should your future wife be a virgin ??

[just]

hmm machan mekai awala kaden kana ake awlak nam naha ath SL wala hatiyata me kada kama ahuwuna dawasata kadema nawathinna wenne

ehemath kiyanna be machan..meke samahara reply balanakota mata hithenawa samahara aya anunge daruwo hadanna unath lasi wage..how generous

i know a guy whose baby exactly has one of his friends face cut ...thats examlpe of that generosity.

for me it shows all this guys/gals how helpless they are. they are not in a position to point a wrong even..but frankly im sad about the future of our society.

one day in future a good husband/wife who loves and cares for family and chidren might have a gay/bi partner for their needs, even then partner will say it doesnt matter as long as love and cares given..

 

[bhai4uanu]

but no one can check the virginity of a guy. so useless to think about it. my idea.

well bro,we should redefine virginity as not a physical thing
from here on make sure to stick with that

then u knw wat he said.... " ube amma ubata rasata kaama hadala denawane.....a unaata uba idala hitala kaden koththuwak ehema kanna aasay ne.... a unata uba ammage kama wath rasa wath amathak karanne nene "
this is not my view. just an example.

if it isn't your view,just tell yours
if we were to apply the theory of adorable western freethinking to the point above
there is no wrong with that ne?

 

[Nic]

ehemath kiyanna be machan..meke samahara reply balanakota mata hithenawa samahara aya anunge daruwo hadanna unath lasi wage..how generous

i know a guy whose baby exactly has one of his friends face cut ...thats examlpe of that generosity.

for me it shows all this guys/gals how helpless they are. they are not in a position to point a wrong even..but frankly im sad about the future of our society.

one day in future a good husband/wife who loves and cares for family and chidren might have a gay/bi partner for their needs, even then partner will say it doesnt matter as long as love and cares given..

i agree with that last idea ..hmm even i feel afraid even thinking my own future do u ever think that fter marage wife will be honest 100%???

 

[BLACK KNIGHT]

ela thamai
hebyi mama eka deyak venavanam kemathiyi

oya mod vechcha kellonta e vagemod vechcha kollo lebeva

evagema marrage ekata kalin mukuth karanne nethiva thamange husband /wife ekka inna balaporoththu vena ayata e vagema ayata evagema aya lebenavam hodayi
ethakota prashnayak nehe
namuth meka petalunoth pavul jeevithaya prashna godak venava

I agree on this

 

[Nic]

We should not play with girls. That's my idea. I mean if you saying to a girl that you are really love her and gonna marry her and after all the thing happen you going away from her that's a very bad thing. Because she is having that deep relationship only if she trust you.

Think.. that can be your sister..!! What do you think if that kind of thing happen to your sis. What you gonna do...???

But if a girl wanna relationship that kind of it's doesn't matter.

Don't betray a girl who is really love you.

ya its true but most of the times gals cheated 4m there own wrong i think till she get in to decision that the affair that havin not 100% sure they must not go 4 a sex!!!

 

[just]

i agree with that last idea ..hmm even i feel afraid even thinking my own future do u ever think that fter marage wife will be honest 100%???

its in our hands buddy..rather than saying i dont care and let the idea (you can sleep with all you want n still ill marry u) spread and make general picture. we should try to keep the values by saying i do care (that of cos for the people who care about the future, our children etc...)

but for most (i say for most) their guilt keeps them from standing for good of the community..

PS: dont doubt your partner after marriage..try to make an environment where you can trust them..if you try now atleast your children might have such an environment..

 

[Nic]

what is u r personal idea just do u like to see u r partner sleeping with other>>>>

 

[just]

what is u r personal idea just do u like to see u r partner sleeping with other>>>>

you can read my view here

everyone who says i dont care if partner is vergin or not (i mean not the physical thingy...) is contributing towards a disarster of the future generation..

obviousely you can understand after marriage..i see family as one of the most precious things in the social structure and should be protected with everything we can.

 

[maleemsg]

OK Thats interesting, you not gona care his a vergin or not..

1.can i know is that cos u dont really have a way of knowing it or even if you have a way you want have a problem genueinly?

Now as far as i know , guys who have got used eat from hotel before the
marriage 90% of the time they dont get satisfied with the home food after marriage if you know wat i mean. its a free world for them..

but like you say that doesnt mean they dont love and care for the family or wife.they do..so my question is are you ok with that even after marriage as long as he loves and cares??

PS:No hard feelings i found several girls of the way you think and i asked them the same questions?just its a bit hard for me to think about girls who dont care their guy or husband being with another gal. in west of cos wife brings a wh** as birthday present to husband. i want clarify are our gals heading towards that way..

1.yes I am 99.9% sure that I’m not going to worry about those stuff even if I get a chance check it.!

2.Ok can you tell me why do they do so? Enough of having rice and curry for all the three meals? Ok if their wives prepare verities of foods will they spend their time and money for out side hotels? Well my personal idea is its up to the wife to keep her husband stick to her…!

I think my definition about Love is different from yours. According to me, If someone really love and care their partner they wont be going for a hotel for the dinner while their dinner is waiting at the home dining table.

 

[Nic]

you can read my view here

everyone who says i dont care if partner is vergin or not (i mean not the physical thingy...) is contributing towards a disarster of the future generation..

obviousely you can understand after marriage..i see family as one of the most precious things in the social structure and should be protected with everything we can.

ya i agree with u

i see family as one of the most precious things in the social structure and should be protected with everything we can..

this is true and the thinj is most of the ppl dnt understand this thing

 

[bhai4uanu]

1.yes I am 99.9% sure that I’m not going to worry about those stuff even if I get a chance check it.!

2.Ok can you tell me why do they do so? Enough of having rice and curry for all the three meals? Ok if their wives prepare verities of foods will they spend their time and money for out side hotels? Well my personal idea is its up to the wife to keep her husband stick to her…!

I think my definition about Love is different from yours. According to me, If someone really love and care their partner they wont be going for a hotel for the dinner while their dinner is waiting at the home dining table.

all i can say from all above
you do care(please accept that),in my opinion that's a good thing

 

[just]

1.yes I am 99.9% sure that I’m not going to worry about those stuff even if I get a chance check it.!

appriciate that straight answer...

2.Ok can you tell me why do they do so? Enough of having rice and curry for all the three meals? Ok if their wives prepare verities of foods will they spend their time and money for out side hotels? Well my personal idea is its up to the wife to keep her husband stick to her…!

I think my definition about Love is different from yours. According to me, If someone really love and care their partner they wont be going for a hotel for the dinner while their dinner is waiting at the home dining table.

for someone who had every kind of taste before marriage, its not gona be easy to stick one kind called wife even if its cooked with all the different ways.this is the practical situation cos guys world rotates around sex most of the time..if he has not deciplined himself before marriage its not gona change over night..

but one thing i should say from what i see you would make a wonderful wife.reason your confidence in yourself..

but still i dont agree with you in point publicly saying you dont care.i think it as you not careing about your duty towards the society. there will be guys/gals who tend to take it as a permission and thats wat i say disaster for the future..

 

[Mihindu_Gajaba]

ane manda

 

[just]

ya i agree with u

this is true and the thinj is most of the ppl dnt understand this thing

yes people generally are like that.but that shouldnt discourage people who understand from telling it.or believing it will change things...

ill quate malees sigi

"Stand firm for what you believe. Say what you believe right, Do what you believe is right​

but above all Educate your self and"

-Nash Node-
​

 

[Nic]

yes people generally are like that.but that shouldnt discourage people who understand from telling it.or believing it will change things...

ill quate malees sigi

"Stand firm for what you believe. Say what you believe right, Do what you believe is right​

but above all Educate your self and"

-Nash Node-
​

hehe ya thats true!!!

 

[maleemsg]

all i can say from all above
you do care(please accept that),in my opinion that's a good thing

but y shoul I?

 

[maleemsg]

appriciate that straight answer...



for someone who had every kind of taste before marriage, its not gona be easy to stick one kind called wife even if its cooked with all the different ways.this is the practical situation cos guys world rotates around sex most of the time..if he has not deciplined himself before marriage its not gona change over night..

but one thing i should say from what i see you would make a wonderful wife.reason your confidence in yourself..

but still i dont agree with you in point publicly saying you dont care.i think it as you not careing about your duty towards the society. there will be guys/gals who tend to take it as a permission and thats wat i say disaster for the future..

I;m a sigle girl who lives a idependent life even without a BF so how can i talk about the sexual side of males okata thamaiu kiyanne habalak wath nethi mata mona new talk da kiyala.

and Just bro I told you that I dont care the virginity of my BF. and you are saying that men are not changing by one night...well what all I have to say is i'll be taking the post of chef at his home only after he stop visiting hotels and if he continue visiting the hotels after my appointment I never be hesitate to handover my resignation letter....
and that doesn't mean I do care virginity but care the values of a family life. Anything B4 marrige but not after

 

[psyche]

....Anything B4 marrige but not after

which.....most of the SL guys/gals don't comprehend with these days

 

[THE_ONE]

I'm not expecting a virgin as my wife b'coz there are no such girls left...........

 

[bhai4uanu]

but y shoul I?

i am totally disappointed

well what all I have to say is i'll be taking the post of chef at his home only after he stop visiting hotels and if he continue visiting the hotels after my appointment I never be hesitate to handover my resignation letter....
and that doesn't mean I do care virginity but care the values of a family life. Anything B4 marrige but not after

On what Grounds you can expect him not to visit hotels if he already had before?