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උඹට දෙන්න තියෙන්නෙත් අර උඩින් දීලා තියෙන උත්තරේම තමයි. කෙල්ලන්ගේ හිත් දිනාගන්නවා කියන්නේ අනිත් ඔක්කොම දේවල් වලට වැඩිය වචනත්, වචන පිටකරන විදියත් අනුව තමයි depend වෙන්නේ. ඒ කියන්නේ talk කරන විදිය. හැබැයි ඉතින් ඒ ‍ඔක්කොටම කලින් මොනව හරි ක්‍රමේකට කථා කරන්න අල්ලගන්න එපැයි. ඉතින් අඩුවෙන් සමාජශීලී අයට ඒක ටිකක් ප්‍රශ්නයක් තමයි. හෙඳම දේ තමයි උඹ අනෙක් දේවල් ගැන වැඩිපුර concentrate කරන එක. ජීවිතේ අනික් දේවල් success වෙන කොට confidence එක ඉබේම ඇවිත් ඉබේම සමාජශීලී වෙයි මචං. ලව් කරන්න පටන් ගන්නේ 17 දීද 25 දීද කියන එක ගැටළුවක් නෙවෙයි. නියම ලව් එකක් හම්බ වෙනකම් කොච්චර කාලයක් බලං හිටියත් පාඩු නෑ. නිකං කරන්නන් වාලේ කරලා වැඩක් නෑ. ගොඩක් එවුන් මම අච්චර කෙල්ලොත් ලව් කලා, මෙච්චර කෙල්ලොත් එක්ක හිටියා කියලා ගහන්නේ බොරු කයිවාරු. ඇත්ත තමයි ඒකේ ඔය කියන තරම් fun එකක් නෑ. හොඳට විඳින්න පුළුවන් එක ආදරයක් අවුරුද්දක් කලත් ඒක ජීවිතේටම ඇති.

good luck.
Thanks Bro !!!!... මම හිතන්නෙ සහො හරි... ස්තූතියි උපදෙස් වලට..... good luck to you too Bro !:)
 

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උඹට දෙන්න තියෙන්නෙත් අර උඩින් දීලා තියෙන උත්තරේම තමයි. කෙල්ලන්ගේ හිත් දිනාගන්නවා කියන්නේ අනිත් ඔක්කොම දේවල් වලට වැඩිය වචනත්, වචන පිටකරන විදියත් අනුව තමයි depend වෙන්නේ. ඒ කියන්නේ talk කරන විදිය. හැබැයි ඉතින් ඒ ‍ඔක්කොටම කලින් මොනව හරි ක්‍රමේකට කථා කරන්න අල්ලගන්න එපැයි. ඉතින් අඩුවෙන් සමාජශීලී අයට ඒක ටිකක් ප්‍රශ්නයක් තමයි. හෙඳම දේ තමයි උඹ අනෙක් දේවල් ගැන වැඩිපුර concentrate කරන එක. ජීවිතේ අනික් දේවල් success වෙන කොට confidence එක ඉබේම ඇවිත් ඉබේම සමාජශීලී වෙයි මචං. ලව් කරන්න පටන් ගන්නේ 17 දීද 25 දීද කියන එක ගැටළුවක් නෙවෙයි. නියම ලව් එකක් හම්බ වෙනකම් කොච්චර කාලයක් බලං හිටියත් පාඩු නෑ. නිකං කරන්නන් වාලේ කරලා වැඩක් නෑ. ගොඩක් එවුන් මම අච්චර කෙල්ලොත් ලව් කලා, මෙච්චර කෙල්ලොත් එක්ක හිටියා කියලා ගහන්නේ බොරු කයිවාරු. ඇත්ත තමයි ඒකේ ඔය කියන තරම් fun එකක් නෑ. හොඳට විඳින්න පුළුවන් එක ආදරයක් අවුරුද්දක් කලත් ඒක ජීවිතේටම ඇති.

good luck.

අනිවා මචං....:):)
 
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hikupzz gud thread! i have a problem too......anyone here with an good option here we go,
i have friend...shes younger than me like 5years age gap...i'm 20 and u can guess her age....i know her since she moved here 4 or 3 months back....and somehow we became friends..good friends by the ways...you know....i dont have any sisters so, if i get something yummy i ask her to come over and we share it....my mom and her mom are really good friends so no problem...k so...and i really like to hang out with her...i had a Girl Friend but we broke up...after that i didnt had a affair (nearly 2 years plus i dont see anyone)
hmmph! So this little girl, i love her very much She wants me to be her boyfriend! :( i dont see her in that way...shes really pretty and im not lol...i really love her as my sister....:( im thinking , i can start a relationship with her, but how to make love u know have sex her?! my mind accepts she as my sister so i cant get into the other mood...:( she said that she really wanna have sex with me and i dont wtf! :mad: after that i didnt talk with her much im really in vain to look her in eyes now...mom asking me why whats wrong with u two...:( i dont what to do...its been 9days after that i didnt riply a single text she sent....:( ok guys dont make fun of this....i really dont wanna see her sad...and i dont wanna ruin her future :( i m really like crying now so id bettr stop...leave a riply pls
 
