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malakadss

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    I strongly suggest you read some rape victims survivor stories to understand the real LIVING HELL women/men go through in such a state (during and after)

    I am not talking about a rape case. My concern is why she didnt go to police earlier. why she wait until it they send photos to hospital? and why she allowed them to do it repeatedly ? If they did it without her will, why they sent photos to hospital? imagine what could happen in the court. dont be emotional but think about the facts
     
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    පුකේ ඇරල විතරයිලු. ඒ නිසා අවුලක් නෑ.

    - මීට නඩුකාර තුමා.
     

    Nash_Node

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    I am not talking about a rape case. My concern is why she didnt go to police earlier. why she wait until it they send photos to hospital? and why she allowed them to do it repeatedly ? If they did it without her will, why they sent photos to hospital? imagine what could happen in the court. dont be emotional but think about the facts

    --- Scratching me ed and thinking of how to reply to this !!! ---


    I dunno how to transfer all my experience of working with rape victims into a proper context for you to understand without writing an atleast 10,000 word reply.

    so... hmmm.... the best possible way for me to answer this would be a short few lines a 17 year old female rape survivor wrote on the back of my note book once.... I am translating this on the basic idea of it cause it was written in Sinhalese.


    I knew him
    we all knew him
    he raped me
    i am ashamed
    i am embarrassed
    i feel dirty
    i feel like garbage
    i hate for trusting him
    i want to hide from my parents
    i want to hide from my friends and the world
    i am not worthy for a life
    i am not worthy of love
    i hate my self
    i lost my will to live
    I want to die


    This particular girl had been raped by his uncle for almost an YEAR and finally she tried to suicide but saved and put under protective custody .... she didnt talk to me for two days and on the third day only i suggested that we talk through writing and this is the FIRST thing she actually wrote down.

    Hope you sort of get the idea... if you didnt.... well.. I dunno how else to tell you.
     

    SimonRiley

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    I am not talking about a rape case. My concern is why she didnt go to police earlier. why she wait until it they send photos to hospital? and why she allowed them to do it repeatedly ? If they did it without her will, why they sent photos to hospital? imagine what could happen in the court. dont be emotional but think about the facts

    factual base, this girl was scared. Because societies like our doesn't treat these rape victims well. that is one of the reasons many women are keeping this out from the society

    --- Scratching me ed and thinking of how to reply to this !!! ---


    I dunno how to transfer all my experience of working with rape victims into a proper context for you to understand without writing an atleast 10,000 word reply.

    so... hmmm.... the best possible way for me to answer this would be a short few lines a 17 year old female rape survivor wrote on the back of my note book once.... I am translating this on the basic idea of it cause it was written in Sinhalese.


    I knew him
    we all knew him
    he raped me
    i am ashamed
    i am embarrassed
    i feel dirty
    i feel like garbage
    i hate for trusting him
    i want to hide from my parents
    i want to hide from my friends and the world
    i am not worthy for a life
    i am not worthy of love
    i hate my self
    i lost my will to live
    I want to die


    This particular girl had been raped by his uncle for almost an YEAR and finally she tried to suicide but saved and put under protective custody .... she didnt talk to me for two days and on the third day only i suggested that we talk through writing and this is the FIRST thing she actually wrote down.

    Hope you sort of get the idea... if you didnt.... well.. I dunno how else to tell you.
    :yes::yes::yes:
     

    Dr.Amdan

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    හෙදිය_සමූහ_දූෂණය_කරයි 02-12-2018 11:12 PM ado UNP balla.warenko badumkara thread ekata.wesige balla

    දේශපාලන වහලෙකුට රිදිලා.වැරැද්දට වැරැද්ද කියන්න බැරි පොන්නයෝ.:rofl:
     

    YelaWolf

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    කෝ තාම එක නිව්ස් සයිට් එකකවත් කිව්වේ නැහැ ඕක.
     

    dxx

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    News danakota piliganna puluwan source ekak dapan.meka aththa nam uba hithanawada me anduwa oka hangai kiyala.
     
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    මචන් පුකේ ඇරයා විතරයි. ඒ නිසා අවුලක් නෑ. මමත් ඇරියා බන් ඒකිට. පට්ට පුක. :rolleyes:
     

    Voltage

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    Mahindage dewal kiwwama toyyo rep kapanawa.
    Ranilge dewal kiwwama bayyo rep kapanawa..

    mokadda affaaaa :P


    හෙදිය_සමූහ_දූෂණය_කරයි 02-13-2018 09:31 AM appachchi ave ubalage ammata hukanna gihilla keri ponna huththo
     
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    malakadss

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    Lankadeepa. valid source. seems its a true story

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