My girlfriend is sexually abused ... PLS HELP....

*danushka*

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    how could she remember what happened when she was 4 years? plus even if she lost her virginity when she was 4 years is it gonna affect you in any way? i mean are you looking for a virgin to marry or whatever?

    if his answer is "YES" so then what is your opinion ???;);)
     

    ||~R_girl~||

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    for sure she must have lost her virginity for a guy..i smell smthn fishy about da 4year old scene.she may be feeling guilty for not telng u and keeping it as a secret.(in most cases)
    being with her is up to u.if u can tolrate this and forgot stay with her.
    if not plz dont otherwise ull suffer till the end

    true. maybe she was making up this whole thing to cover up things that happened later/recently. cuz this is very unlikely to happen in my opinion.
    but who gives a fuck about her virginity, as long as u love her.
     

    ||~R_girl~||

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    if his answer is "YES" so then what is your opinion ???;);)

    if this guy regards virginity as a physical thing alone, he doesnt wanna be with her. duhh! maybe he wants to be the one who breaks her virginity. but wtf its not fair. in case this story is true (which i hardly believe) its bloody unfair for the girl
     

    Master Ken

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    but who gives a fuck about her virginity, as long as u love her.

    hats off..
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    zombiee.. :P
     
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    mata prashne thiyenne virginity eka newei......

    mata boru kiyala thibunoth ehema... :(

    ehema deyak unaanam kalinma kiyanna thibunaa...

    anyway.... mama .. eyaata kiyanawa "4 yr old waladi mehema wenna be.. 4yr with 14 yr sex intercouse be.. mata aththama kiyanna kiyanawa..."

    hari mama aye godak welaawata comment karana ekak nethi wei awashyama unoth...

    namuth mama kohomahari meke aththama wisthare hoyaagena awilla oyalata kiyanawa.....

    hema denaama kiyapu dewal mata godak watinawa...

    mata me prashne hariyatama wisadaganna sathiyak dekak 3k withara yai...

    eth tharaha kara ganne nethuwa ... samaawa denna porondu welaa okkoma aha gannawa...

    ubala hamootama godak pin dunna adahas walata..... mata den therenewa mokakda karanna oni kiyala...

    eth duka daranna amarui.. :(
     

    Nash_Node

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    Can I tell you something with 10 years professional experience?

    She is lying - 90% probability
    She's telling the truth - 10%

    Her story doesnt check out properly mate..or atleast by what you have posted up here.

    My advice is for you to lay the issue low for a while... then after sometime, as Specific delicate question as to what colour dress she was wearing.. what was the Show on the TV .. what sort of a Date of the week it was..

    and by any fucking chance she answers all those.. then she's lying :P

    Do know that almost all rape victims remember nothing but the actual scene or rather than incident.. not how it happened, not when it happened .. no background details

    Just a little heads up mate..
     
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    korn

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    1st is this story is true o she dd sex lately n just trying 2 get over by saying this story:yes::yes: it can be either way. after all she is a girl

    ow machan... i dont tel that she is cheating on you... but i have a doubt which is very much unlikly to happen... i.e that a 14 year old guy playing toys with a 4 year old... all the others could be belived bt.. this scene is very hard to believe... :confused::rolleyes::confused::rolleyes::confused:
     

    Emios

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    And i dont think da parents would stay silent by just scoldn at the 4year old for da incident.they would sue the 14 old year guy's family.
    This is a cover up story.
    mchn u shld grow some balls to forgot this n live with her if she loves u now.she may have lost her virginity recently 90% of the time.

    if u r so emotional that u cant forgot these things ever.best thing is to stop this affair.or u guys will fight later in life for this incident n break up.so dont suffer for ages.
     

    Sefirosu

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    උඹ ඔය කෙල්ලව ඇත්තට දැකලා තියද?
    එහෙම නැත්තම් චැට් ලවක් ද?
    මීට් වෙලා ඕක කතා කරලා බලපන්!
    හැබැයි ඉතින් අවුරුදු 4 දි සෙක්ස් කළත්
    අවුරුදු 18දි සෙක්ස් කළත් අවුලක් නැහැ නෙ
    දැන් උබලා සිරාම ලව් නම්?

    ලව් එක නිසා ඒකි ආයෙත් වෙන කොල්ලෙක් එක්ක යන් නැහැ නෙ
    උඹට ඉතින් සිරා ලව් කරන් ඉන්න තියෙන්නෙ!
    අනික කැඩිලා නම් ඒක කිව්ව එකත් ලොකු දෙයක් නෙ උඹට
    කැඩෙන් නැති වෙන්න අනිත් සේරම කරලා
    පොඩි එකා වගේ ඉන්න කෙල්ලෙක්ට වඩා
    තමන්ගේ ඇත්තම තත්වෙ කියන කෙල්ලෙක් ගොඩක් වටිනවා
     
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    Can I tell you something with 10 years professional experience?

