NEED HELP! I'M DEPRESSED ABOUT HER.

chiraa

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Can anyone help me? The Problem's like this. I have a friend (A Girl) She's very cute & friendly. I know That she likes Me as much as I like her. We've been friends for Almost 3 years now. But Recently, I wanted to love her. I'm afraid to tell her about It Bcuz she might get it wrong and stop our present friendship. The main reason is , she told me yesterday that her parents have a proposal for her. and she says she's going to think about that. oh brother! after I heard it I couldn't sleep all night. Now I'm so depressed. Is somebody out there who can help me and tell me what to do? shall I forget my good friend? or shall I Say I Love U? Pls help me If Anyone can. I'll appreciate If Someone Replies me right now.http://www.elakiri.com/forum/images/smilies/sq/sad9cd.gif
 

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    chiraa said:
    Can anyone help me? The Problem's like this. I have a friend (A Girl) She's very cute & friendly. I know That she likes Me as much as I like her. We've been friends for Almost 3 years now. But Recently, I wanted to love her. I'm afraid to tell her about It Bcuz she might get it wrong and stop our present friendship. The main reason is , she told me yesterday that her parents have a proposal for her. and she says she's going to think about that. oh brother! after I heard it I couldn't sleep all night. Now I'm so depressed. Is somebody out there who can help me and tell me what to do? shall I forget my good friend? or shall I Say I Love U? Pls help me If Anyone can. I'll appreciate If Someone Replies me right now.http://www.elakiri.com/forum/images/smilies/sq/sad9cd.gif


    is this some kind of a joke or are you serious
     

    chiraa

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    Its Real & serious As It can Be

    This Is solid truth Friend. Truly Truly serious. Pls Machang. Can U tell me what to do? I Will be really really Greatful. Pls... Pls...Help Pls....
     

    icreations

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    Mahemai macho... Do You really Love Her? that is da first Q. if its From Your Har i mean From D bottom U must Go & tell her about it... Let her know that Some body Is Loving Her more than his Life... So she can come to some decision.

    I think ( as u told ) she might b in fond of u. but Girls .. thay really wats D guy's to Come 2 them.. So Machoo i think U must Go And Talk 2 her " Romantically :love: " And tell That You like her... DONT B LATE!!!

    Also if it's 4 Fun... FU** U! ( i mean da love );)

    So machoo Go ahed... also If U like PM me

    TC dood
     

    Blacksparrow

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    MACHAAN I HOPE YOU ARE TOTLAY SEIOUS ABOUT THIS OK!!

    WELL THERE ARE 02 THINGS TO THINK ABOUT AND THIS IS NOT EASY FOR YOU TO DO & THERE WILL BE THREE OUT COMES FROM YOUR ACTIONS.

    1. IF YOU PROPOES HER SAYING THET YOU ARE INTRESTED ABOUT HER & SAYING THAT YOU LOVE HER SHE MIGHT SAY Yes!!!

    2. SHE MIGHT SAY NO!!! & WILL NOT EXCEPT YOUR LOVE

    3. YOU WIL LOSE YOUR FRIEND SHIP WITH HER

    BUT THE THING IS IN MY EXPERIANCE YOU SHOULD TELL HER WHAT YOU FEEL FOR HER & THAT'S THE START !!!
     

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    chiraa said:
    Can anyone help me? The Problem's like this. I have a friend (A Girl) She's very cute & friendly. I know That she likes Me as much as I like her. We've been friends for Almost 3 years now. But Recently, I wanted to love her. I'm afraid to tell her about It Bcuz she might get it wrong and stop our present friendship. The main reason is , she told me yesterday that her parents have a proposal for her. and she says she's going to think about that. oh brother! after I heard it I couldn't sleep all night. Now I'm so depressed. Is somebody out there who can help me and tell me what to do? shall I forget my good friend? or shall I Say I Love U? Pls help me If Anyone can. I'll appreciate If Someone Replies me right now.http://www.elakiri.com/forum/images/smilies/sq/sad9cd.gif

    dnt be afraid bro . go and ask her......

    same kinda thing happened to me. few months back. but i was late.... :(
     

    pavanayya

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    far away in a cave......
    achan she wnt leave u....coz u were friends 4 3 years.......she knws abt u......nt like da proposal machan..........i think u 2 dnt hav secrets & all.....soo...pissu nethuwa kellata kelinma kiyapan bro.............
     

    bana1

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    Go and tell her staight bro. May be she is also thinking of you and she is waiting for you!!!
    But as a boy you should have the instinct power to understand her after a 3Yr frienship!!!


    GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     

    rochel1977

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    Don't be afraid macho. Take courage and tell he what your heart feels. Loving someone is not a crime. So before she makes up her mind about the proposal better you tell her that you love her. Hurry up man. All the best. :yes: :yes:
     

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    ...oooh um something like that has happened to me and it didnt return any good results, but it'll be different for you man. Any if she said that she wants to think about the proposal, you better hurry man coz u loose this time you have lost her. And think that on the other way around if she says Yes[you won't loose, obviously] if she says No, you'll loose her and your friendship[may be, if its a long one it wont i think]....if she marries him, you loose her but not the friendship..but dude lets think of it this way; what good would it do if you love her and she just offers to be your friend?..thats same as loosing her after asking her; sooo what you've got to do IS TO ASK her..simple.