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A guy asks this girl out. Girl says yes after few days. They both attend to the same School, in year 11. This guy have had many girl friends and the girl havent gone out with a guy before and its her first time being in a realtionship, and she tells this to this Guy, whome she is starting to go out with. He promises her that he will treat her right, and he is bit surprised to know that he is her first. So on a Saturday afternoon they go out to the park. He picks her from her house. Then they start talking and kissing then he drops her back at her house then he leaves.

She calls him at night to let him know how much she enjoyed her time being with him, but he fails to answer her call. So then she decide to leave him a txt. After the txt she waites, and waites for his txt, but theres no reply.

After few hours, her mobile beeps, to her surprise its her txt from her guy. She hurrys to read it.
And only to find out that he wants them to be just freinds. She feels very disspointed and dont reply to his txt, she thinks for a while, only to let him know she has seen his txt she replies, "Thanx 4 the TXT! "

Then he replies back saying how sorry he is, about having to change the realtionship by a txt. On the txt he says " Sorry, I jst dont see the point of us being in a realtionship and we can be mates...... And I really like you but I dont wanna hurt you".

She reads this and burst in to tears and cry, cry , cry for ages in her room. And she dont reply to this txt. She goes to bed crying listning to her Music, that they were listining in the car that aftertoon.

Then 3 am in the morning her mobile beeps again, she hopes it to be a txt from her guy. And Ofcourse it is!!!

The txt Says " Plz text back sumhow, I really like you and you are a very good girl and I jst dont wanna see you sad and I know in the end I'll end up hurting you, I dont wanna do that to you. And i mean everything i say. we can be freinds. and dont stay without talking to me please. tb "

The girl is heart broken and the way they were spending time together in the park was playing in her head and everything he whisperd to her.

She txt back saying, " Took so long to txt u bak coz lots of things were going on my mind and I dinnt know how a txt cud eva express it all, and I dont Understand!"

Time is now around 5' am in the morning, she tries to get back to sleep, but she finds it difficult, tears starts to fall from her eyes her sorrow is kept to her self she finds it difficult to cope and wonders what she should do, and whats the right thing to do, and wether da guy truly like her and if hes doing it for her good.

She is lost, confused and heartbroken.

Please feel free to leave any of your thoughts under this thread behalf of this real story, and feel free to commenet on what the girl should do and what you think of the guy and this whole thing:love: .
 
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x-pert

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So you couldn't tell this in your real ID isn't it... okay...
Welcome to EK aniwe...

So this girl is you and this happened to you yesterday ryt??

But this is a bit confusing situation nanga... Cant give a correct answer at once...

But.... that is not the only guy in this world... Someday you will find your true love..
I think this is not your true love, and what he is telling may be correct... Coz he must be a playboy and he might not have the strength to stick to a single person... to love a girl, only one girl I mean..

So better let him go... If he really belongs to you, he will come someday.. But do not think about him again, coz it is a pain for u and it is a waste of time I think...

So live life to the maxx and have fun and enjoy like earlier...
Dont think about the people who left you nanga... Be strong..!!

Take Care
 

shaggy

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if he wnts only a friendship y he kissed that gal :rolleyes:

he should decide that 1st so i guess that gal should 4get him @ all

i know its so difficult but thats the best thing..

a friendship can be ended as luv.. but a luv cannot b ended as a friendship ..... so better to not to keep any contacts with him

& who ever the gal is not a toy to kiss when ever he wnts & to put to a side when he dnt wnt.

so ask him to fly a kite and keep a smile always in your face

there will b some1 made 4 u ... sure he will b there @ the correct time

wait till that ;)

thats my idea its up to the relevant gal.
 
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ehiranya

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So, is this your story? Whatever! Here's my view of this..

Grade 11 means both should be 16 years old.

Relationships we had when we were teens cannot be considered as love though we wanted them to be. It was just the curiosity or the temptation to experience something adults do, which made us attract to the opposite sex. The only fact for falling in love - or which we thought love - at that time was beauty or for this case handsomeness. What if you met some other human being who is more attractive, the day before you met the current one?

Yeah, I know. It’s really a complex topic to argue about.

But when you come of age you'll really understand what love really is. It cannot be explained to someone by someone. But you'll see it, feel it when you really get to know what life is.

