Marriage - Dewedha - girl - value - boy - buying? IDEAS

[Sahan678]

hahah i get the hint

but sorry right now not looking for a relationship, sri lankan or other nationalities

same here dear

 

[G.R.E.A]

deawadi gana mama pandithaya wage kiywanwa

lfe patner kenek wath nathiwa
math tikak ounewata wadi

hahha no like to hear opinions from all panditiya jk

 

[Renesas]

kella witharamai

 

[paris]

X-pert ayye menna meyagen dawaddak illanna

me dawas wala hodatama kiywanwa wadi ekai

honda konda pana thiyena kollek x aiya harida
mage minihata puluwan mata kanna andinna denna, oya dewedi illanne na eya..

kiyonawa wedi? meh mama?? pissuda ane.. ahinsaka bo pale wage meh inne mama

True!! Eka tamai i agree with you sis, or u agree with me.
Girl (boy) kiyanna more worth than stuff, when a guy has a job, eyata puluwan to take care of someone, ay salli from parents ganna?!

But mata terenne naha, ai parents sometimes ekata echara illanna kiyala?

If I marry a sri lankan, hell no i would give dewedha, not because i dont have the money, just its my standard

merci pour ta opinion

Ton opinion de rien..

hehehe ta raison nango.. denna epa dewedi

les parents, je sais no plus nango.. ils ne pensent pas comme nous...

 

[Sahan678]

hahha no like to hear opinions from all panditiya jk

mama a unata A dande yanawaa ne


kattiya kiyanne nam pandithayata A dande yanna ba kiyala
etakota mama kohomada yanne

 

[gazaly]

oyage hati dannewa

Apo mama boruwata kiwwe.. mata nam monawath Eppoooo.. .mama pirimiyek.. mata puluwan mage wife ta Hamba karala wiyadam karannata mata puluwan..hahaha

 

[G.R.E.A]

ahh some ppl ask for a dowry because it shows that both are from good families.
its weird.. but there also the idea that this way the girl has property or money to her name and she represents her family.. so its more of an internal thing rather than necessity...

I get it, but still its kinda weird coz seems like SL culture is still based on levels you stand in life.

Its better though that "dowry"/ gift is giving afterwards then before, so it becomes a measurement for a marriage

 

[Sahan678]

honda konda pana thiyena kollek x aiya harida
mage minihata puluwan mata kanna andinna denna, oya dewedi illanne na eya..

kiyonawa wedi? meh mama?? pissuda ane.. ahinsaka bo pale wage meh inne mama

ada X- pert ayyata hodata ninda yai
butter gala tiyan innawa ne
nattam rape karala walalana kello gana wadi wei

bo pale kiuwe matada ?????????

 

[lasanka]

I see, its different, but still does the family of the guys don't like demand (a heavy word) but more like is looking for a girl who has like something, value in sri lankan ways, house, idam ?

no they dont demand anything, from what ive seen they do expect the girl to get something but never demand its always up to the girls family ( this is for arranged marriage i guess). and even if the girl gets money or land or property its hers, but no they dont demand. its mostly to do with the family, when the girl has somethign to her name aswel it shows that theyre both from stable families .
and anyway like i said from what ive seen its a gift given from the parents to their daughter.

 

[paris]

deawadi gana mama pandithaya wage kiywanwa

lfe patner kenek wath nathiwa
math tikak ounewata wadi

lolzzz anna kollo oyage nuts burul wela ara ara pare roll wenawa pissu pus kenek mekath...

 

[G.R.E.A]

dowry1 tradition 1k karagena
issara girls lawa salakuwe pawlata barak vdyata
itn ayalawa bandala denakota aya badina kenata barak nowenna kiyalai meka athi wenna aththe
ath meka maha boru wadak
girl kenek bandata passe job 1k nokalath husband mahanc wenawata wada aya gedara wada karanna mahanc wenawa

ahhh now i kinda get the old reason!!!

 

[buthaya]

man nam ehema dewedi illan ena manusayekta kemathi na...

minihek geniyek gannawa kiyanne, eyata " responsibility" kiyala deyak enawa no? minihek job ekak hoyan, inna hitinna thenak hoyan, ita passe genu kenekwa kasada bandinawa nam ai eyata thawa " deweddak " kiyala deyak oni?
genu kena job ekak kara natha, eh manussayata puluwan wenna onine eyage wifeta kanna andinna dila adarayen reka balaganna..

anika ammala thaththala, eh genu lamayata honda naraka kiyala dila, hondata hadala thiyenawa nam eka kochchara watinawada nangi? ekata eh genu lamayawa ganna kena eh ammatai thaththatai suthuthi karanna watinne... eh genu lamayawa echchara hondata hadapu eka watinawa neda deweddakata wada?

En tout moi je pence comme ça nango.. après pour les garçons je sais pas..

yaa akki
am agree this one

api thaniyen nagitina tharamata thamai apita diyunu wenna puluwan
ganu lamayek oni thamai
marrige life ekath oni

eth api gal kenek wa marr karanne gedara ammata thaththa ta barak wela nam eka hariyana naa mata nam
man kamathi
mage duk mahansiyen sadaranawa hamba karana salli walin geyak hadala
manaliyak kandan ee gedara hoda life ekak gewanna
ethakota apita ape athithaya deha balala sathutu wenna fuluwan nee akki
Daawadhdha nam boru wadak
moko Daawassa hamadama pawathina deyak nemei nee
ethh Heart eke thiyena adaraya Hamadama pawathinawa nee
habai eee aradaraya hamadama pawathina widihata wada kaloth
anna niyama life eka

 

[G.R.E.A]

same here dear

good boy

 

[Sahan678]

lolzzz anna kollo oyage nuts burul wela ara ara pare roll wenawa pissu pus kenek mekath...

boru kiyanna epa
hodata tiyena mage engine eke nut buruwel wela kiyanna
a nam pahadili irisiyawa
enna epa kochok karanna

na na mama shrek eke pusa


oya tama hora pus

 

[Sahan678]

good boy

aharan iddi da nida gattamada

 

[paris]

ada X- pert ayyata hodata ninda yai
butter gala tiyan innawa ne
nattam rape karala walalana kello gana wadi wei

bo pale kiuwe matada ?????????

butter nemei bola, eththata kiuwe
lejja nedda halo genigen salli aran genitama kanna bonna denna

x aiya kohomath dennam goro goro nidi
apooooo.. oya eda eh kiyapu deh mokakda, eya gahana baila dekkama
ubata po pale kiyanna puluwanda? pissu pus ne oya

 

[lasanka]

I get it, but still its kinda weird coz seems like SL culture is still based on levels you stand in life.

Its better though that "dowry"/ gift is giving afterwards then before, so it becomes a measurement for a marriage

lol Grea ive told u before.. i dun understand most of SL culture anyways..
if u like can try and explain my exact view on the whole topic laterz.

theres loads to tell heheh

 

[asachan]

In Sri lanka (other countries as well), I see that people are looking
for the goods and money when they go into a marriage.

Dewedha i'm talking about!

This happens in arranged marriage specially. I don't know about love-marriages, but I don't quite get it!!

I've been told by some that dewedha was for like an insurance that they will have something in case something happen, or for the parents.

The thing is that a lot of parents are deciding about the demands of a boy/girl should have, how many idam, or houses and stuff they should have.
Parents want the best for their children, but this is crazy.

I think it's ridiculous, in my eyes its like ur trying to promote urself to be bought (girl) and guys are buying a girl!!!

What do you guys think about this? Do you guys care about the girls dewedha?
And girls will you give dewedha when asked??

Most guys don't want dewedha, but what IF parents do want, will you accept it coz ya parents demand???​

Why I'm asking about this? Coz someone I know is looking for a man (not me), but she's been turned down, coz she didnt have enough dewedha!

Hehehehe
Mata me Dewedha Kiyana eka identify karaganna baruwagiya
So mama vote kale I don't know ekata
Passe thama danne eka "Dawaddha" kiyala
Sorry My spell mistakes

 

[Renesas]

paris math ekka tharahendha inne.

 

[G.R.E.A]

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Ton opinion de rien..

hehehe ta raison nango.. denna epa dewedi

les parents, je sais no plus nango.. ils ne pensent pas comme nous...

ahhh ofcourse Ton xD

denneme na tama

eka tama, meke tikak sometimes amarui believe keranna by guys, coz parents la hinda!!!!!!!!

mage parents thank god ewata naha, mais je ne crois pas l'hommes, parce que je pens ils trouvent l'opinion leur?! parents très important