Living In - (without getting married) Is it good or bad ?

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I mean one should be fare in his dicission right? at the end of the day, I don't think it's possible/viable or ethical for any guy to ask for a girls virginity if he him self is not one !

So I believe your argument is baseless !

i dont think there will be an ethics problem here cos they've already gone pass it.also a guy is a guy no matter what, you think all those guys seraching for "pure" girls to get married are "pure" themselves?

Education !

That's what those 95% needs.

EDUCATION

nothing else.

i disagree..how can you argue education will solve it.
the statistics show "so called" developed nations (nations who have adopted education over moral values) have more divorc rates, single parents and parentless children.

check this statistics :
http://www.divorcemag.com/statistics/statsWorld.shtml
http://www.watchtower.org/e/20021008/article_01.htm