demawpiyo saha 18 plus lamai

Nalin25

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Nadeesha Yapage, gana liyawechcha thread eke kenek liyala thibuna menna mehema interesting kathawak,

"teledrama eka balanawa wage ;) bohoma amaruwen ban gedara ayath ekka balanne :D"


attatama oka neda, ape rate godak gewal wala sad situation eka?

parents lai, awurudu 18 panna lamainui (young adults) hama thissema, clash wenawa, ekko relationships gana, ehema nathinam parents la gen money illala, tv programs beda ganna baruwa, friendsla gana etc., etc., etc.,

eeye pereda, mehe mage neighbor, eyage 18 wechcha kollawa, gederin elewwa, gihin hamba karapan, ehema nathinam student loan ekak aran degree ekak karapan kiyala.


maha kurullo koodu haduwata, pataw loku wunama, unta kooduwe ida denne naha. pataw, piyabala gihin thamangema kiyala kooduwak thana gannawa. ehema wunama, maha kurullo, marena wayasa, sathutin samadanayen gatha karanawa. oka sathwa loke hama sathatama wage podui. ehema thamai wenna oneth.


anika, ehema wenna western world eke witharakwath, sathwa loke witharak wath nemei, lankweth dan tikak durata hari wenawa.

For e.g. Rs. 1.5 millions lamainge private university education wenuwen save karapu parents la, boho durata thamange lamainta, 19 weddima graduate wela, parents lage few important contacts walin job ekakuth hoyala deela, ikmanata independent wenna, chance eka hadala denawa. ehema wasanawantha lamai, thamantama kiyala punchi apartment ekak rent karagena, flat panel tv ekakuth aran, thamange life eka thamunta one widiyata, katawath hiri harayak nowi, full fun eke gatha karanawa.


eth university qualify wenna bari bawa dana danama A/L karanna push karala, godaaak parents lamaiwa 20 wunamath, thamange odokkuwe thiya gannawa. anthime samahara lamai 25 plus wunath, inne parents lath ekkamai, randu wewi, mara ganimin.


ithin udin kiwwa wage, tv ekatai, car ekatai, arakata mekatai, hama detama degollo clash wena eka pudumayakda?
 

helo256

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mama job ekak patangattee awurudu 19dee.. ee mata salli nethiniss nemei.. parentslagen hema ekatama salli illanna beri nisa.. 18 thama amaruma years.. 18 plus unaata lamainwa gedarin pannalaa hariyannee ne.. unwa gedara thiyaagena hariyaneth nee... job ekakata huru karalaa foundation eka daalaa denna ooni jeewithee godanagaaganna...
 

Nalin25

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job hoyana eka thamai bari


ekai machan, demawpiyangen salli walin uparima prayojana aran, ikmanata graduate wela, e gollonge life long contacts walin, entry level salary ekakata hari job ekak set kara ganna one.

ehema nokara, 2 years A/L karala, anthime uni select nowunama, Rs. 10,000 x 32 = Rs. 320,000, waste wela, ai job ekak 32 months nokarapu nisa!
 

Nalin25

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mama job ekak patangattee awurudu 19dee.. ee mata salli nethiniss nemei.. parentslagen hema ekatama salli illanna beri nisa.. 18 thama amaruma years.. 18 plus unaata lamainwa gedarin pannalaa hariyannee ne.. unwa gedara thiyaagena hariyaneth nee... job ekakata huru karalaa foundation eka daalaa denna ooni jeewithee godanagaaganna...


I too had lots of conflicts my parents, when I reached 18 :D. In fact by 16 itself I needed my independence but parents thought I MUST do A/Ls!