Love Affair (HELP)

[El Padrino]

සිංහළු, උඹලා ආදරය කරන කෙල්ලගෙන් Askout කරන්න කලින් උඹලා දෙන්නම, දෙන්නට දෙන්නා නැතිවම බැරි තත්වෙකට ඇවිත්ද බං Askout කරන්නේ. Normal කෙල්ල එක්ක ෆිට් වෙලා කවුරුවත් Askout කරලා වැඩේ හරිගිහින් නැද්ද?

 

[tharakaf]

සිංහළු, උඹලා ආදරය කරන කෙල්ලගෙන් Askout කරන්න කලින් උඹලා දෙන්නම, දෙන්නට දෙන්නා නැතිවම බැරි තත්වෙකට ඇවිත්ද බං Askout කරන්නේ. Normal කෙල්ල එක්ක ෆිට් වෙලා කවුරුවත් Askout කරලා වැඩේ හරිගිහින් නැද්ද?

Depends on the relationship machan. Some chicks just enjoy the company (time passing) and need a guy to be there when they need. But this doesn't meant that she will marry you. They are just passing their time till a better person comes by. If you ask her out she might just reject and tell that she saw you just as a friend, let's stay like that bla bla bla In this case this will fuck your mind up since it is not what you were expecting. But then again it is much better to know where you stand rather than just invest your time on a lost cause.

So just ask her out in some romantic way and get it over with. If she says YES you will be happy, but if she says NO you will cry like a bitch and then recover and be stronger.

Good luck putha.

 

[sliit_kolla]

උඹලා දෙන්නම, දෙන්නට දෙන්නා නැතිවම බැරි තත්වෙකට

 

[El Padrino]

Depends on the relationship machan. Some chicks just enjoy the company (time passing) and need a guy to be there when they need. But this doesn't meant that she will marry you. They are just passing their time till a better person comes by. If you ask her out she might just reject and tell that she saw you just as a friend, let's stay like that bla bla bla In this case this will fuck your mind up since it is not what you were expecting. But then again it is much better to know where you stand rather than just invest your time on a lost cause.

So just ask her out in some romantic way and get it over with. If she says YES you will be happy, but if she says NO you will cry like a bitch and then recover and be stronger.

Good luck putha.

The reason why I am delaying the askout process is most friends around her (girls and boys) are my best friends. So i got the this strange feeling, If i ask her out, it will ruin my reputation. But i got a tiptoe from one of her best friend that she is into me. Since my crush is so social with boys i don't know whether it is the best time to askout.

 

[tharakaf]

The reason why I am delaying the askout process is most friends around her (girls and boys) are my best friends. So i got the this strange feeling, If i ask her out, it will ruin my reputation. But i got a tiptoe from one of her best friend that she is into me. Since my crush is so social with boys i don't know whether it is the best time to askout.

So you are going to ask your best friend out? Yako It is like this, You can either spend (waste) your time dreaming or you can just ask her out and get the answer directly. Regardless of the answer I don't think it is a crime to do that. If she says NO you can invest your time on some chick who will actually love you and not use you to kill her time.

Also keep in mind that No one is obligated to get in to an affair with anyone in order to be friends. If you don't think you can see her as a friend anymore you can just move on. Time is precious putha.

 

[El Padrino]

So you are going to ask your best friend out? Yako It is like this, You can either spend (waste) your time dreaming or you can just ask her out and get the answer directly. Regardless of the answer I don't think it is a crime to do that. If she says NO you can invest your time on some chick who will actually love you and not use you to kill her time.

Also keep in mind that No one is obligated to get in to an affair with anyone in order to be friends. If you don't think you can see her as a friend anymore you can just move on. Time is precious putha.

Thanks for the advice bro means lot