So like you she also feel the same..
For you it should not be a problem..
For a virgin innocent fellow may get that feeling and its fair
yes i know that .. but things might change when it happens to you.
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yes i know that .. but things might change when it happens to you.
That social structure prevails in asian countries. when it comes to western many girls lose their virginity before 18. Loosing virginity to a xbf and getting raped is a 2 different things. Its not just physical damage but more on mental damage after being raped. For a guy getting raped is trivial because of our mindset and many like it more or less
I think its a problem a mind, if we think too much on that it will be burden. Not just virginity we may even get upset by thinking about how she held hands with her x.You may marry a virgin fresh girl but after if she sleeps with another it would be a worse case than marrying virgin girl who would not do so
Totally agree with you ! even i don't believe in god, that much i am open minded and no barriers to my life but when this thing happend to me *facepalm* i don't know how tho say that strange feeling . . .
කෙල්ලෙක්ගේ පිරිසිදුකම කවදාවත් පෙට්ටියෙන් මනින්න බෑ.
පෙට්ටිය කඩාගන් නැතුව *කෙ ඇරගත්තු කෙල්ලො එතකොට පිරිසිදුද?නෑ නේ.
වැරදි වෙනවා තමා.ඒත් ඒවා ඉස්සරහට වෙන්න දෙන්නේ නැතුව ආදරෙන් ඉන්න පුලුවන්නම් එච්චරයි.
පෙට්ටිය කඩාගන් නැතුව *කෙ ඇරගත්තු කෙල්ලො එතකොට පිරිසිදුද?නෑ නේ.
වැරදි වෙනවා තමා.ඒත් ඒවා ඉස්සරහට වෙන්න දෙන්නේ නැතුව ආදරෙන් ඉන්න පුලුවන්නම් එච්චරයි.
That social structure prevails in asian countries. when it comes to western many girls lose their virginity before 18. Loosing virginity to a xbf and getting raped is a 2 different things. Its not just physical damage but more on mental damage after being raped. For a guy getting raped is trivial because of our mindset and many like it more or less
You may marry a virgin fresh girl but after if she sleeps with another it would be a worse case than marrying virgin girl who would not do so
of course not there are so many virgin women even in western countries specially if they are more into traditional side.
many conservative men value virgin women over non-virgin girls when it comes to US most of republicans are tend to be more conservative and since nearly half of people are republicans we can assume at least there is a large amount of people who still value the virginity this is same when it comes to Mormon, Muslim, Christian families specially if they are a bit more devoted and America is not made up with just whites there are many asians, muslims even in US and among them there are large number of men who still value the virgin women.
there are actually 3 kind of people.those who demand virgin women, those who don't care, those who demand non virgin women. many conservatives still among first and second groups but more into the first group.
and when it comes to europe most of men have a different mentality because they don't concern women as something possession like in medieval age instead they concern women as something sexualized, shared thing so it doesn't matter to them as long as their needs are fulfilled that's all they want this is kind of same in US but it's quite prominent in Europe than in US because America is based on christian values so many people still in christian mentality and in Christianity virginity is very important that's why even the virgin marry is known as virgin prominently .
but still I don't generalize people are different we can't brush the whole society with one wide brush even among conservative families there can be people who don't very concern about it and there can be women who concern about the male virginity so I don't generalize but what I said was the usual situation in this world.
both are different but what I wanted to point out something different which was valuing fresh , new , stuff over used stuff is kind of equivalent to valuing maiden women it's the usual mindset in the society. raped implying her virginity is lost it's something equivalent an item is used so like the item loses its value after it's used in the same way the woman loses her value after getting raped. she doesn't have to be raped even if she had a sexual contact the situation is same.
first understand why rape is so taboo over killing, stealing etc.. it's so taboo because the society is still patriarchal where men dominant in the society so male view is more important when it comes to society , since men view women as something possession like consumer goods and they expect always it's to be fresh and new. raped means she loses her freshness so she loses her value in the society women have been fear of that for centuries so that's why women get so upset over rape. nowadays women in certain societies don't very much concern about losing her value over having sex but still the aforesaid mindset deep down in their mind. .
this is same like I explained early it's hard to generalize people are different. you might like to be raped but I don't like to be raped by anyone and I am sure there are so many guys like me. because when a person has a self respect no one wants to be used by someone else.
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එත් එක වෙනස් වෙනවා. අනිත් එඋන් දන්නේ නැ මටනම් එහෙමයි .. කැරි සින් එක බන්
No... becoz i dnt have a women...
Bt seriously am nt going to worry about it anyway..
For me it's nt a big deal..
ok good
No කියන උත්තරේ දීලා මම හණමිටි අදහස් නැති කොල්ලෙක් කියල පෙන්නන ආස උනාට, හිතට එකඟව බැලුවොත් Yes මම බලාපොරොත්තු වෙනව මම බඳින කෙල්ල පිට ගියෙ නැති කෙල්ලෙක් වෙයි කියල. ඒ වගේම මම දන්නව හැම කෙල්ලෙක්ටම කන්යාපටලයක් පිහිටන්නෙ නැහැ කියලත්.
තන්ගල්ලේ ගල් දෙබොක්කාවේ කෙකට පුලියා වලේ මුඛ ටෙයියේ අතල් ගත්තෝ සුවපත් වෙවා නිදුක් වේවා නිරොගී වේවා
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