My girlfriend is sexually abused ... PLS HELP....

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This is lengthy.. but please take ur time.. read and help me... :(

Hi friends,

I have created this fake account because i cannot post this story on my original account.... !!!

Yesterday my girfriend told me something that i got very shocked :(
After hearing that, i cant sleep,eat, yesterday i almost cried and didnt know what to do..


She told me the story while chatting on fb... and i will paste some parts of the conversation red color here so that u will be able to understand the situation.


before she tell me the story... she made me promise


i didn't tell everything about this before
babe promise you don't leave me?


babe how if i tell you this i think you will leave me


it was very hard for me to convince her to tell me the story.... and finally.... i was able to convince her with thousands of promises that i wont tell anyone and wont leave her.....

Then she said this....

when i was young
i don't know about sex
but one guy are very close to me
he is my friend plying together
when he starting know about computer
he starting watching movie's
but one day
he call me
"come here up stair"
then i will come i thought he like playing toys with me
i come to him
set there
he said that on me
i sit
Few minuets
He don't have clothes na
i don't know what's going on
he is in my side
let's say i had sex already

i am sorry babe
i am so sorry




:( :( :(

i didnt show any moods to her... i told her i need to know everthing what happened.....


she didnt like saying anythin to me... but with my effort i convinced her to tell me everthing...


my mom know about that
then she get angry on me
she trying to kill me
I was so upset About that
I never tell anyone about this
that happen on me is Troma for me
I cant Sleep
I always Remember that thing
Now I am Afraid To Tell You About This
Because U will Leave me




She also said she was 4 years old and that guy was 14 years old when it happen....


and finally she said everything that guy did to her... she is abused in a very bad manner :( (sorry i cant put that disgusting things happened to her here)


She also said... she didnt bleed while happening, but she says she is no longer a virgin because of this and feels dirty all the time.....

.....................................................................................

Machan... how can i help her?

what shuld i do?

i cant take her to counsellin bcos she lives very far and her parents are soo tough that she is very afraid to talk about the situation :(

what kinds of effects will she face in future? How can i save her... Pls help me...

Also need to say... she dont have enough knowlegde on sex... reproduction.. birth control .. things like that... she is very innocent... I cant leave her.. What should i do?

:( :( :(
 

~v3n0m~

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is this a joke or something or are you serious? if serious, this isnt exactly the right place to bring this type of stuff right? you should talk to a lawyer or someone and try to get info about what legal actions you can take etc ?
 

Kumara456

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    උඹ අසරණ නිසා එලකිරි එකේ සෙට් එකෙන් මේ වගේ දෙයක් අහපු එක සාධාරණයි..ඒත් මචන් තීරණය අපි දෙන්න කලින් උඹ තීරණය කරපන් මොකක්ද කරන්න ඕනි කියල..

    උඹ කෙල්ලට ඇත්තටම ආදරේ නම් ආයිත් කිසිම දාක ඒ වැරැද්ද පෙන්නල කෙල්ලට වැරැද්දක් දාන්නෙ නැත්නම් උඹ ඒ කෙල්ලට සිරාවටම ආදරේ කරපන්..

    හැබැයි උඹ ඒ ගැන පසුතැවෙනවනම් දෙයියනේ බුදුනේ කියල අතඇරපන්..

    ඒත් මගේ මතේ නම් උඹ ඒ කෙල්ලව සිරාවටම කරපන්..සුබ පැතුම් මචන්.. අවුලක් කරගන්න එපා..

    කෙල්ලට කරන උදව්වක් විදිහට උඹේ ඔරිජිනල් අයිඩී එකේ මේ සීන් එක දාන්නත් එපා..ඇත්ත ජීවිතේ මේ ගැන කාටවත් කියන්නත් එපා..


    මගේ මතේ උඹ ඒ කෙල්ලව දිගටම කරපන්...
     
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    meka joke ekak newei :(

    machan... kellata me seen eka weddi awrudu 4i... kollata 14......

    ape adareta maasa 7k wenawa... eth mata me kathaawa kiwwe iye...

    siddiya wela den awrudu 15 kata kittui... eth meyaa shock welaa inne....

    meka eyaage wereddak newei....
     
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    Sefirosu

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    අවුරුදු 4දි කිසිම ෆීලින්ග් එකක් නැතුව සෙක්ස් කරපු කෙල්ලත්
    කවදාවත් සෙක්ස් නොකරපු කෙල්ලයි සමානයි.
    ඉතින් අවුලක් නැහැ නෙ බන්!
    උඹ පෙට්ටිය ඔළුවෙ තියන් නටන් නැතුව
    කෙල්ලගෙ හොඳ ගති ගුණ ගැන හිතපන්.
    කඩ්ඩෙන් කතා කළාට විතරක් මදි බන්
    මොන්ගල් ගතිත් අරින්න ඕන!
     

    0ver10d

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    meka joke ekak newei :(

    machan... kellata me seen eka weddi awrudu 4i... kollata 14......

    ape adareta maasa 7k wenawa... eth mata me kathaawa kiwwe iye...

    siddiya wela den awrudu 15 kata kittui... eth meyaa shock welaa inne....

    meka eyaage wereddak newei....

    Kella A/L karanna kalin wena kath ekka hari set wela idala thiyanawada?
    E kiyanne Kellata danum therum thiyana wayasedi
    UBAWA Arenna
    wena kath ekka hari love karala thiyanawada?????
     

    eranga_rama

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    yep this is not the correct place to talk about this. Aprt from taking legal actions (think twice before taking legal actions, she might have to tell everything happened in front of a large crowd) just try your best to lead your normal life with you gf which you led ealier pretending nothing happened. (well, might not be easy as I say) But at least try.

    Well, the bottome line is if you truly love her, you'll never leave her no matter what happens. I think counsalling would be the best option. Try to convince her parents.

    good luck
     

    dilhansen

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    Macho, as per u'r explanation she's in still shock. even after u get marry her she cant come out with this with out proper treatment. better u take her to psychologist. they will advice her.
     

    0ver10d

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    අවුරුදු 4දි කිසිම ෆීලින්ග් එකක් නැතුව සෙක්ස් කරපු කෙල්ලත්
    කවදාවත් සෙක්ස් නොකරපු කෙල්ලයි සමානයි.
    ඉතින් අවුලක් නැහැ නෙ බන්!
    උඹ පෙට්ටිය ඔළුවෙ තියන් නටන් නැතුව
    කෙල්ලගෙ හොඳ ගති ගුණ ගැන හිතපන්.
    කඩ්ඩෙන් කතා කළාට විතරක් මදි බන්
    මොන්ගල් ගතිත් අරින්න ඕන!

    ube mara gathi adahas ne ban thiyenne
    me SInhalen Gahnne kohomada ban???????????????
     
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    Kella A/L karanna kalin wena kath ekka hari set wela idala thiyanawada?
    E kiyanne Kellata danum therum thiyana wayasedi
    UBAWA Arenna
    wena kath ekka hari love karala thiyanawada?????

    eyaa inne wena rataka... mama lankaawe...

    eyaata kisima ehema wena love ekak ne mata eka sahenna wiswaasai...
     
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    ~v3n0m~

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    yes, counseling would be important to help her to get rid of the mental effect etc. and try to help her to forget. she will even after forgetting still she will start feeling uncomfortable when you guys start doing/talking about those stuff together. in that type of cases you should think wisely and try to help her to handle the situation. and things will go fade away with the time.
     

    0ver10d

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    Macho, as per u'r explanation she's in still shock. even after u get marry her she cant come out with this with out proper treatment. better u take her to psychologist. they will advice her.


    i didn't see that this is not much to go for a psychologist ne??
     

    mtg

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    machan math keyanne... oka ubata a kella kewwa akga awnka kama nesa a nesa uba a gana sthutu wayan.. ubata awlak nathnam oka degatama karagena palayan.... i think she will be gd girl....:lol::nerd:
     

    dry

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    pau machan girl.godak pau.awurudu 4k wage weddi nodanuwathwama akamathen ohoma wuneka godak pau.oyatat hithata amaru athi machan.oka ahana onekenekta ohoma dekadi shok wenawa.oya girlge hitha hadana.oya eyata lan wenda machan.meka girl kamatten karapu deyak neme.thirisanek karapu deyak.so hodama de oyata puluwannam oyage girlta godak lan wenda.eyage hitha hadanda.oya eyath ekka inna bawa kiyanda.mage love story eketh ochcharama deyak na.bt ohoma podi dewal tiyanwa.ewata dukai.but what to do.oyata puluwan girlge hitha hadanda.dont worry dawas deka thunak hari umba adapan machan oka gana hithala.after hitha strong karan kelinma theeranayak ganda.gud luck
     

    Mozilla

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  • අවුරුදු 4දි කිසිම ෆීලින්ග් එකක් නැතුව සෙක්ස් කරපු කෙල්ලත්
    කවදාවත් සෙක්ස් නොකරපු කෙල්ලයි සමානයි.
    ඉතින් අවුලක් නැහැ නෙ බන්!
    උඹ පෙට්ටිය ඔළුවෙ තියන් නටන් නැතුව
    කෙල්ලගෙ හොඳ ගති ගුණ ගැන හිතපන්.
    කඩ්ඩෙන් කතා කළාට විතරක් මදි බන්
    මොන්ගල් ගතිත් අරින්න ඕන!

    :yes: අනිත් එක දැන් ඕව හාර අවුස්සන ගියොත් කෙල්ල නිකන් නොන්ඩි වෙනවා..උබ ඒකිට ඇත්තම ආදරේ කරනවනම් උබටත් ඒ සීන් එක අමතක කරන්න පුලුන්ම් අවුලක් නැනේ බං...එල උබල දෙන්නටම ජය වේවා!!!!!!!