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amilabanuka

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    Thama math hoyanooo....
    උඹට දෙන්න තියෙන්නෙත් අර උඩින් දීලා තියෙන උත්තරේම තමයි. කෙල්ලන්ගේ හිත් දිනාගන්නවා කියන්නේ අනිත් ඔක්කොම දේවල් වලට වැඩිය වචනත්, වචන පිටකරන විදියත් අනුව තමයි depend වෙන්නේ. ඒ කියන්නේ talk කරන විදිය. හැබැයි ඉතින් ඒ ‍ඔක්කොටම කලින් මොනව හරි ක්‍රමේකට කථා කරන්න අල්ලගන්න එපැයි. ඉතින් අඩුවෙන් සමාජශීලී අයට ඒක ටිකක් ප්‍රශ්නයක් තමයි. හෙඳම දේ තමයි උඹ අනෙක් දේවල් ගැන වැඩිපුර concentrate කරන එක. ජීවිතේ අනික් දේවල් success වෙන කොට confidence එක ඉබේම ඇවිත් ඉබේම සමාජශීලී වෙයි මචං. ලව් කරන්න පටන් ගන්නේ 17 දීද 25 දීද කියන එක ගැටළුවක් නෙවෙයි. නියම ලව් එකක් හම්බ වෙනකම් කොච්චර කාලයක් බලං හිටියත් පාඩු නෑ. නිකං කරන්නන් වාලේ කරලා වැඩක් නෑ. ගොඩක් එවුන් මම අච්චර කෙල්ලොත් ලව් කලා, මෙච්චර කෙල්ලොත් එක්ක හිටියා කියලා ගහන්නේ බොරු කයිවාරු. ඇත්ත තමයි ඒකේ ඔය කියන තරම් fun එකක් නෑ. හොඳට විඳින්න පුළුවන් එක ආදරයක් අවුරුද්දක් කලත් ඒක ජීවිතේටම ඇති.

    good luck.

    අනිවා මචන්. උබ කියන එක හරි. තව එකක් මචන්. වෙන කෙනෙක්ගෙන් අහගෙන ගිහින් ඒ විදියට කෙල්ලත් එක්ක හැසිරෙන එක සාර්ථක වැඩක් නෙමේ කියලයි මට හිතෙන්නෙ. අපිටම දැනෙන්න ඔන හරි විදිය මොකක්ද කියන එක. හදිස්සි වෙලා බලෙන්ම වගේ කෙල්ලව ගොඩ දාගත්තාම කෙලවීමක් සෙට් වෙන්න තියෙන ඉඩ හොදටම වැඩී. හෙමින් ගමනක් ගිහින් දාගන්න කෙල්ලෙක්ගෙන් එක වෙන්න තියෙන ඉඩ අරට වඩා අඩුයි.
     

    Lokka Ayya

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    †•иοмаĐ•†;7543956 said:
    hikupzz gud thread! i have a problem too......anyone here with an good option here we go,
    i have friend...shes younger than me like 5years age gap...i'm 20 and u can guess her age....i know her since she moved here 4 or 3 months back....and somehow we became friends..good friends by the ways...you know....i dont have any sisters so, if i get something yummy i ask her to come over and we share it....my mom and her mom are really good friends so no problem...k so...and i really like to hang out with her...i had a Girl Friend but we broke up...after that i didnt had a affair (nearly 2 years plus i dont see anyone)
    hmmph! So this little girl, i love her very much She wants me to be her boyfriend! :( i dont see her in that way...shes really pretty and im not lol...i really love her as my sister....:( im thinking , i can start a relationship with her, but how to make love u know have sex her?! my mind accepts she as my sister so i cant get into the other mood...:( she said that she really wanna have sex with me and i dont wtf! :mad: after that i didnt talk with her much im really in vain to look her in eyes now...mom asking me why whats wrong with u two...:( i dont what to do...its been 9days after that i didnt riply a single text she sent....:( ok guys dont make fun of this....i really dont wanna see her sad...and i dont wanna ruin her future :( i m really like crying now so id bettr stop...leave a riply pls


    * i think tht girl is 15...does she hav any idea wht sex is and ...doesh she fucking knw it wil fucking hurt badly at tht age..and trust me it wil b a night mare if she has sex at tht age...

    * your 20...the girl might like you..but think about her futre..if she has is tht much sluty just let her be..dont b a part of tht crime..

    * if you hav sex with an underage or try to hav ..then u cn b sent to courts..if there parents file you a case u l b sentence to serious punishment..

    * love some1 at your age or above 18..tht girl has a lot to learn anything in life..she is not matured enough..

    *If you dont have any feling thts fucking good..be away with her..and say if she realy wana have sex...wait til 18....

    *I knw u havent asked a serious question here..but i just wana show you if sumthing like this realy hapens..this will be the end results..

    hav fun
     

    amilabanuka

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    †•иοмаĐ•†;7543956 said:
    hikupzz gud thread! i have a problem too......anyone here with an good option here we go,
    i have friend...shes younger than me like 5years age gap...i'm 20 and u can guess her age....i know her since she moved here 4 or 3 months back....and somehow we became friends..good friends by the ways...you know....i dont have any sisters so, if i get something yummy i ask her to come over and we share it....my mom and her mom are really good friends so no problem...k so...and i really like to hang out with her...i had a Girl Friend but we broke up...after that i didnt had a affair (nearly 2 years plus i dont see anyone)
    hmmph! So this little girl, i love her very much She wants me to be her boyfriend! :( i dont see her in that way...shes really pretty and im not lol...i really love her as my sister....:( im thinking , i can start a relationship with her, but how to make love u know have sex her?! my mind accepts she as my sister so i cant get into the other mood...:( she said that she really wanna have sex with me and i dont wtf! :mad: after that i didnt talk with her much im really in vain to look her in eyes now...mom asking me why whats wrong with u two...:( i dont what to do...its been 9days after that i didnt riply a single text she sent....:( ok guys dont make fun of this....i really dont wanna see her sad...and i dont wanna ruin her future :( i m really like crying now so id bettr stop...leave a riply pls

    machan oya dein arenna anith dewal walin hoda kellek nam machan uba affair ekak karata kamak na. uba hodata dannawa athine kella gana. anith eka machan ubata puluwan nam kiyala deepan love kiyanne sex neme kiyana eka oya kellata. eka sahena watina deyak machan. sahenna. podi kellekne. oya kaledi machan poddak oya pattata adenawa wadi. puluwan nam parissam karaganna balapan. my take is to go ahead. try your best to make her understand what is love.
     
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    අනිවා මචන්. උබ කියන එක හරි. තව එකක් මචන්. වෙන කෙනෙක්ගෙන් අහගෙන ගිහින් ඒ විදියට කෙල්ලත් එක්ක හැසිරෙන එක සාර්ථක වැඩක් නෙමේ කියලයි මට හිතෙන්නෙ. අපිටම දැනෙන්න ඔන හරි විදිය මොකක්ද කියන එක. හදිස්සි වෙලා බලෙන්ම වගේ කෙල්ලව ගොඩ දාගත්තාම කෙලවීමක් සෙට් වෙන්න තියෙන ඉඩ හොදටම වැඩී. හෙමින් ගමනක් ගිහින් දාගන්න කෙල්ලෙක්ගෙන් එක වෙන්න තියෙන ඉඩ අරට වඩා අඩුයි.

    Thanks Machan ... ! :)
     

    amilabanuka

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    * i think tht girl is 15...does she hav any idea wht sex is and ...doesh she fucking knw it wil fucking hurt badly at tht age..and trust me it wil b a night mare if she has sex at tht age...

    * your 20...the girl might like you..but think about her futre..if she has is tht much sluty just let her be..dont b a part of tht crime..

    * if you hav sex with an underage or try to hav ..then u cn b sent to courts..if there parents file you a case u l b sentence to serious punishment..

    * love some1 at your age or above 18..tht girl has a lot to learn anything in life..she is not matured enough..

    *If you dont have any feling thts fucking good..be away with her..and say if she realy wana have sex...wait til 18....

    *I knw u havent asked a serious question here..but i just wana show you if sumthing like this realy hapens..this will be the end results..

    hav fun
    yes. that is 100% correct. oya wage kellek sex walata yana eka hodath na. ekata giyoth aye hadagananth ba. eth machan mama hithanne eka sluty kama neme kiyala. oya kale mathaka machan. mara kuthuhalayak thiyenne. poddak parissam karaganna ona kale. mu oka kale naththa oka wena kohen hari karaganida danne na. so mama kiyanne muta sex walata yanna node kellawa araksha karaganna kiyala. eka yaluwek nisa karanna puluwan.
     

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    †•иοмаĐ•†;7543956 said:
    hikupzz gud thread! i have a problem too......anyone here with an good option here we go,
    i have friend...shes younger than me like 5years age gap...i'm 20 and u can guess her age....i know her since she moved here 4 or 3 months back....and somehow we became friends..good friends by the ways...you know....i dont have any sisters so, if i get something yummy i ask her to come over and we share it....my mom and her mom are really good friends so no problem...k so...and i really like to hang out with her...i had a Girl Friend but we broke up...after that i didnt had a affair (nearly 2 years plus i dont see anyone)
    hmmph! So this little girl, i love her very much She wants me to be her boyfriend! :( i dont see her in that way...shes really pretty and im not lol...i really love her as my sister....:( im thinking , i can start a relationship with her, but how to make love u know have sex her?! my mind accepts she as my sister so i cant get into the other mood...:( she said that she really wanna have sex with me and i dont wtf! :mad: after that i didnt talk with her much im really in vain to look her in eyes now...mom asking me why whats wrong with u two...:( i dont what to do...its been 9days after that i didnt riply a single text she sent....:( ok guys dont make fun of this....i really dont wanna see her sad...and i dont wanna ruin her future :( i m really like crying now so id bettr stop...leave a riply pls

    It is little difficult to give a exact answer for problems like this one. If you think you can't feel about her in a romantic way, i think, you are doing the right thing now. Don't give her any positive response and let her feelings about you to fade out. It looks little strange coz you're saying that she is asking you sex though there is no love affair between you two. Anyway, considering her age, it is not a good idea to start a sexual relationship with her under any circumstances. You're a grown up man and you control how it ends. It's up to you brother.
     

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    machan oya dein arenna anith dewal walin hoda kellek nam machan uba affair ekak karata kamak na. uba hodata dannawa athine kella gana. anith eka machan ubata puluwan nam kiyala deepan love kiyanne sex neme kiyana eka oya kellata. eka sahena watina deyak machan. sahenna. podi kellekne. oya kaledi machan poddak oya pattata adenawa wadi. puluwan nam parissam karaganna balapan. my take is to go ahead. try your best to make her understand what is love.

    you are right amila ayye
     

    Jack_Sparrow

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    †•иοмаĐ•†;7543956 said:
    hikupzz gud thread! i have a problem too......anyone here with an good option here we go,
    i have friend...shes younger than me like 5years age gap...i'm 20 and u can guess her age....i know her since she moved here 4 or 3 months back....and somehow we became friends..good friends by the ways...you know....i dont have any sisters so, if i get something yummy i ask her to come over and we share it....my mom and her mom are really good friends so no problem...k so...and i really like to hang out with her...i had a Girl Friend but we broke up...after that i didnt had a affair (nearly 2 years plus i dont see anyone)
    hmmph! So this little girl, i love her very much She wants me to be her boyfriend! :( i dont see her in that way...shes really pretty and im not lol...i really love her as my sister....:( im thinking , i can start a relationship with her, but how to make love u know have sex her?! my mind accepts she as my sister so i cant get into the other mood...:( she said that she really wanna have sex with me and i dont wtf! :mad: after that i didnt talk with her much im really in vain to look her in eyes now...mom asking me why whats wrong with u two...:( i dont what to do...its been 9days after that i didnt riply a single text she sent....:( ok guys dont make fun of this....i really dont wanna see her sad...and i dont wanna ruin her future :( i m really like crying now so id bettr stop...leave a riply pls


    machan start a relationship :) having anb affair doesnt mean that you have to have sex :) you can enjoy by visiting to places and talking as you did :D
    forget about the sex :)
    its up to you to decide
     

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    එ ආදරය මාසයක්ද මාස දෙකද්ද ... අවුරුක්දක්ද කියලා තිරිනය කන්න ඔනෙ තමන් ... මතක තියාගන්න කෙල්ලො කියන්නෙ සෙල්ලම් බඩු නෙමෙ ... කැලි බහගානක් කරලා තියෙන හින්දා සැහෙන්න Exp ඇති ... එත් මට පෙන්නෙ ආදරය කියන දෙ "අ" වත් දන්නෙ නැති කෙනෙක් වගෙ...

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    It is little difficult to give a exact answer for problems like this one. If you think you can't feel about her in a romantic way, i think, you are doing the right thing now. Don't give her any positive response and let her feelings about you to fade out. It looks little strange coz you're saying that she is asking you sex though there is no love affair between you two. Anyway, considering her age, it is not a good idea to start a sexual relationship with her under any circumstances. You're a grown up man and you control how it ends. It's up to you brother.

    i also accept this because don't get m'understand with love and sex, it's no same, love is a differnt feeling so this fellow give the right answer for you, and also you are the elder fellow and you know something about the world than your sis, so you need to control your self always cuz we can't easily contro others, best way is control about your self