    She is lying - 90% probability
    She's telling the truth - 10%

    Her story doesnt check out properly mate..or atleast by what you have posted up here.

    My advice is for you to lay the issue low for a while... then after sometime, as Specific delicate question as to what colour dress she was wearing.. what was the Show on the TV .. what sort of a Date of the week it was..

    and by any fucking chance she answers all those.. then she's lying :P

    Do know that almost all rape victims remember nothing but the actual scene or rather than incident.. not how it happened, not when it happened .. no background details

    Just a little heads up mate..


    ok thank u ... thisone is very helpful.... can u pls give me somemore tips?
     

    Sefirosu

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    උඹට ඕක අමතක කරන්න බැරි නම් බඳින්න යන්න එපා
    නැත්තම් කෙල්ලගේ අතින් පොඩි වැරැද්දක් උන ගමන්
    උඹ "තොගෙ පෙට්ටියත් කැඩිලා නෙ වේ*යේ තිබ්බෙ" කියයි.
    එහෙම නැතුව ඉන්න පුළුවන් නම් විතරක් බැඳපන්!
    නැත්තම් දෙන්නගෙම ජීවිත අපරාදෙ
     
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    උබ කෙල්ලට සිරා නම් , කෙල්ල උබට සිරානම්, ඔය සීන් එක ගැන උබට හංගන්නේ නැතුව කිව්වනම් තවත් මොනාද ඉතින්!!!!!

    ඒකි හොද කෙලේලෙක් ‍වගේ පේන්නේ නම් නැත්තන් ඔය ‍වගේ දෙයක් හංගනවා ඇරෙන්න කියන්නේ නැහැ

    පොඩි කාලේ උන සිද්දියක් ඔක ඒකිගේ අතේ වරදක් නැහැ,

    මම නම් හිතන්නේ බදින්න හොදම කෙල්ල තමයි එයා , මොකද දැන් මුකුත් හංගන්නේ නැහැ කියන්නේ ඉදිරියටත් නැහැ තමයි.....................................

    කන්‍ය පටලය ගැන වද වෙන්න එපා කොල්ලෝ!!!!!

    එක දෙයක් කියන්නම් කවදා හරි බැන්ද දවසක රන්ඩු උනොත් ඔය කතාව මතක් කරලා එයාට බනින්න එපා//// ඔය කතාව ඔතනින්ම අමතක කරන්න.

    (Off records : මම හොය හොය හිටියේ ඔය වගේ හැමදේම හංගන්නේ නැතිව මට කියන කෙල්ලෙක්ව......... වයස කීයක් විතර ඇද්ද ??? උබට එපා නම් මට සෙට් කරලා දියන් කෝ)

    meka thama A/L wath karala nathi podi ekek e unata muge katha nikan thaththa kenekge wage wal uru patiya
     

    agdrig

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    මචන් හොදම දේ තමයි
    …උබෙ කෙල්ලව මනෝ වයිද්දය වරයෙක්ට පෙන්නන එක
    …
    …උබ කියල තිබුනනෙ කෙල්ලට නින්ද යන්නෙ නෑ කියල
    …
    …එක නිසා පුලුවන් ඉක්මනට මනෝ වයිද්දය කෙනෙක්ට පෙන්නපන්
    …
    …හෑබෑයි පුතෝ එහෙම කරද්දි උබයි එයාගෙ parents ලගෙ හෙල්ප් එක
    …
    …එයාට ලබෙන්න ඔනා
    …
    …අත්දෑකිමෙන් කියන්නෙ
     

    agdrig

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    Can I tell you something with 10 years professional experience?

    She is lying - 90% probability
    She's telling the truth - 10%

    Her story doesnt check out properly mate..or atleast by what you have posted up here.

    My advice is for you to lay the issue low for a while... then after sometime, as Specific delicate question as to what colour dress she was wearing.. what was the Show on the TV .. what sort of a Date of the week it was..

    and by any fucking chance she answers all those.. then she's lying :P

    Do know that almost all rape victims remember nothing but the actual scene or rather than incident.. not how it happened, not when it happened .. no background details

    Just a little heads up මටෙ..
    …
    …මනෝ වයිද්දය කෙනෙක්ට පුලුවන්
    …ඈත්තද බොරුද කියන්නෙ කියල හොය ගන්න
    …මම දන්න තරමින්
     

    sbuddhikad

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    if she suffering from this there is a help line it is free of charge and you can takes any phone line it number 1333 so ask her to call them they will definitely help her. this is so privet & confidential. if you thing you need to more information try to do your self. that phone line active only 9am to 5pm.
    i wish you could over come those barriers with out any problem. wish you all the best.
    i need to tell you something she believe you so don't forget that okay.