Some times when you’re in love you think you know everything about them and it’s going to last forever. But when you break up you know you never really knew who they are. And that’s life.

This is just my view of love..
 

shaggy

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~With ma ShImMii gal~
x-pert said:
So you couldn't tell this in your real ID isn't it... okay...
Welcome to EK aniwe...

So this girl is you and this happened to you yesterday ryt??

But this is a bit confusing situation nanga... Cant give a correct answer at once...

But.... that is not the only guy in this world... Someday you will find your true love..
I think this is not your true love, and what he is telling may be correct... Coz he must be a playboy and he might not have the strength to stick to a single person... to love a girl, only one girl I mean..

So better let him go... If he really belongs to you, he will come someday.. But do not think about him again, coz it is a pain for u and it is a waste of time I think...

So live life to the maxx and have fun and enjoy like earlier...
Dont think about the people who left you nanga... Be strong..!!

Take Care

macho small thing dnt try to find out the person ;)
 

ehiranya

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I agree with both x-pert's and shaggy's ideas about this..
Take it easy, though it's easier said than done..
 

Tissaka

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Up in the Air
ehiranya said:
So, is this your story? Whatever! Here's my view of this..

Grade 11 means both should be 16 years old.

Relationships we had when we were teens cannot be considered as love though we wanted them to be. It was just the curiosity or the temptation to experience something adults do, which made us attract to the opposite sex. The only fact for falling in love - or which we thought love - at that time was beauty or for this case handsomeness. What if you met some other human being who is more attractive, the day before you met the current one?

Yeah, I know. It’s really a complex topic to argue about.

But when you come of age you'll really understand what love really is. It cannot be explained to someone by someone. But you'll see it, feel it when you really get to know what life is.

Some times when you’re in love you think you know everything about them and it’s going to last forever. But when you break up you know you never really knew who they are. And that’s life.

This is just my view of love..
Exactly. :yes: Well said machan! :yes:
 

Nash'

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right here....
hmmm.....well first of all I have to agree with all who have jotted their ideas above me! they all are well correct!
so.....as far as it seems i think that you are better off without him cz if u give dat guy a second chance or if u give that guy to b frendz wit u or nythn...it could lead you into MORE TROUBLE, MORE PAIN, MORE SORROWS or it could be worse! I said that cz....you said that this guy kissed you in ur very 1st date! dznt that seem suspicious? Maybe he's all in for jz plain fun! that cud be possible that he is just a playboy material guy! so...sister.....jz wait for the correct match!! afterall...it says..."There's more than one fish in the sea"
And another thing is...I can't accept this "WE CAN BE JUST FRIENDS" talk! cz u see.....LOVE is greater than friendship! FRIENDSHIP is the stage before LOVE! so..i don't think that anyone can forget about LOVE and be JUST FRIENDS! what this guy is trying to do is unaccepatable! so...better off without him! enuff is enuff! This guy gave you too much pain in such a short time! and i don't think that you are in a status to be more hurt! so...jz keep out of this guy's way and try to forget him!
i don't know....! ......that's jz my opinion! hope anything i said meant something to you! anyways....wish everything would turn out good to you! take care of yourself!
 
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Heart

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Wow thank you ever soo much for all your comments, means alot and helped me alot and you guys are right, I should just forget about him although its not easy as one of yous mentioned.

Oh god, this is gonna b hard...mmm anyways thanx guys!
 

shaggy

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Heart said:
Wow thank you ever soo much for all your comments, means alot and helped me alot and you guys are right, I should just forget about him although its not easy as one of yous mentioned.

Oh god, this is gonna b hard...mmm anyways thanx guys!

its a pleasure sis

just stick with ek sure that will help u 2 start a brand new lyf

;)
 

Wal Bada

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  • Awurudu 16 di mona love da? O/L pass wenna balapan, nikam kaalakanni wenne nathuwa.

    "Mihiri mee wage danewi yowun aadare
    Youwun sithata sathuta geneyi ewan aadare
    Addare karanna shilpa sathara nimakaran
    Jeewitheta sathuta isura obata lankaran
    Baala kaale aaye enne nae
    Weraduna thana yali hadanna bae"