Don't build big houses if you don't have many kids.. One day you'll have to do its cleaning maintenance alone.. When you're old you're not able to clean staircase cloths.. When your kids grow up your house goes out of time.. It's becoming an old house. When you build houses for children, children refuse them.. The best time in your life, the house you build without drinking a lawn, will one day become an old house surrounded by wall stones...
Just a few reasons...
The best time in your life is for a dreamful future. Don't squeeze cement, iron, lawns, lease..
Don't get caught up with investments that you get up in the morning remembering your payments.. Though it is hard to live for the world to see, the world doesn't want to see that you are well and comfortable.. Don't even see it like that.. Choose your comfort zone often..
Don't do anything even for children. Do as much as you can. Save your mental health and do it.. No matter how much you spend and how high they go to office one day they will share their life together, in their misery, another partner they never seen.. Think about it happily... Save yourself something..
Don't suffer your life trying to do all that trying to match someone else's lifestyle, house, vehicle, children's life. In the end you are the only one who suffers alone.
People suffer from stress and chronic illnesses because of too much pressure to do the unbearable things others do.. Even if you start your life at the age of twenty, there is a limit to what you can do until you turn fifty.. Just understand that.
Get used to controlling income expenses from childhood. Get used to your life according to your income. Get rid of the fake lives of depending on others.
Children will leave one day. A truth.. Is it true that they are also busy one day, raising children, building houses, buying vehicles and working.. It is also possible that parents miss out on their duties.. So if it comes live life comfortably for yourself.. Save a little something.. Just think with ease.. Live well in your own vapor without blaming others and stressing others.
Janali Madurasinghe.
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