About rooms - please help

[nishisl]

Hi Guys,
First of all apologies if im posting this kind of question in this thread, im not sure whether its allowed but im in a situation seeking for your help and im sure u will help me

Im 19 yrs old girl, im in love with a guy of my same age (we met up in a comptuer class)
now it has been around 4months we going out, now my guy wants to go to a room, i know what will happen next, but im confused now,
and he says now everyone goes to that,
is it common in srilanka, im afraid that he will think that i dont love him,
i dont want to loose him, shall i go ahead or shall i not, please help me
is it common here, or he is just asking me only

 

[pjayampathi]

hhtaa.. ane mama nam owwaa danne nee.

 

[dinuwije]

well sis, I can't tell u what to do,but i can definitely tell u that the guy wants only bodily needs from u in this relationship.So u should think about it & decide for urself whether u want to ruin ur whole life for a guy u'v hardly known for 4 months.
I mean I'v been in a relationship for the past 5 1/2 yrs but i've never wanted to go to hotel rooms with my GF.There r some ppl who do engage in physical relationships in our country,but that doesn't mean that its very common or every couple does it.

So think about it & talk to this guy about it if ur uncomfortable with it.Remember,if he really loves u as u think he does,he'll respect ur wishes instead of forcing u 2 go through with something which will almost certainly ruing ur life forever

So this is my advice

 

[dinuwije]

and I know some girls who ruined their lives by taking bad decisions in their life.One girl I know is undergoing mental therapy now after she got pregnant by her boyfriend who left her after hearing about her pregnancy.

She's only 22 yrs old now with a fatherless kid which her parents r taking care of now cos she's admitted in a hospital to prevent her from taking drastic measures like suicide cos of the depression she's in right now

So do u wanna ruin ur life like that?? This age is the best time in ur life.I remember when i was 19 yrs,i enjoyed life like anything.So y do u want to ruin it??

 

[inter1]

i dont think the guy is a good fellow.......better stay away from him before its too late

 

[ASMAnuradha]

i dont think the guy is a good fellow.......better stay away from him before its too late

ya , i agree with him

 

[romero2005]

naga I think he isn't love you very much.because within 4 month we cannt do a thing like that.when u got a approval from your parents and after some time its ok.for now i am disagree

 

[massina]

dear nangi...people who are really in love don't do this kind of things . Think your BF is not genuine. Please do not waste your life. Whatever he says, don't agree these kind of things. Else you'll destroy your whole life...

 

[dumira j]

dear nangi...people who are really in love don't do this kind of things . Think your BF is not genuine. Please do not waste your life. Whatever he says, don't agree these kind of things. Else you'll destroy your whole life...

oya apita athal ekak denna awa kenek wenna athi bro...

 

[hirushan]

ane mey yanna hallo first post ekatama elakiri eka mol karan nathuwa....atthama kiyanawanam rooms hoyanna nam mage kisima adahasak naa thama......

 

[waleryan]

dear nangi...people who are really in love don't do this kind of things . Think your BF is not genuine. Please do not waste your life. Whatever he says, don't agree these kind of things. Else you'll destroy your whole life...

aaaaa massineeeeee........kaalekata passe....umbata me wage ewama thiyenne onee reply karanna neda?? he he he ..anyway mamath kiyanne kollanang naughty kollek thamai if he's gonna leave u if u dont go to a room with him...let him go..coz he doesnt really love u....

 

[Clerk_Kent]

No comments

 

[uditha_d]

love = sex

 

[massina]

aaaaa massineeeeee........kaalekata passe....umbata me wage ewama thiyenne onee reply karanna neda?? he he he ..anyway mamath kiyanne kollanang naughty kollek thamai if he's gonna leave u if u dont go to a room with him...let him go..coz he doesnt really love u....

hehh heee.....

 

[jayanthah]

oya apita athal ekak denna awa kenek wenna athi bro...

Agreed...............

A girl so naive yet so brave to put up a question like that in a public forum.............all these doesnt add up....................I dont think Elakiriyan's should waste their time on these kind of things...........

 

[buddhika19]

4 months walin oyawa room 1ka kata ekka yanna taram oya denna atara awabodaya tiyenawada? mama nam hitanne naa oyata a kolla love karanawa kiyala....................................... deparak hitanna,

oya hodai meka thread dapu aka...................

oya wage dewal walata moda kello noyek welawata ahu wenawa, oya a atin godak buddhimath

 

[miyuru4u]

elakiri ekatat dan maara problemsa thama enne?

 

[bhai4uanu]

Hi Guys,
First of all apologies if im posting this kind of question in this thread, im not sure whether its allowed but im in a situation seeking for your help and im sure u will help me

Im 19 yrs old girl, im in love with a guy of my same age (we met up in a comptuer class)
now it has been around 4months we going out, now my guy wants to go to a room, i know what will happen next, but im confused now,
and he says now everyone goes to that,
is it common in srilanka, im afraid that he will think that i dont love him,
i dont want to loose him, shall i go ahead or shall i not, please help me
is it common here, or he is just asking me only

ane akke yannam epa!!!!

 

[sunnetmedia]

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[northtech]

meya apiwa hawa karanna hadanawa wage !!!!