A reply for saying the truth..

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She was a one of my best friends,pretty,nice looking and clever. Our friendship started on 23rd February 2008...during our friendship I felt that I love her....but didn't tell her...Because I thought that I will lose my best friend...Some of my friends knew that I loved her.....But after few days I thought to stop thinking about a love with her.I don't know why.But I did..But my friends didn't know that...I was unable to say that to them...however she heared that I love her from them...but at that time I was not loving her..I had removed that idea..But she didn't know the TRUTH and She got angry and she stopped our friendship on 23rd May 2008...I was shoked...Not becasue loosing my love....because loosing my best friend...as her last sms to me she said me that "Thamuse maha jara lamayek....." and many more.....

During our friendship we helped each other by exchanging educational items,,,such as books,papers and tutes.my friends also knew that.She is interested in western music,such as Shakira , West Life etc..She requested them from me..I downloaded them and gave her.
Sometimes she got missed calles from unknown persons...She msg d me to find about them...I tried my best for that.....

Last week..I got my books and tutes which I gave her.I didn't need them.so I gave them to one of my friends.On that day my friend messaged me that there was a blaming letter from her inside my books.Next day I got it.It was written on the cover of my chemistry tute....She had started it with "Thakathiruwo.....".Written in an very ugly way....100% ugly...but without "kunuharupa"...

I also had some of her books.So I thought to reply her...
But I didn't use an ugly way....the opposite way...I always use "good". So started it through a kind way.I told the full story which I told you above.and some advices to her as a good friend...and gave it through her books by a her friend,,,,

On the next day, my friend showed me that she was showing me to her friends with smiling.She was smiling.really.but not with me.But I went away from there.

I met her on the railway station..I was there with my friends...She was also there...friends said me that she was looking at me always with smiling...But I didn't look at her.I don't know why.
At my home I thought that She might understand my story and will ask for our friendship again.
So today 16/Aug /2008 I went there to talk with her about that.

She was with some friendz.And I'm also. I was afraid to face her. because Who knows! If she begin to blame in the train...So I waited for until she is getting alone.but I couldn't...one of her friends,who are in near my home was there.so How can I talk with her alone....I was unable...

I had deleted her mobile number from my phone...but still remember in my mind...So I came home and sent this message.
"" Yar..Thought that you are not angry with me.I'm not angry with you.but I'm afraid to face u.today I came to talk with u about that,but I saw that u are still in angry mood...Is this the result for Saying truth? May be.ha.ha..I dnt knw.If I'm wrong for the above matter..plz notify me..Because I always think that u aren't angry with me.it has become a really matter to me.itz your "Upasaka Dog" ""
(upasaka Dog- a way how she had called me in her blaming letter)

So what do you think ?
What was the reply ?

here it is....

"" Apo me.themuseda...mama hithuwa mage yaluwek kiyala.ma gawa ohege number aka na.sory for the mis call.mata aye mis call deela wadayak wenna epa...mama u th ekka kathakaran na.........."""
(mis call-I gave a mis call to her to check that is her number available at that time...and she gave a mis call...I am in a new number.thats why she has told that "mama hithuwe mage yaluwek kiyala.sory for the mis call...")

I replied...
"" Feeling a Great Happiness...I'm not wrong....Sorry for sending this...Oyawa hadanda ba....Completely removed ""



Thats All......

So Dear my friends in Elakiri.com
What do you think about my story ?
Am I wrong ?
:D
 

nEoN_wHitE

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    no way.. i dont think that u r wrong.. i think she have some mental problem :eek:
    ochara kiyalath if she cant face da fact wat da hell... everythign has a limit ne.. ithin ochara therenna kiyala pase still therenne natham api kiyala monawa karana da neda?
    eyata hoda kenek wa labena nathuwa athi.. u dont worry.. b happy.. u wont b able 2 4get her.. bt still try 2 move on:):D
     

    nEoN_wHitE

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    PS
    some times eya oya gana hithana de dana gatha vidiya upset wenna athi
    i mean oya eyata kamathen hitiya kiyala eyata kiyapu kena varadi vidiyata kiyanna athi.. so ekata eya upset athi..
    bt dnt know.. just a thot:):D
     
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    nEoN_wHitE said:
    PS
    some times eya oya gana hithana de dana gatha vidiya upset wenna athi
    i mean oya eyata kamathen hitiya kiyala eyata kiyapu kena varadi vidiyata kiyanna athi.. so ekata eya upset athi..
    bt dnt know.. just a thot:):D

    I believe the same

    but doesn't matter...
    I never follow girls...
    because I think Kanthawa= Karadara
     

    sboy

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    Shittt.... Gaanu ohoma thama.
    Ganu mole handi mite digata ne.
    Eth umba waradi na. umba karala thiyenne hari de.
    Unta owa therum ganda baruwa ati
    Ganan Ganda epa machan.
    Owa ohoma thama
     

    TΞΞNSTAR™

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    StuCk In My AnGelZ HeArT!!!
    Affatahudu machnz... 1st of all.. HATS OFF MACHNZ.. seriously the way u acted seriously awesome...

    Its like that only machnz.. some girls.. dont undrstand guyz feelings.. they jst think abt thier selvez... seriously if i waz that gal... i would hav clarifyd wit u other than yelling at you.. machnz dnt worry bang.... dis gal.. doesnt suit u machnz... u deserve a MUCH BETTER gal 4 ur kind heart kolla... seriously mean it...

    Dont Hurt d Heart dat luvs u ..

    ND DONT GIV A DAMN TO D HEART DAT HURTS U ... so dnt giv a shit abt her machnz... she will be sorry 4 wat she did.. she will undrstand u later.. on dat time.. ull b wit d most matching gal 4 u machnz.....

    tnx 4 sharing this wit us machn
     

    SpyBlaster

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    u knw wat machoo datz their own way.. v can du nuthin...
    but u dnt worry coz u sed truth..

    one day sh'll gt 2 knw the reality..
    on that she'll blame on herself
     

    ruchj9

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    Well done brother! You acted in a good manner, trying to solve the problem and not trying to get away from it. I wish a friend of mine could have as much courage as you had to forget everything.

    Anyway don't think you haven't gained anything from this. For starters you've got a lot of experience now about girls. Judging from what you have said, i don't think that she would be the right person for you (i seriously can't say something like that, since i know neither of you)

    Don't worry bro, the one for you is still out there. And believe me when i say, you'll know it exactly, when you find her.

    Cheers
     

    nilan101

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    inside my own life !!!!
    owa ganan ganna epa ban....umbe waraddak na....kello kawadaawat kollo gana terum ganne na....e gollan hitanne e gollo gana witarai.habai udawwak ona wechcha welawata apita berenna ba passen mai...anik wela wata apiwa matakath na...tawa kiyanna puluwan eth kiyala wadak na....umba ganan ganna epa......
     

    ni_shi2005

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    Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!
    Oya eyava love karanda start karapu dawasama!!
    if ya asked me for Ideas................maru Idea's denda thibba!!

    too late now


    Hey Losin a Friend is a Loss!!!so u lost one!!
    and if ya found a nice one sooon den itz ok!!



    and your Reply was awsome......
    but mata hithanne aparade kiyala!!
     

    ni_shi2005

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    nilan101 said:
    owa ganan ganna epa ban....umbe waraddak na....kello kawadaawat kollo gana terum ganne na....e gollan hitanne e gollo gana witarai.habai udawwak ona wechcha welawata apita berenna ba passen mai...anik wela wata apiwa matakath na...tawa kiyanna puluwan eth kiyala wadak na....umba ganan ganna epa......
    mmmmmmmmmmmmm!! poddak eththa thamai!!
     

    Rihana1984

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    mama nam hithanne kawuru hari kenek e girlta oyawa epa wena widiye deyak kiyanna ethi. May b one of ur friends. Anyway, dnt worry! eya kawada hari eththa dena gani.
     

    ahamednishadh

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    bro its lyk this. girls never dont understand. they take a long time to understand by which time its too late. they think they r sum kind of gods and we have to be in their feet always.
    bro wat u did was not wrong in n e way according to wat i think. its jst dat she doesnt deserve to have a good frnd. ill tell u wat. one day she will have been betrayed by a person whome she actually thought was a good frnd that u and dat is da day which she will understand u. dont worry macho. life has to go on wat ever happens. these are all minor stuff. if she doesnt lyk u then find ur self a girl who like u man. a girl who likes u is better than u wanting to be wit a girl whome only u like.

    n e way jst forget abt her and go on wit ur work. dont even regret loosing her frndship coz she will have to regret more than u. once again dont worry abt it. jst go ahead wit ur own life and forget abt her.
     

    Sonique

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    Man if it was me in your position that ugly little f**** A****e would be in a living hell:angry: . Man you have acted more than good:yes: . (Sorry I had to use those two words because she deserves it. Don't get a hard feeling on me:D )
     

    dickey

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    nEoN_wHitE said:
    no way.. i dont think that u r wrong.. i think she have some mental problem :eek:
    ochara kiyalath if she cant face da fact wat da hell... everythign has a limit ne.. ithin ochara therenna kiyala pase still therenne natham api kiyala monawa karana da neda?
    eyata hoda kenek wa labena nathuwa athi.. u dont worry.. b happy.. u wont b able 2 4get her.. bt still try 2 move on:):D
    :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: i think u r lucky