Leaving wife,london IT job

mnw

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    we don't have courage to take such a decision.
    mata hithena widiyata mahana wennama one naa niwan dakinna
    mahana wenna hithanawanum mulin maha rahathun wadi maga osse kiyana poth tika kiyewwanum podi adhasak ganna puluwan ,mama poddak kiyewwa eke hodata kiyala thiyanawa api karanna one mokakda nokala uththe monada kiyala


    app eka thiyanawa google store eke puluwan kattiya balanna,budusaranai
     

    asylum

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    mata hithena widiyata mahana wennama one naa niwan dakinna
    mahana wenna hithanawanum mulin maha rahathun wadi maga osse kiyana poth tika kiyewwanum podi adhasak ganna puluwan ,mama poddak kiyewwa eke hodata kiyala thiyanawa api karanna one mokakda nokala uththe monada kiyala


    app eka thiyanawa google store eke puluwan kattiya balanna,budusaranai


    eke PDF ekak nadda hoya ganna eka hoya gana kiyawanna one.
     

    smother

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    ඕක අගය කරන්නවත් හෙලා දකින්නවත් ඕනේ නැ මමනම් හිතන්නේ. ඒ මිනිහගේ පාත් එකේ හැටියට මහන වෙන්න සිද්ද උනේ ගොඩක් දේවල් අත ඇරලා. සමහරක් එවුන් ඇති උගේ ජිවිතේට සාපේක්ෂව ඔයිට වඩා අමාරු දේවල් අත ඇරලා මහන වෙලා තියෙන.
    සිද්ධාර්ථ උනත් ඔයිට වඩා සැප විදලා ඒවා ඇත ඇරලා තමා බුදු උනේ.
     

    sthumi

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    depression resulted by her husbands decision.

    i was talking about the different between monk and nun.. btw females and males are reacting to it in a different way... females can recover quickly and can move on easily thus males tend to suffer more
     

    KasunKDP

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    I know one family
    Father mother and 3 kids boys
    They are in to buddhist very much and following eight path
    My friend monthly salary 800k and his whole family wiling to become monks in aranni somewhere

    He has given me few valuable books though

    :baffled:
     

    KasunKDP

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    i was talking about the different between monk and nun.. btw females and males are reacting to it in a different way... females can recover quickly and can move on easily thus males tend to suffer more

    losing husband is not an easy thing for a women, unlike losing a boyfriend.
     

    sthumi

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    losing husband is not an easy thing for a women, unlike losing a boyfriend.

    i don’t think so he just went missing suddenly on one day to become a monk in this situation.. they probably had plan and talk this for sure
     

    KasunKDP

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    i don’t think so he just went missing suddenly on one day to become a monk in this situation.. they probably had plan and talk this for sure

    maybe or maybe not.. Anyway he has the full rights to take such decision... that's why divorce procedure is there in almost all countries. People do change..
     

    kolavari

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    with that kind of life he had, u think he worried about food and accommodation.

    If you've a time watch, and try to understand!


    Not insulting him or anyone..as long as you are depending on the money from your job, you have no escape..

    The moment you stop working, you are fucked up unless u have saved tons of money..:yes: and with current economy no one can save such amount of money...

    So if ever you fuck up your life and decide you can not work anymore, what you gonna do? You have to work to get money...look what happened to damith asanka? He went crazy, couldnt do his job...and ended up being labeled as a crazy bugger..

    This is the safest option if you happen to give up things..:baffled: but im not saying this monk did that for that reason
     

    sthumi

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    Not insulting him or anyone..as long as you are depending on the money from your job, you have no escape..

    The moment you stop working, you are fucked up unless u have saved tons of money..:yes: and with current economy no one can save such amount of money...

    So if ever you fuck up your life and decide you can not work anymore, what you gonna do? You have to work to get money...look what happened to damith asanka? He went crazy, couldnt do his job...and ended up being labeled as a crazy bugger..

    This is the safest option if you happen to give up things..:baffled: but im not saying this monk did that for that reason
    we can’t question the monk life because its a damn hard path and taught pill to swallow but some lives quite a comfortably life without fulfilling the monk hood
     

    sthumi

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    Yes its tough to be a real monk these days..that's why we see a lot of fake ones...

    We cannot say anything about this monk as we don't know him..

    not sure about his lavish gihi life in UK but definitely he choose the wrong place to get ordained..as far as i am guessing