Petition to Ban Athula Again!

Atula Siriwardane Should be banned from Elakiri?

  • Yes, Forever!

    Votes: 194 75.5%
  • No, don't ban!

    Votes: 63 24.5%

  • Total voters
    257
  • Poll closed .

kosandpol

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    dsathsara said:
    I have seen some them. I rearely reply to them. Because it seems like his intention is to make you angry. Even I get angry, I never show it to him. So he wont get the joy of making me angry. You guys do what he wants you to do. You can bann his ID. How can you guys bann his ideas?

    :yes:
    finally, someone with some sense here.
     

    janak456

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    AtulaSiriwardane said:
    In truth I am running this thread,
    because I AM Athula.
    You started it for me.
    Now you have no control over this
    than any other poster.
    :P

    So
    it really doesn't matter
    whether I post or not.
    I run this thread.
    ;)


    10/10 demu me ponna talk ekata :D:D:D:D:D
     

    BRAINY

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  • Eyi ban umbala Athulayage Ley (Blood) pirisidu karanna mechchara katta kanne... :rofl:

    uu threads daanne wedi hariyakma AATHAL ganna umbala daana comments balala... :lol: umbala nikan byt wenawa...

    umbalata oka theren nedda......?????? :rofl: :P

    TO: ATHULA SIRIWARDANE... :P
    Umbata thiyennema SIGITHI AATHAL... :lol: podi unawa madawan netuwa hitahanko.... :P umbata wena wedak eththema nedda?? :rofl:
    :rolleyes:
     
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    BRAINY said:
    Eyi ban umbala Athulayage Ley (Blood) pirisidu karanna mechchara katta kanne... :rofl:

    uu threads daanne wedi hariyakma AATHAL ganna umbala daana comments balala... :lol: umbala nikan byt wenawa...

    umbalata oka theren nedda......?????? :rofl: :P

    TO: ATHULA SIRIWARDANE... :P
    Umbata thiyennema SIGITHI AATHAL... :lol: podi unawa madawan netuwa hitahanko.... :P umbata wena wedak eththema nedda?? :rofl:
    :rolleyes:

    "Any intelligent fool can make things bigger and more complex...
    It takes a touch of genius
    and a lot of courage to move in the opposite direction."



    :P
     

    janak456

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    BRAINY said:
    Eyi ban umbala Athulayage Ley (Blood) pirisidu karanna mechchara katta kanne... :rofl:

    uu threads daanne wedi hariyakma AATHAL ganna umbala daana comments balala... :lol: umbala nikan byt wenawa...

    umbalata oka theren nedda......?????? :rofl: :P

    TO: ATHULA SIRIWARDANE... :P
    Umbata thiyennema SIGITHI AATHAL... :lol: podi unawa madawan netuwa hitahanko.... :P umbata wena wedak eththema nedda?? :rofl:
    :rolleyes:



    heheee ow ow ban athula charter moosala ponnayek :D:D
     

    BRAINY

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  • janak456 said:
    heheee ow ow ban athula charter moosala ponnayek :D:D

    naa machan pora oya kiyana tharamma chatr dial ekak newei... :rofl:

    EK members la thamayi porawa chatr dial ekak kare... :P (den mata benapalla deshadrohiya kiyala... :rolleyes:)

    porata thiyenawa honda MATHAWAADA,,, hebei godak unta eva theren naa... nikan kela gannawa... machan mama me siraawatama kiyanne, poragen godak dewal igena gannathiyenawa... :P

    den pora karanne EK eken aathal ganna eka... EK memberslath porata madi nokiyanna AATHAL denawa... pora eka athakin beluwama maxxa dial ekak... ;)
     
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    BRAINY said:
    u were d 2nd one 2 qoute my sigi itslef as a reply to a comment of my own... :P earlier it was X-pert... Hw nyz.... :P .... but well i thnk itz appropriate... :P.. :cool:

    Thanks..
    for the sigi
    and
    comment, both.
    :D


    This too is amazing.
    einsteinsig1vr.gif


    I like the one about
    the Infinite human stupidity.
    Universe may be finite.
     
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    Some ways of handling argumentative people..like me

    We all get into arguments from time to time. But how do you deal with those people who consistently want to fight and act like they are always right? Contradicting them just feeds their desire for conflict and will frustrate and cause strife. Here are a five alternative methods for dealing with this type of difficult person.
    1. Smile.
      Deflect the anger. Ask questions designed to get the other person to think about why he or she is upset. it’s very difficult to argue with someone who is smiling and conversing without resistance.
    2. Let them think your point of view is their own.
      To do this requires some subtlety but is very powerful against extremely stubborn people who will never admit they are wrong. The trick is to ask questions designed to manipulate the person into arriving at your conclusion “on their own.”
    3. Admit your mistakes.
      If you did something wrong or made a mistake, just be humble and admit it. This sounds like you’re conceding defeat, but actually this wins immediately since it takes the combative person completely off guard. One of two things usually happens next: either the other person will feel bad for even bringing up the issue and will suddenly be very helpful, or they won’t know how to respond immediately which gives you the opportunity to say something leading the conversation into a more productive direction.
    4. Shut up.
      “One of the lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do
      and always a clever thing to say.”
      ~ Will Durant​
      This is an especially strong technique when you know you’re right and you suspect the other person knows it but isn’t ready to admit it. Let the person fumble and squirm around while you just listen.
    5. Do Not Attack
      Whatever you do, do not attack the other person. Sure, you might know the exact thing to say to hit ‘em where it hurts. You might be cold and calculating with your logic and reduce the argument (and the person’s self-esteem) to dust. Or you could follow the techniques above and come away from the argument with an ally instead of a foe. Your choice.
    http://wondr.net/2007/10/15/5-simple-tricks-to-help-you-win-any-argument/
     
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    BRAINY said:
    naa machan pora oya kiyana tharamma chatr dial ekak newei... :rofl:

    EK members la thamayi porawa chatr dial ekak kare... :P (den mata benapalla deshadrohiya kiyala... :rolleyes:)

    porata thiyenawa honda MATHAWAADA,,, hebei godak unta eva theren naa... nikan kela gannawa... machan mama me siraawatama kiyanne, poragen godak dewal igena gannathiyenawa... :P

    den pora karanne EK eken aathal ganna eka... EK memberslath porata madi nokiyanna AATHAL denawa... pora eka athakin beluwama maxxa dial ekak... ;)

    A touch of a Genius.
    :yes:
     

    BRAINY

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  • AtulaSiriwardane said:
    We all get into arguments from time to time. But how do you deal with those people who consistently want to fight and act like they are always right? Contradicting them just feeds their desire for conflict and will frustrate and cause strife. Here are a five alternative methods for dealing with this type of difficult person.
    1. Smile.
      Deflect the anger. Ask questions designed to get the other person to think about why he or she is upset. it’s very difficult to argue with someone who is smiling and conversing without resistance.
    2. Let them think your point of view is their own.
      To do this requires some subtlety but is very powerful against extremely stubborn people who will never admit they are wrong. The trick is to ask questions designed to manipulate the person into arriving at your conclusion “on their own.”
    3. Admit your mistakes.
      If you did something wrong or made a mistake, just be humble and admit it. This sounds like you’re conceding defeat, but actually this wins immediately since it takes the combative person completely off guard. One of two things usually happens next: either the other person will feel bad for even bringing up the issue and will suddenly be very helpful, or they won’t know how to respond immediately which gives you the opportunity to say something leading the conversation into a more productive direction.
    4. Shut up.
      “One of the lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do
      and always a clever thing to say.”
      ~ Will Durant​
      This is an especially strong technique when you know you’re right and you suspect the other person knows it but isn’t ready to admit it. Let the person fumble and squirm around while you just listen.
    5. Do Not Attack
      Whatever you do, do not attack the other person. Sure, you might know the exact thing to say to hit ‘em where it hurts. You might be cold and calculating with your logic and reduce the argument (and the person’s self-esteem) to dust. Or you could follow the techniques above and come away from the argument with an ally instead of a foe. Your choice.

    This is a good post.. thanks for this and they are totally, absolutely correct. :yes:

    I think you can contribute to this community in a way that the most of the members can gain something out of it. You are such an unusual piece of shadow of the human nature.

    At the beginning of your member-hood you were just another typical member but unfortunately (or i don't know for you whether its fortunately) you suddenly changed urself and acted like a weired person and screwed up everything and your reputation as Athula Siriwardane has been completely lost.

    But, as a member I think the (mature) members like you should interact with others especially the with the younger members, without disturbing the immolational instincts of others.

    So try to contribute to this community and I think you are well capable of that. Think about it...

    cheers.
     

    snoop

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    porawa ban karanawata wada deyak karanna puluwan. next time porage post walat kawruwat reply nokara emu. etakota pora nikanma BAN wage tama. :D
     

    nokia_owner

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    AtulaSiriwardane said:
    I have no plan to make any more kids.
    No matter the size anymore.
    :yes:
    I know my friend,as hard as you try you keep producing drones of piglets.Cause you are a pig(Sus domestica),you are the elakiri version of the swine virus,and by the way it must be hard to feed your hungry piglets,thats why you are so miserable
     
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    BRAINY said:
    This is a good post.. thanks for this and they are totally, absolutely correct. :yes:
    It is Copy-pasted...

    I think you can contribute to this community in a way that the most of the members can gain something out of it. You are such an unusual piece of shadow of the human nature.

    At the beginning of your member-hood you were just another typical member but unfortunately (or i don't know for you whether its fortunately) you suddenly changed urself and acted like a weired person and screwed up everything and your reputation as Athula Siriwardane has been completely lost.

    But, as a member I think the (mature) members like you should interact with others especially the with the younger members, without disturbing the immolational instincts of others.

    I will do that when members start discussing the topics... I am learning new ways to post and convey my messages, between not being ignored and being get banned.

    [/quote] So try to contribute to this community and I think you are well capable of that. Think about it...

    cheers.[/quote]

    I think I do contribute,
    more or less...
    I notice some positive changes
    in some members.
    And some will never change.
    (They will be changed within a certain limit)
    Change has to be a transformation,
    to have some significant value.
    :yes: