Love and Sexuality - උත්තරයක් නැති ප්‍රශ්නයක් ඔබට තිබේද !!!!

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    Thama math hoyanooo....
    itin kollo occharata ekak terum ganna tatag molayak nathi baddak banda ganne mokatada? :lol:
    machan. that is one common thing in this country. ape rate ammala thamage duwalawa gedara kargena hira karagena hadanne. un danne na machan samajaye inna minissunge hati. eka ehemai kiyala apita anith hama dema hoda kellek atha arala danna ba machan. apiwath ekiwa hadaganna ona.
     

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    machan. that is one common thing in this country. ape rate ammala thamage duwalawa gedara kargena hira karagena hadanne. un danne na machan samajaye inna minissunge hati. eka ehemai kiyala apita anith hama dema hoda kellek atha arala danna ba machan. apiwath ekiwa hadaganna ona.

    Ela ela..

    Mata umbata kiyanna deyak na mallii...
    Ohoma yan... :)
    :lol::lol::lol::lol:
     

    amilabanuka

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    Thama math hoyanooo....
    Ela ela..

    Mata umbata kiyanna deyak na mallii...
    Ohoma yan... :)
    :lol::lol::lol::lol:
    ny way it is upto you to reply or not. but my point is world is not as bad as you have expressed here. I admit that there may be whores who cannot be taken to right path eve by god. I'm not talking about them. I'm talking about general Sri Lankan girl. (not basic col girls who only represent a subculture)
     

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    ny way it is upto you to reply or not. but my point is world is not as bad as you have expressed here. I admit that there may be whores who cannot be taken to right path eve by god. I'm not talking about them. I'm talking about general Sri Lankan girl. (not basic col girls who only represent a subculture)

    OK :)

    One correction. I haven't express that the world is bad any where.....
     

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    machan. that is one common thing in this country. ape rate ammala thamage duwalawa gedara kargena hira karagena hadanne. un danne na machan samajaye inna minissunge hati. eka ehemai kiyala apita anith hama dema hoda kellek atha arala danna ba machan. apiwath ekiwa hadaganna ona.


    අනේ පලයං බං යන්න. ඒක අම්මලාගේ වැරැද්දක් නෙවෙයි. අපේ මේ මැට්ටෝ සුදු පාට දැක්කොත් වහ වැටිලා ගිහින් සෙට් කරගන්නවා. මොකද උන්ට ඕනේ උජාරුවෙන් පාරේ අරන් යන්න පුළුවන් සුදු පාට කෙලි පැටික්කියක් විතරයි. මොලේ තියෙන්නේ පිදුරුද මැටිද කියලා බලන්න උන්ට උවමනාවක් නෑ. විහින් කරගන්න ගොං කං වලට කොහෙවත් ඉන්න අම්මලා පලිද බං. :lol:
     

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    අනේ පලයං බං යන්න. ඒක අම්මලාගේ වැරැද්දක් නෙවෙයි. අපේ මේ මැට්ටෝ සුදු පාට දැක්කොත් වහ වැටිලා ගිහින් සෙට් කරගන්නවා. මොකද උන්ට ඕනේ උජාරුවෙන් පාරේ අරන් යන්න පුළුවන් සුදු පාට කෙලි පැටික්කියක් විතරයි. මොලේ තියෙන්නේ පිදුරුද මැටිද කියලා බලන්න උන්ට උවමනාවක් නෑ. විහින් කරගන්න ගොං කං වලට කොහෙවත් ඉන්න අම්මලා පලිද බං. :lol:

    Eka atta. Ammala Tattala balanne tamange lamaya puluwan tarag parissam kara ganna. Eke waraddak na..

    Mata pena widihata meke inna samahara ewun udeta hawasata kellata dum allala wadinawa da koheda?

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
     
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    amilabanuka

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    අනේ පලයං බං යන්න. ඒක අම්මලාගේ වැරැද්දක් නෙවෙයි. අපේ මේ මැට්ටෝ සුදු පාට දැක්කොත් වහ වැටිලා ගිහින් සෙට් කරගන්නවා. මොකද උන්ට ඕනේ උජාරුවෙන් පාරේ අරන් යන්න පුළුවන් සුදු පාට කෙලි පැටික්කියක් විතරයි. මොලේ තියෙන්නේ පිදුරුද මැටිද කියලා බලන්න උන්ට උවමනාවක් නෑ. විහින් කරගන්න ගොං කං වලට කොහෙවත් ඉන්න අම්මලා පලිද බං. :lol:
    yep. that is true in some cases. depaththama thiyenawa machan. ape un mona reddaak wath balanne nathuwa daganna ewath thiyenawa. ewagema mona widiyata haduwath hadaganna bari gonnuth innawa. but machan e inne itha kuda prathishayak witharai. eka ithama sulu agayak machan. mama un gana kiyanna yanne na. mokada ewa hadannath ba anika mama e gana wadiya danneth na.

    eth machan ithuru hugak awasthawaladi mama kiyapu eka balapanawa. machan metika kiyapan. kellekta apita wage nidahase yaluwo asraya karanna labenawada. thaniyama gihin wadak palak karaganna chance ekak denawada gewal walin. samajayata ganu lamayekwa yawanawa hari adui machan. eka ammalage waradda neme. e samajaya hadila thiyenawa widiya. so machan api eka tikak therum ganna ona.

    I'm talking with the focus of one particular incident here...
    Which is negative. :no:

    And a guy who's in a bug trouble (As I see)

    Sorry if u gt hurt...

    yes yes. you were talking about a particular situation. but you are watching that in a very negative manner. I'm not saying that she is right. but depending on what we know about that situation we cannot totally say she is utterly wrong.
    as I see if proper understanding is there that problem is not a big problem.
     

    amilabanuka

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    Eka atta. Ammala Tattala balanne tamange lamaya puluwan tarag parissam kara ganna. Eke waraddak na..

    Mata pena widihata meke inna samahara ewun udeta hawasata kellata dum allala wadinawa da koheda?

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
    udeta hawasata dum allala wadinna ona na. eth kello kiyanne wiswasa karanna bari jara jathiyak kiyana view point eke idan ganu diha balana ekai naraka. ubala methana talks denne e widiyata. thamange kella gana onama kenekta wagakeemak thiyenna ona. eka nathuwa waraddak wunama witharak kagahala hariyanne na. poththa rathuwata thibbama ekiwa dagena eeta passe 100% paththini amma wage idiwi kiyala balagena hitiyata hariyanne na. gatalu athi nowena widiyata ekiwa hadagannath ona.
     

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    yes yes. you were talking about a particular situation. but you are watching that in a very negative manner. I'm not saying that she is right. but depending on what we know about that situation we cannot totally say she is utterly wrong.
    as I see if proper understanding is there that problem is not a big problem.

    If proper understanding was there this won't happen at first place as I think.

    But this guy suddenly married this gal without the knowledge of anyone. How can a person behave like this without a responsibility?

    What about his parents? What is he going to do in the future? :no::no::no::no::no:
     

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    udeta hawasata dum allala wadinna ona na. eth kello kiyanne wiswasa karanna bari jara jathiyak kiyana view point eke idan ganu diha balana ekai naraka. ubala methana talks denne e widiyata. thamange kella gana onama kenekta wagakeemak thiyenna ona. eka nathuwa waraddak wunama witharak kagahala hariyanne na. poththa rathuwata thibbama ekiwa dagena eeta passe 100% paththini amma wage idiwi kiyala balagena hitiyata hariyanne na. gatalu athi nowena widiyata ekiwa hadagannath ona.

    Dagena hada ganna kello babbuda ban? Unuth minissu ne...
    Anika denna ma samanawa inna ekai honda. Ekek lokka wela anika hadanna yanawata wada. Girls should have the same rights as us. We are not here to control them as I think..

    Mama nag hitanne dagena hada gannawata wada, Hadiccha ekak da ganna eka hodai kiyalai :lol:
     

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    Mama nag hitanne dagena hada gannawata wada, Hadiccha ekak da ganna eka hodai kiyalai :lol:

    :lol::lol::lol:


    Anyway, හැබැයි මේ "හදාගන්නවා" කියලා කියන එකේ මෙහෙම දේකුත් තියෙනවා. අපිට අවුරුදු 5-6 විතර බාල කෙල්ලෙක් සෙට් කරගත්තා නම් අපේ අදහස් වලට නම්මවා ගන්න ලේසියි. ඒ කියන්නේ අපි හිතන විදියට හිතන්න පුරුදු කරගන්න. ("හදාගන්න" නෙවෙයි :) ) එතකොට අවුල් ඇති වෙනවා අඩුයි.
     

    amilabanuka

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    If proper understanding was there this won't happen at first place as I think.

    But this guy suddenly married this gal without the knowledge of anyone. How can a person behave like this without a responsibility?

    What about his parents? What is he going to do in the future? :no::no::no::no::no:
    we do not know his situation machan. when it comes to whole picture it may be the best solution feasible to him. true if proper understanding was there then this would not happen. but now it happened. and he has decided that it is not serious enough for him to leave her. then we have to talk on top of that. you and I may not do that. but for him now best thing he can do is get more closer to her. not physically nor romantically. those two are necessary but enough for this matter. he should get closer to her life. make her willingly share all her life with him. then he can foresee many future things and take necessary action.

    I think machan this is the problem in most cases.
    our guys give their best in romantically. they do every sort of things for the girl. then they give every kind of physical happiness to girl. even that girls leave them. the problem is most of them do not get close enough to their lives. we as boys do not need any kind of protection, safety kind of things. byt they need it. but with romance and sex a girl will not feel that.
     

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    we do not know his situation machan. when it comes to whole picture it may be the best solution feasible to him. true if proper understanding was there then this would not happen. but now it happened. and he has decided that it is not serious enough for him to leave her. then we have to talk on top of that. you and I may not do that. but for him now best thing he can do is get more closer to her. not physically nor romantically. those two are necessary but enough for this matter. he should get closer to her life. make her willingly share all her life with him. then he can foresee many future things and take necessary action.

    I think machan this is the problem in most cases.
    our guys give their best in romantically. they do every sort of things for the girl. then they give every kind of physical happiness to girl. even that girls leave them. the problem is most of them do not get close enough to their lives. we as boys do not need any kind of protection, safety kind of things. byt they need it. but with romance and sex a girl will not feel that.

    Please explain me a single scenario how this marriage is going to solve his problem?
    As he's also telling now he has many more problems.

    In coming days there will be much greater issues..
     
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    Dagena hada ganna kello babbuda ban? Unuth minissu ne...
    Anika denna ma samanawa inna ekai honda. Ekek lokka wela anika hadanna yanawata wada. Girls should have the same rights as us. We are not here to control them as I think..

    Mama nag hitanne dagena hada gannawata wada, Hadiccha ekak da ganna eka hodai kiyalai :lol:
    oh man. you are in one end machan. it is not controlling. it not like making her do all what we need. no that is not. we should protect her while she is living her lofe. it is not that we should protect her by forcing her to not to do things. but to let her live her life and in the same time protecting her.
    uba hadichcha kiyana eken adahas kale mama kiyana ekamada kiyanan mata therenne na. mama adahas kare samaja danuma gana. wena deyak gana neme. mm. e danuma thiyena kellekwama hoyaganna, puluwan nam hodai. eth anith gathi gunath hoda ewage kello inne bohoma tikai machan.
     

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    aniwa ban mekai 60% witara tiyenne lingika asawan thada wehchca ung
    eken 50% ee kiwwe mulu ganin 30%kma eeka wahanawa ituru aya pennanawa :D

    bt ehema nethi ayat innawa 40% but etaninuth 50% ee kiwwe mulu ganin 20% ape ewun arawata namma gannawa

    ohoma wela unguth api wage sira netuwa wena wena awasyataaa sandaha love karanawa ethakota
    80% witara kellangen kollanta bootm wadinawa :D

    eka aththa.... e kello ithin anthimata badata 1kwa aragena paththakata wela aada aada idiyne.... athakota thama rage denen nae:oo::baffled: