Please - help me with advice

beautygaru

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Hello! My name is Nina.
I'm very sorry for disturbing you. I'd never join your discussion with my silly question, if it was not so serious for me. But you have really nice community here, good and friendly forum, and I'll really be thankful for any your advices.
The problem is what my boyfriend, Mike, ignores me. We live together for couple years and planning to marry. Now he works so hard as a lead manager, company is grown, and last monthes he comes home from his office late evening, kisses me once and very fast, and then goes to his notebook, papers, documents and seats with it until early morning. But I'm only 29, I'm not old yet, people tell me i am attractive, and surely I need some attenion from my husband. I even never dreams about expensive restaurants, luxury life and holidays at tropic islands and all around the world, I just need regular private relationship with him. When I start to kiss him, Mike only asks me not to bother him and returns to his home work.
Please tell how do I need to act in such situation? I'm young pretty girl and I need his care! Am I doing something wrong? Anybody here had similar problems in past? Please, share your experience with me.
 

G.R.E.A

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beautygaru said:
Hello! My name is Nina.
I'm very sorry for disturbing you. I'd never join your discussion with my silly question, if it was not so serious for me. But you have really nice community here, good and friendly forum, and I'll really be thankful for any your advices.
The problem is what my boyfriend, Mike, ignores me. We live together for couple years and planning to marry. Now he works so hard as a lead manager, company is grown, and last monthes he comes home from his office late evening, kisses me once and very fast, and then goes to his notebook, papers, documents and seats with it until early morning. But I'm only 29, I'm not old yet, people tell me i am attractive, and surely I need some attenion from my husband. I even never dreams about expensive restaurants, luxury life and holidays at tropic islands and all around the world, I just need regular private relationship with him. When I start to kiss him, Mike only asks me not to bother him and returns to his home work.
Please tell how do I need to act in such situation? I'm young pretty girl and I need his care! Am I doing something wrong? Anybody here had similar problems in past? Please, share your experience with me.



I would say, plan a moment to talk about it with him. Just tell him that you lack attention from him. And that its bothering you!
Maybe he's soo damn busy that he doesnt even realise, maybe you just need to point out to him by saying it. And hopefully he will see that he was doing wrong by not paying you enough attention.

I would go talk to him, and tell him openly. If he's thnkin you are just exaggerating, i would do some important thinking then about all;)

Good luck!!
 

ranitalia3

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G.R.E.A said:
I would say, plan a moment to talk about it with him. Just tell him that you lack attention from him. And that its bothering you!
Maybe he's soo damn busy that he doesnt even realise, maybe you just need to point out to him by saying it. And hopefully he will see that he was doing wrong by not paying you enough attention.

I would go talk to him, and tell him openly. If he's thnkin you are just exaggerating, i would do some important thinking then about all;)

Good luck!!

yeah!try that way ..
maybe it will help u!;)
Sorry about ur situation!:(
 

akolla

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    Mal Aiyya said:
    Declare War!!

    I can help you get weapons... :lol:

    Or, plan your divorce. If you want info. on how you can claim your rights, let me know. You can have a good chance over winning the case

    why not give her some weed eh? both profitted...... you get new customer, she gets rid of her agony.......:lol: