IVF වලින් පිය පදවිය ලබපු ෆාදර් ල ඉන්නවද මේකේ ?

[sampathrathnayake]

Machan, true the success rate can be 60-70%. The success rate means successful pregnancies not live births. The rate of live births from IVFs can be far less.
We also did IVF at Lanka Hospitals, Dr Madara is a great person with good knowledge and experience in latest technologies. However a a successful live birth rate depends on your luck. We had 24 live embryos (did in 2015) and spent around 1 millions because wife had some complexity and we could not do embryo transfer first time.

After 3 months, we did our first embryo transfer (spent around 260000/- for the process), it was not successful wife did not get pregnant.

Then after 6 moths, we did the second embryo transfer (spent around 260000) and it was successful, wife got pregnant and hospital included it as s successful pregnancy however after around 3 weeks a miscarriage happened. So no live birth.

We did the same process another two times using our frozen embryos.
(Note: when the frozen embryos are warmed for the IVF, some embryos may die so we lost around 4 embryos but fortunately we had 18 left.)

Above two embryo transplants were successful and wife got pregnant but miscarriages happened.

We spent over 2 millions for this. This is only for hospital and drugs, there were other expenses since we are not from Colombo, transport cost, accommodation in Colombo etc so overall we spent around 2.5 millions.

This is why I said this depends on luck. Some will have live births from their 1st attempt but some might not have even after 5 attempts.

We still have 4 embryos left but we gave up it because we did all the things we can (IVS was our last resort, we did lot of IUIs as well before this and if we include IUI cost as well, we have spent over 3 millions for this project)

Now we enjoy our life because we have freedom to anything at any time but some people say we have done very bad sin in our past life that is why we do not have kids even though we have tried very hard and did everything we can.

Then we met very good Buddhist monk he explained the situation in a different way as below,


"දරුවන් කියන්නේ දුකක්. දරුවෝ ලොකු මහත් කර රැක බලා ගැනීමත් මහා දුකක් හා අත හැරිය නොහැකි බැදීමක්. මහත්තයා සහා නෝනා ගිය ආත්මේ ලොකු පිනක් කරලා ඇති මේ තරම් ලොකු දුකක් ලබා දෙන බැදීමක් නැති කරගන්න. මේ ආත්මෙත් එවැනි කුසල් රැස් කරන්න. හැම මොහොතක දීම සතුටින් ඉන්න "

Explained well and happy that you accept the fact that how nature works for each and everyone. Same thing same way has been explained to us sometime back by a monk tand its very hard to face the fact that not having a child is our faith.

We're married for more than 10 years and expecting a baby for last 8 years and we've almost all the doctors, VOG's islandwide and our last hope was to do an IVF. Unfortunately we couldn't afford to do such (We would have definitely do that if we had such money)

Finally we gave up all our hopes and stopped all treatments started doing good things (කුසල්) and then the miracle happens last April and my wife got pregnant. Baby was growing and doing very well for 02 & half months and then miscarriages without any reason.

We were told by VOG's that we could try again with the same path and now we have a new hope.

Its all about beveling your self and the good things you do. Keep hope bro good things will happen.

තෙරුවණ් සරණයි....!!!!

 

[RaiK_pala]

Machan, true the success rate can be 60-70%. The success rate means successful pregnancies not live births. The rate of live births from IVFs can be far less.
We also did IVF at Lanka Hospitals, Dr Madara is a great person with good knowledge and experience in latest technologies. However a a successful live birth rate depends on your luck. We had 24 live embryos (did in 2015) and spent around 1 millions because wife had some complexity and we could not do embryo transfer first time.

After 3 months, we did our first embryo transfer (spent around 260000/- for the process), it was not successful wife did not get pregnant.

Then after 6 moths, we did the second embryo transfer (spent around 260000) and it was successful, wife got pregnant and hospital included it as s successful pregnancy however after around 3 weeks a miscarriage happened. So no live birth.

