what a fucking life.........

[Thunder_Flash]

Many times i thought my self to, what kind of fucking life just i spend.every problems coming behind me and when i going to finish one problem just appear another one before i solve the first one.
i was thinking my self to do every people feel same like me.???
unfortunately they don't feel the problems as much as i feel.
few years ago i spend lovely life with my friend, no tension, no big hopes, no competition due to i was been lived in village.but i had to move to the city because of my higher studies.i never thought this gonna be fucking ugly like this. until 4 year of my studies even i couldn't get higher marks , Grade for my degree or even i couldn't to find out a girl for my life.fucking friends that i found from university always with their fucking ass holes.even i couldn't to find out a person to make a chat.
it's not their fault.once i had the same experience with my girl friend before i enter to the university.her feelings are same as my feelings but unfortunately i missed her due to the problems which is coming behind me and some problems which is made by her to my life.

need to make a huge change but i don't know where to begin??

 

[Thor2014]

 

[Robinhood wage ekek]

Many times i thought my self to, what kind of fucking life just i spend, Every time i see a English comment , i cant reply it because my English is bad !

 

[DAM40]

 

[Wele-Suda]

ඒක ඉතින් අපිට කියන්න බෑ, උඹම තමයි කල්පනා කරල තිරණයක් ගන්න ඕනා. ප්‍රශ්න මොනවගේද කියල කිව්වොත් නම් මේකෙ උන් උදව් කරයි

 

[asknrk]

Write down your list of problems, then grade as high, mid low and give solution one by one

 

[romero2005]

mata tiyana prasna uba dannawanam ohoma kiyana ekak na.....Daily problems..... but I face to them nicely...try hard to find solutions for some problems and go with them. No problems means no life bro...u should face to them. u might fail. but learn from it and do it again.

 

[Rage Guy]

So you went to city,then univercity,no grade,no gf,bad freinds.

You call these problems.

 

[Thunder_Flash]

this is the only way to light up the darkness

 

[Thunder_Flash]

Many times i thought my self to, what kind of fucking life just i spend, Every time i see a English comment , i cant reply it because my English is bad !

no matter about your English. your comment is to me and not to the others. just try it both English and sinhala.

 

[Thunder_Flash]

So you went to city,then univercity,no grade,no gf,bad freinds.

You call these problems.

these are some facts to origin the problems.no self satisfactions, self esteem,even i haven't a job.only training for Rs.625 per day.this is not a better place to live.

now 26 years old...No job to cover my expenses,No vehicle even a bike,No girl friend, No House for me, No happiness to my life, No handsome look, No social recognition, No rich person to get help when i'm in a trouble, No strong friends, family problems such as parents are suffering some diseases. No financially strong, some legal cases, no educated neighbors, etc......................................

only way to solve whether fuck off to this life to say good bye or leave this fucking country any how legally or illegally...

the person who lives fairly without illegal method and responsible way he never can be rich or happy him self.

this is the only think which is gain during this 26 years of my life.

 

[Thunder_Flash]

Write down your list of problems, then grade as high, mid low and give solution one by one

once i write down.it origin new problems which is grater than that i rated.so the major problem is how to prioritize these things according to the turbulent situations.

 

[Rage Guy]

these are some facts to origin the problems.no self satisfactions, self esteem,even i haven't a job.only training for Rs.625 per day.this is not a better place to live.

now 26 years old...No job to cover my expenses,No vehicle even a bike,No girl friend, No House for me, No happiness to my life, No handsome look, No social recognition, No rich person to get help when i'm in a trouble, No strong friends, family problems such as parents are suffering some diseases. No financially strong, some legal cases, no educated neighbors, etc......................................

only way to solve whether fuck off to this life to say good bye or leave this fucking country any how legally or illegally...

the person who lives fairly without illegal method and responsible way he never can be rich or happy him self.

this is the only think which is gain during this 26 years of my life.

Have you tried some overseas jobs in dubai/qatar.Give your cv to those agencies.

 

[Robinhood wage ekek]

no matter about your English. your comment is to me and not to the others. just try it both English and sinhala.

ඕකේ , සිංහලෙන්ම කියන්නන් කෝ .. උබට තියෙන්නේ අන්තුක්කංසනය පිලිබඳ ගැටලුවක් තේරුනේ නෑ නේද ? අන්තුක්කංසනය කියන්නේ තමා පිළිබඳව තමන්ට තියෙන හැඟීම, කඩ්ඩෙන් කියනව නං ඕක හදුන්වන්නේ self esteem කියල ඕක ඇත්තටම සාමාන්‍ය දෙයක් .. මිනිස්සු හැමෝටම තියෙනවා .. එත් මිනිස්සු හැමෝගෙම self esteem එක එකිනෙකාට වෙනස් වෙන්න කරුණු කීපයක් බලපානවා philosophy වලට අනුව .. ඒ කරුණු තුන තේරුම් ගත්ත නං ඕකෙන් ගොඩ එන්න පුළුවන් .. මේක බලහන් ..

ඒ කියන්නේ සරලවම කියනව නං මේකයි , ප්‍රශ්න කියන දේ අපේ දෘෂ්ටිකෝණය අනුව වෙනස් වෙනවා. ඉතින් අපේ දෘෂ්ටිය වෙනස් කරගත්තම කාලයක් අපිට ප්‍රශ්න වෙලා තිබ්බ දේවල් Nothing කියල හිතෙන්න පටන් ගන්නවා ... ඕක මෙහෙම කිව්වට තේරෙන්නේ නැති වෙයි ... තමන්ටම තේරිලා ඇඟේන්ම එන්න ඕනේ

 

[Vandetta]

these are some facts to origin the problems.no self satisfactions, self esteem,even i haven't a job.only training for Rs.625 per day.this is not a better place to live.

now 26 years old...No job to cover my expenses,No vehicle even a bike,No girl friend, No House for me, No happiness to my life, No handsome look, No social recognition, No rich person to get help when i'm in a trouble, No strong friends, family problems such as parents are suffering some diseases. No financially strong, some legal cases, no educated neighbors, etc......................................

only way to solve whether fuck off to this life to say good bye or leave this fucking country any how legally or illegally...

the person who lives fairly without illegal method and responsible way he never can be rich or happy him self.

this is the only think which is gain during this 26 years of my life.

you get 625 rs per day that will add upto like 14000 per month.
are u aware of the fact that some of the private sector permanent employees earn less than that.to make it worse they have families and kids to take care of.so shut the fuck up and let it run its course
you will earn more when you grow

 

[SL Hypocrite]

.. do not think by just leaving the country all your problems will be solved. When you came from village to the city. At that time you may have thought everything will be fine. Find a job irrespective of status and start from there and prove yourself

 

[ex3498]

these are some facts to origin the problems.no self satisfactions, self esteem,even i haven't a job.only training for Rs.625 per day.this is not a better place to live.

now 26 years old...No job to cover my expenses,No vehicle even a bike,No girl friend, No House for me, No happiness to my life, No handsome look, No social recognition, No rich person to get help when i'm in a trouble, No strong friends, family problems such as parents are suffering some diseases. No financially strong, some legal cases, no educated neighbors, etc......................................

only way to solve whether fuck off to this life to say good bye or leave this fucking country any how legally or illegally...

the person who lives fairly without illegal method and responsible way he never can be rich or happy him self.

this is the only think which is gain during this 26 years of my life.

Why do I feel your tone is very much closer to Scurvy? but again scurvy's grammar is much better...

 

[ඉදිරියේ රාළ]

i have been going through like this since April 2009 due to a accident causing severe neurological damage which is much more worse condition than what you are in right now. Fortunately my consciousness was intact. i first chose the path of Modern Western Medicine and lost all my savings and realized that it is a dead end.

Initially my emotions about life was no difference than what you have right now , specially after losing all my savings to absolutely worthless medical system which is labeled as modern, scientific and update. But later realized that it is a great danger to have those emotions in mind. Reason for that is a very deep dense so i am not going to elaborate at this moment.

I am going to share you the secret which i managed to discover (many must have discovered this earlier, so i don't take ownership of it) which helped me to keep my mind strong and upbeat even at the worst case scenarios.

Key is to generate "Happiness" in mind. Note that this is totally different to "Pleasure" that most humans are looking for . You can masturbate , you can have sex, you can consume alcohol, you can travel, you can dance or scream, you can get a massage , or do what you like. They generate "Pleasure" in mind but not "Happiness".

Recognizing the Happiness from Pleasure is something not easy in the beginning. Also its not Hard, But tricky. You can get Pleasure at your wish But not Happiness. Happiness is Automatic. Medically Pleasure is felt when Dopamine ( a neuron-transmitter protein) level goes up in your nerves. Happiness is felt when amounts of Serotonin ( another neuron-transmitter protein) in your nerves "exceeds a certain level".

Happiness differs from Mind to Mind. some feel happy when inventing new things, when they do donations, when things are in order,when they get well dressed or when things happen in the way you wish.

There is another step which must be taken in to consideration. Otherwise you are in great trouble. Once you discover what happiness is and a way to generate it, it should not harm the happiness of any other mind (such as killing, stealing , raping , fooling ).

you can easily discover how Happiness is generated within your mind by scanning down your previous memories and short listing the "happy moments" and keep recalling those happy moments even at the worse case scenarios. Or you can discover your own technique which is harmless to others. and start practicing it at every possible moment.

This will generate the confidence to face any obstacle in life with Happiness.

Good Luck !

 

[Thunder_Flash]

ඕකේ , සිංහලෙන්ම කියන්නන් කෝ .. උබට තියෙන්නේ අන්තුක්කංසනය පිලිබඳ ගැටලුවක් තේරුනේ නෑ නේද ? අන්තුක්කංසනය කියන්නේ තමා පිළිබඳව තමන්ට තියෙන හැඟීම, කඩ්ඩෙන් කියනව නං ඕක හදුන්වන්නේ self esteem කියල ඕක ඇත්තටම සාමාන්‍ය දෙයක් .. මිනිස්සු හැමෝටම තියෙනවා .. එත් මිනිස්සු හැමෝගෙම self esteem එක එකිනෙකාට වෙනස් වෙන්න කරුණු කීපයක් බලපානවා philosophy වලට අනුව .. ඒ කරුණු තුන තේරුම් ගත්ත නං ඕකෙන් ගොඩ එන්න පුළුවන් .. මේක බලහන් ..

ඒ කියන්නේ සරලවම කියනව නං මේකයි , ප්‍රශ්න කියන දේ අපේ දෘෂ්ටිකෝණය අනුව වෙනස් වෙනවා. ඉතින් අපේ දෘෂ්ටිය වෙනස් කරගත්තම කාලයක් අපිට ප්‍රශ්න වෙලා තිබ්බ දේවල් Nothing කියල හිතෙන්න පටන් ගන්නවා ... ඕක මෙහෙම කිව්වට තේරෙන්නේ නැති වෙයි ... තමන්ටම තේරිලා ඇඟේන්ම එන්න ඕනේ

Thanks a lot machan

 

[Thunder_Flash]

i have been going through like this since April 2009 due to a accident causing severe neurological damage which is much more worse condition than what you are in right now. Fortunately my consciousness was intact. i first chose the path of Modern Western Medicine and lost all my savings and realized that it is a dead end.

Initially my emotions about life was no difference than what you have right now , specially after losing all my savings to absolutely worthless medical system which is labeled as modern, scientific and update. But later realized that it is a great danger to have those emotions in mind. Reason for that is a very deep dense so i am not going to elaborate at this moment.

I am going to share you the secret which i managed to discover (many must have discovered this earlier, so i don't take ownership of it) which helped me to keep my mind strong and upbeat even at the worst case scenarios.

Key is to generate "Happiness" in mind. Note that this is totally different to "Pleasure" that most humans are looking for . You can masturbate , you can have sex, you can consume alcohol, you can travel, you can dance or scream, you can get a massage , or do what you like. They generate "Pleasure" in mind but not "Happiness".

Recognizing the Happiness from Pleasure is something not easy in the beginning. Also its not Hard, But tricky. You can get Pleasure at your wish But not Happiness. Happiness is Automatic. Medically Pleasure is felt when Dopamine ( a neuron-transmitter protein) level goes up in your nerves. Happiness is felt when amounts of Serotonin ( another neuron-transmitter protein) in your nerves "exceeds a certain level".

Happiness differs from Mind to Mind. some feel happy when inventing new things, when they do donations, when things are in order,when they get well dressed or when things happen in the way you wish.

There is another step which must be taken in to consideration. Otherwise you are in great trouble. Once you discover what happiness is and a way to generate it, it should not harm the happiness of any other mind (such as killing, stealing , raping , fooling ).

you can easily discover how Happiness is generated within your mind by scanning down your previous memories and short listing the "happy moments" and keep recalling those happy moments even at the worse case scenarios. Or you can discover your own technique which is harmless to others. and start practicing it at every possible moment.

This will generate the confidence to face any obstacle in life with Happiness.

Good Luck !

thanks machan for your kind feedback