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twisted

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    ye defenetly but not all.. but there is one i want him to be stop this remind me the way he is smoking :(

    so why do you hate it? don't you think they are doing it for a reason and smoking matters to them in a way? you seem to love this person but you can't accept him for what he is and understand this one need of him? I think this is very selfish of you.
     

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    so why do you hate it? don't you think they are doing it for a reason and smoking matters to them in a way? you seem to love this person but you can't accept him for what he is and understand this one need of him? I think this is very selfish of you.
    wht am i slefish? is that why i want him to stop. :eek:
    i really care about him thats why i wanna cz it kills health and wealth both. :sorry:
     

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    wht am i slefish? is that why i want him to stop. :eek:
    i really care about him thats why i wanna cz it kills health and wealth both. :sorry:

    yes you are selfish :) you want him to stop cos that will make you happy, but on the other hand it will make him very unhappy. If health and wealth is what you live for, I don't even think you love him :lol: you should instead find out why he smoke and try help him with the cause. ...but then again, there's no selfless deeds.
     

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    yes you are selfish :) you want him to stop cos that will make you happy, but on the other hand it will make him very unhappy. If health and wealth is what you live for, I don't even think you love him :lol: you should instead find out why he smoke and try help him with the cause. ...but then again, there's no selfless deeds.

    yes u correct have to find problem and give solution but smoking is something addicting so that why im worring and cant see destroying a person who i really like. I dont wanna happy by stopping him i have give lot of sacrifice for him.. cz normaly i never go near a someone whos smoking but bez him i have forgot everything :) thats kind of sacrifice even i hurt i dont show him.
     

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    yes u correct have to find problem and give solution but smoking is something addicting so that why im worring and cant see destroying a person who i really like. I dont wanna happy by stopping him i have give lot of sacrifice for him.. cz normaly i never go near a someone whos smoking but bez him i have forgot everything :) thats kind of sacrifice even i hurt i dont show him.

    you are very discriminating aren't you...saying that you won't even go near a person who smokes...it adds up to selfishness :) being unable to understand a fellow person, only concerned about somebody you love which in turns, is only to make yourself happy again, if you really loved him, you would sadly sit behind looking at him happily smoke..you can't draw lines between happiness...being unhealthy cos of smoking may be a disaster to you, but to him, it may be a happiness...that's where you have failed to understand him...different people have different meanings to words.
     

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    you are very discriminating aren't you...saying that you won't even go near a person who smokes...it adds up to selfishness :) being unable to understand a fellow person, only concerned about somebody you love which in turns, is only to make yourself happy again, if you really loved him, you would sadly sit behind looking at him happily smoke..you can't draw lines between happiness...being unhealthy cos of smoking may be a disaster to you, but to him, it may be a happiness...that's where you have failed to understand him...different people have different meanings to words.
    not that im discriminating someone lilke that. actually im allergic to that smell not that im thinking about my health or something. ye i do that :) though i dont like it. ye i agree different people have different meaning to words. but this thing is confusing me. i cant take it out from my mind and relax. as u told i cant love and care all the other its true i only care who i want and like. so it is obvious thing. :yes:
     
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    not that im discriminating someone lilke that. actually im allergic to that smell not that im thinking about my health or something. ye i do that :) though i dont like it. ye i agree different people have different meaning to words. but this thing is confusing me. i cant take it out from my mind and relax. as u told i cant love and care all the other its true i only care who i want and like. so it is obvious thing. :yes:

    yeah you love and care for the one that matters, ...yourself
     

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    no i dont have that kind of weak mind :)

    define 'weak' :) ...probably you are two weak to let go of your obsession with good health and indulge in something that really helps...probably you are too weak to let go of the grip you have on your conventional beliefs and things you learned from your adults that say 'anything that even slightly harm your body is totally rubbish' :).

    calling smokers weak is an old way of arguing sachi, don't deal with it the way those narrow minded people do just cos they can't understand something beyond their mindset...this is exactly like saying, killing yourself is weak, in truth, it is much more brave ;)