We did the same process another two times using our frozen embryos.
(Note: when the frozen embryos are warmed for the IVF, some embryos may die so we lost around 4 embryos but fortunately we had 18 left.)

Above two embryo transplants were successful and wife got pregnant but miscarriages happened.

We spent over 2 millions for this. This is only for hospital and drugs, there were other expenses since we are not from Colombo, transport cost, accommodation in Colombo etc so overall we spent around 2.5 millions.

This is why I said this depends on luck. Some will have live births from their 1st attempt but some might not have even after 5 attempts.

We still have 4 embryos left but we gave up it because we did all the things we can (IVS was our last resort, we did lot of IUIs as well before this and if we include IUI cost as well, we have spent over 3 millions for this project)

Now we enjoy our life because we have freedom to anything at any time but some people say we have done very bad sin in our past life that is why we do not have kids even though we have tried very hard and did everything we can.

Then we met very good Buddhist monk he explained the situation in a different way as below,


"දරුවන් කියන්නේ දුකක්. දරුවෝ ලොකු මහත් කර රැක බලා ගැනීමත් මහා දුකක් හා අත හැරිය නොහැකි බැදීමක්. මහත්තයා සහා නෝනා ගිය ආත්මේ ලොකු පිනක් කරලා ඇති මේ තරම් ලොකු දුකක් ලබා දෙන බැදීමක් නැති කරගන්න. මේ ආත්මෙත් එවැනි කුසල් රැස් කරන්න. හැම මොහොතක දීම සතුටින් ඉන්න "

Yes This is true story, Success Rate is only 20-30%,
If someone is claiming 60-70% please don't even try it.

I tried IVF with following doctors in Sri Lanka
Dr Helaruwan Pasan Kumara: LKR 1.5 Million (3 Attempts) : Not recommended at all and money greedy person
Dr Milhan Batcha: LKR 1 Million (1 Attempt) Highly recommended

In INDIA: SUDAH Hospital Coimbatore : It a crap and not recommended at all

In IVF you have to be more and more patient. Doctor can only do the transfer embryos only but rest is upto nature and your luck.

Normally you have to wait at least 14 days bed rest (without major works) to see the results. This is the most difficult time if you are in out of colombo, Need to reserve place near to the hospital,

Normally before IVF you have to get confirm that your wife actually need IVF or not, It may incur many blood tests, laparoscopic surgery etc. Don't go for IVF directly until it confirms that you are really need it, Because it is a waste of money. Moreover your wife womb should be ready 100% for pregnancy, Otherwise it will not success at all. Anyway Best wishes from me!

 

[sampathrathnayake]

Yes This is true story, Success Rate is only 20-30%, (Dr Bacha told us the same )
If someone is claiming 60-70% please don't even try it.

I tried IVF with following doctors in Sri Lanka
Dr Helaruwan Pasan Kumara: LKR 1.5 Million (3 Attempts) : Not recommended at all and money greedy person (Agreed 100%)
Dr Milhan Batcha: LKR 1 Million (1 Attempt) Highly recommended ( Agreed)

In INDIA: SUDAH Hospital Coimbatore : It a crap and not recommended at all ( Haven't tried )

In IVF you have to be more and more patient. Doctor can only do the transfer embryos only but rest is upto nature and your luck.

Normally you have to wait at least 14 days bed rest (without major works) to see the results. This is the most difficult time if you are in out of colombo, Need to reserve place near to the hospital, (One of the main reason which we didnt do it as we're from central sri lanka)

Normally before IVF you have to get confirm that your wife actually need IVF or not, It may incur many blood tests, laparoscopic surgery etc. Don't go for IVF directly until it confirms that you are really need it, Because it is a waste of money. Moreover your wife womb should be ready 100% for pregnancy, Otherwise it will not success at all. Anyway Best wishes from me!

 

[anuradhamapa]

bumpiyak thama ban denna wenne.. good luck...

 

[samiya_Nice]

PM me. i have details.

 

[imhotep]

Yes This is true story, Success Rate is only 20-30%,
If someone is claiming 60-70% please don't even try it.

That's exactly what i said in my earlier post - a load of crap. These guys invent fertility rates by misinterpretations.
Also they will come with various acronyms for procedures for most of you get carried away. If you talk to world leading IVF specialists- they just laugh.
In Srilanka we are no way near advanced. New techniques are available where viability and the health of the embryo can be ascertained very early. It's not the doctor - the lab and the culture media too, counts very much.- of course as well as the age of the mother.
From the feedback here, it appears that these guys are minting money.

 

[Oli_Vili]

කවුද කිව්වේ IVF එක අන්තිම option එක කියල ??
අපිටත් එහෙම කිව්වා.. අපි IVF වලට ගියේ නෑ
සිංහල බෙහෙත් කලා එක මාසෙන් wife ප්‍රෙග්නට් උනා

හැමෝටම දැනගන්න සිංහල බෙහෙත් කල වෙදමහත්තයා ගැන විස්තර දාන්න මචන් ,

 

[Rochel]

IVF වලට යන්නේ ගොඩාක් වෙලාවට අවුරැදු 40 පැනපු ගැහැණු උදවියයි. ඊට අඩුනන් පොඩි වියදමක් දරලා IUI එකක් හෝ කිහිපයක් කරගන්න අවස්ථාව තියෙනවා. IVF කෙරැවා කියලා මුල් අවස්ථාවේම ළමයි ලැබෙනවා කියලා දෙයක් නැහැ. සමහරැ ඉන්නවා 2 - 3 පාර කරපු අයත්. සමහර අය ඉන්නවා ලංකාවේ කරන්නේ නැතුව ඉන්දියාවේ ගිහින් කරන අය. ඒකටත් ලක්ෂ 12ක් විතර යනවා. ඉන්දියාවේ තාක්ෂණය දියුනුයි කියනවා ලංකාවේ IVF වලට වඩා. ඉන්දියාවේ යනවනම් අගෝස්තු සැප්තැම්බරැ මාස වල යන එක තමයි හොදම කියන්නේ. ( මේ මාසවල ලංකාවේ දේශගුණයට සමාන තත්ත්වයක් ඉන්දියාවේ ඔය පැතිවල තියෙන්නේ )

 

[akmax]

හැමෝටම දැනගන්න සිංහල බෙහෙත් කල වෙදමහත්තයා ගැන විස්තර දාන්න මචන් ,

Pilytandala jeewaka wda niwasa

 

[bandarawithana]

Pilytandala jeewaka wda niwasa

Bump

 

[Oli_Vili]

Pilytandala jeewaka wda niwasa

වෙදමහත්තයා ගැන විස්තර සහ ඉන්න තැන දාන්න මචන්

 

[bandarawithana]

වෙදමහත්තයා ගැන විස්තර සහ ඉන්න තැන දාන්න මචන්

මේක වෙන්න ඕනෙ තැන - http://www.jeewakawedaniwasa.com/

 

[lodbrok]

මගෙ යාළුවො දෙන්නෙක් ඉන්නවා දෙන්නම දේශීය වෛද්‍යවරු. උන් දෙන්න බබාල නැතුව හරි හිතේ අමාරුවෙන් ඉන්නෙ. උන් දෙන්නත් IVF කරා හරි ගියේ නෑ. දේශීය වෙදකමෙන් කරන්න පුලුවන්නම් උන් IVF එකට වියදම් කරන එකක් නෑ.

 

[akmax]

මගෙ යාළුවො දෙන්නෙක් ඉන්නවා දෙන්නම දේශීය වෛද්‍යවරු. උන් දෙන්න බබාල නැතුව හරි හිතේ අමාරුවෙන් ඉන්නෙ. උන් දෙන්නත් IVF කරා හරි ගියේ නෑ. දේශීය වෙදකමෙන් කරන්න පුලුවන්නම් උන් IVF එකට වියදම් කරන එකක් නෑ.

