Re wenna enawa, den moko karanne??

amila_mp

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  • Oct 25, 2007
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    ~ Note3One ~
    raa wenna enawanam ubalage am*awa me paththe ewahan, ube kata puka ridenne nam eeye p*ke arala katata dunna nisa wenna athi ban..harpic tikak daala dath tika medapan ooka hari yai
     

    gayankuwait

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    උබෙ පැත්තට කතා කරන්න ගිහින් මට මඩ ගහල ත්‍රෙඩ් දාලා ඔකට හරියන්න අද උබෙ අම්මගෙන් වාඩුව ගන්නම්
     
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    umbalage amma kochchara duk wenawa adda tho kaalakanniyek wage jeewithe winasa karagena , Igena ganne nathiwa ,hire Gihin ,rata gihilla chatar wela kaalakanniyek wage jeewithe winsasa karan innawa dakiddi,e manussya ganawath hithala jeewithe goda daaganin,hari haman jobak hiya gena ,Online athal dena eka nawaththa ganin, umbe amma umbawa podi kaale KOCHCHARA adaren hadanna athida kochchara hopes thiyaganna athida umba gana eth dan tho kaalakanniyek wela,PAW UMBE AMMA
     
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    Getting angry and creating a scene will not always achieve your goals, it could even make it harder.

    Assume that you'll have to wait most places you'll seek help. Keep in mind that some of the things you'll need can only be supplied by one or two agencies. Politely ask how soon you can be seen.

    Remember when you were inside? People who annoy prison guards wait longer for anything they want. If you yell at someone, or create a scene they might help you that one time right away, and then bar you from ever getting help at that agency again. Or they might just throw you out.

    Feel ignored? Feel your needs aren't being taken seriously? Hold on to anger as your last weapon, because once you've used it, you may not be able to go back to that agency again. Don't burn bridges before you even get to them.
     
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    Build flexibility into your visualization.

    When you get back, things may be different than you pictured them -- you may have to do things in a different order or people may treat you differently. Don't let that throw you. Be thinking "If A happens, then I'll do . . . . but if B happens instead, this is how I'll handle it." Remember "When Life Hands You Lemons, Make Lemonade."