms..
    If u hv a gf o sumday u gonna find a gf 4 sure nah.. so in dat situation its nt dat easy to keep a gal as ya best frnd.. Ya GF might tell u to stop chattin o hangin with her eventho she is just a frnd f urs.. even its ya best frnd n not more dan dan.. This goes same with d guys to.. thr ae soo many guys that iv seen, they dun like thr gals go hang with andr guy even tho he is her best frnd o jus a frnd f her.. dats d human nature.. so according to my theory.. its nt impossible to kp a gal as ya best frnd.. u can.. but its hell soo hard !!
    It last long only till ya a single !! lol :lol:

    it is hell hard... yeah... true.... :(
     

    yoshrox

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    i think the best person who can reply to this topic is me...

    mage hondama yaluwa boy kenek..ma best frnd is a guy..and our frnship is almost abt 2 and half years nw..i thnk v hav da most strongest bond ever..as frnds..mage jeewithe mage closema kena eya..mage jeewithe hama dema eyata kiyanne..evn he s da same..

    yday nyt i had da most worst fight wid him..coz he has thought dat i dun take him as ma best frnd anymore...
    bt dats coz v thnk vl loose each other..

    he has a girl frnd..da girl he love..dats different and our frndhsip is different..bt he do care for me lyk da way he does for his girl...for da 1st tym he cried last nyt evn..

    annd ewage u cn hv a guy or a girl as a best frnd..dats nt a big deal..

    mage yaluwata mama godak adarei..eyath ehemai..bt nuting more dan dat..


     

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    hmm

    Hariyata haeri...elama thama...


    yoshrox said:
    i think the best person who can reply to this topic is me...

    mage hondama yaluwa boy kenek..ma best frnd is a guy..and our frnship is almost abt 2 and half years nw..i thnk v hav da most strongest bond ever..as frnds..mage jeewithe mage closema kena eya..mage jeewithe hama dema eyata kiyanne..evn he s da same..

    yday nyt i had da most worst fight wid him..coz he has thought dat i dun take him as ma best frnd anymore...
    bt dats coz v thnk vl loose each other..

    he has a girl frnd..da girl he love..dats different and our frndhsip is different..bt he do care for me lyk da way he does for his girl...for da 1st tym he cried last nyt evn..

    annd ewage u cn hv a guy or a girl as a best frnd..dats nt a big deal..

    mage yaluwata mama godak adarei..eyath ehemai..bt nuting more dan dat..


     

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    crazy_girl said:
    Umm.. sahenda bonna oona prashnayak.. :D lol

    Actually a gal cn b d best frnd of a guy.. n i can giv loads of xamples to u 2 prove it.. But lemme say it like dis.. simply, its nt last long most f d tyms..
    If u hv a gf o sumday u gonna find a gf 4 sure nah.. so in dat situation its nt dat easy to keep a gal as ya best frnd.. Ya GF might tell u to stop chattin o hangin with her eventho she is just a frnd f urs.. even its ya best frnd n not more dan dan.. This goes same with d guys to.. thr ae soo many guys that iv seen, they dun like thr gals go hang with andr guy even tho he is her best frnd o jus a frnd f her.. dats d human nature.. so according to my theory.. its nt impossible to kp a gal as ya best frnd.. u can.. but its hell soo hard !!
    It last long only till ya a single !! lol :lol:


    NO IT WANT..DEN WAT ABT ME AND MA BEST FRND..