Samahara dewal karanna puluwan Western medicine walin bari unata
hodama udahgaranaya mama.. doctorsla apita kiwwe IVF hara wena wikalpayak na kiyala. IVF kalath wife ge womb condition eka anuwa success tare eka 30% to 50% wage kiwwa.
sinhala beheth kala dam lassana daru patiyek innawa..
dergee gahapu unta bari dewal paramparikawa wedakama karan ena aya dannawa athi

 

[akmax]

මේක වෙන්න ඕනෙ තැන - http://www.jeewakawedaniwasa.com/

Hariyata hari

 

[nvhcc89]

useful thread
babala hadanna try karana hamotama babala labewa

 

[imhotep]

If everything fails why don't you consider adoption? It's a great thing to do so. I know of a couple who adopted an infant - they conceived five years later.
What happened later is a secondary issue - isn't adopting an orphan is a meritorious deed itself? Many in the western world do - while having two or three of their own kids.

 

[kamalboost]

Wow!!!
What an explanation. We also going through the same and now feel that we are not alone.

Machan, true the success rate can be 60-70%. The success rate means successful pregnancies not live births. The rate of live births from IVFs can be far less.
We also did IVF at Lanka Hospitals, Dr Madara is a great person with good knowledge and experience in latest technologies. However a a successful live birth rate depends on your luck. We had 24 live embryos (did in 2015) and spent around 1 millions because wife had some complexity and we could not do embryo transfer first time.

After 3 months, we did our first embryo transfer (spent around 260000/- for the process), it was not successful wife did not get pregnant.

Then after 6 moths, we did the second embryo transfer (spent around 260000) and it was successful, wife got pregnant and hospital included it as s successful pregnancy however after around 3 weeks a miscarriage happened. So no live birth.

We did the same process another two times using our frozen embryos.
(Note: when the frozen embryos are warmed for the IVF, some embryos may die so we lost around 4 embryos but fortunately we had 18 left.)

Above two embryo transplants were successful and wife got pregnant but miscarriages happened.

We spent over 2 millions for this. This is only for hospital and drugs, there were other expenses since we are not from Colombo, transport cost, accommodation in Colombo etc so overall we spent around 2.5 millions.

This is why I said this depends on luck. Some will have live births from their 1st attempt but some might not have even after 5 attempts.

We still have 4 embryos left but we gave up it because we did all the things we can (IVS was our last resort, we did lot of IUIs as well before this and if we include IUI cost as well, we have spent over 3 millions for this project)

Now we enjoy our life because we have freedom to anything at any time but some people say we have done very bad sin in our past life that is why we do not have kids even though we have tried very hard and did everything we can.

Then we met very good Buddhist monk he explained the situation in a different way as below,


"දරුවන් කියන්නේ දුකක්. දරුවෝ ලොකු මහත් කර රැක බලා ගැනීමත් මහා දුකක් හා අත හැරිය නොහැකි බැදීමක්. මහත්තයා සහා නෝනා ගිය ආත්මේ ලොකු පිනක් කරලා ඇති මේ තරම් ලොකු දුකක් ලබා දෙන බැදීමක් නැති කරගන්න. මේ ආත්මෙත් එවැනි කුසල් රැස් කරන්න. හැම මොහොතක දීම සතුටින් ඉන්න "

 

[Sharma01]

වෙදමහත්තයා ගැන විස්තර සහ ඉන්න තැන දාන්න මචන්

ඕවට අහුවෙන්න එපා බන්. සිංහල වෙදකමින් බබ්බු හම්බ වෙනව නම් ඉතින් වෙදාට කියල කරගෙන තමා.

 

[akmax]

ඕවට අහුවෙන්න එපා බන්. සිංහල වෙදකමින් බබ්බු හම්බ වෙනව නම් ඉතින් වෙදාට කියල කරගෙන තමා.

නොදන්න දේවල් ගැන කතා කරන්න එපා මචන්
මේ වේද මහත්තයෙක් නෙමෙයි වෙද නෝනා කෙනෙක් ඉන්නේ එතන
ඇඟ සිසිල් වෙන්න බෙහෙත් දෙන්නේ