Machan Need a favour

[GoodHeart123]

Hi Guys

I was reading elakiri posts since 2011 and today only I have got registered. I like this website and I have seen most of the members put threads about some of there problems and get an opinion from others. Personally I feel its worthwhile to get opinion from people who are more the less same to eachother.

So Guys I need an advise

I am a 25 years old from small age I had to face financial problems due to my father faced a huge loss in his business (Garments). Due to that I had to sacrifice my university entrance which was my child hood dream.

I started working when I was at 18 and did all sought of things where I can earn money without a prestige issue. seriously some months I have made 100k.

Then I started doing CIMA and joined a private firm As a Accounts Executive. I am still on the same firm and getting 50k for a month. Now this job is a mess for me. fully stressed out from 8 am to 8 pm. I still couldn't finish CIMA have to do 2 more stage. Now i am in that curse for 4 Years. (Now i started hating my work and CIMA I fell I am on wrong path)

During the last 7 years I renovated my house, Got Married. for both those things I have taken loans (Personal). Which was manageable with my salary during that time.

Last Year suddenly my father got sicked and hospitalized few times during the year and half and I had to spent a lot. Now I dont have any savings or Investments. and I have ended up with a loan of million. And I am sure this time also I am going to fail on Cima exams.

Now I dont know what to do I am facing lot of difficulties. Its like I am back to the same old stage where I started.

To get out of it I am thinking to do something but I cant do it as I have got an educated fellow tag from relatives. and I am tired of hearing those words "Are you mad you have a good job why do you want to do business" "its Risky".

If I want to do I can start my fathers business back again and I am confident I can succeed on that. for that for the time being I have to leave my job. I have to stop Cima for awhile.

Guys You will understand my situ Please advise me. I will value each of your advise. it might change my mindset.

Imagine going home Your wife says need to buy a Anchor pkt tomorrow and you have Rs.800 only in your pocket. Salary is after another 3 Days.

Brother I am Dying Inside

 

[dd nalin]

 

[dath kimbula]

මචං එන විදියට මූණ දීපං.
මොකද දැන් මොනව කරත් වහා ගොඩ ඒමක් නෑනේ. මූලික වරද තමා උඹ හම්බ කරු දේවල් ඉන්වෙස්ට්මන්ට් පැත්තට නෙවෙයි, වැලලෙන පැත්තට ගිහින් තියෙන්න (ගෙවල් හැදිලි, වෙඩින්)
මුලින් ම සිමා දා ගනින්, හිත එක තැනක තියා ගෙන. පොඩ්ඩක් අඩුවෙන් යැපිලා, මේ නරක කාලෙ උත්සාහයෙන් වැඩ කරල ගොඩ දා ගනිමු.

ධෛර්යය පිරිහෙලා ගන්න එපා. එහෙම වුනොත් සියලු දේම අවසන්.
සියළු දේම වන්නේ මිනිසුන් ට.
හොදින් මතක තියා ගන්න, ඔබ ඔය නගින්නේ කන්ද, අමාරුයි තමා....නමුත් ඕක ඉවර වෙන්නේ පල්ලමෙන්. එතකං අල්ල ගෙන ඉදිමු..........


සියලු දේම යහපත් අතට හැරේවා!!!

 

[GoodHeart123]

Thanks Machan. Macho ge haduwe hadanna una ban. Wela purawala hadala thibba geyak. Ekaparata bahagena giya. anith eka wedding eka ganna uney aurudu 4k love karapu kella ban. wedding a kale natthan mlahakata mage mamandi wena banek hoyala.

 

[Arkham Knight]

as long as your prestige isn't sacrificed do what you want to do in order to get out from the mess you are currently in. if you are so sure about what you are going to do don't let anyone to drag from your legs beside you don't have many options and you can do your CIMA exam later on like after you are settled down properly and other thing is you can also start selling items in ebay and earn some cash it's a very profitable part time job and you can easily earn up to 1000 US$ without working so hard within a couple of months. so good luck for your future.

 

[aggregate]

if you are confident enough then go ahead friend. at the moment i think you should apply for a new job with a higher salary. you can do it by using your working experience. if you resume the old business you do it for the sake of cover the loan and the medical expenses not in the pure business perspective of reinvestment and value addition.that might ultimately lead to a business failure.

 

[GoodHeart123]

Superb Brother. Thanks alot. Will check on that e bay thing as well. As I am planning to start the garment business I might get some deals from e bay as well. isn't it?

 

[GoodHeart123]

if you are confident enough then go ahead friend. at the moment i think you should apply for a new job with a higher salary. you can do it by using your working experience. if you resume the old business you do it for the sake of cover the loan and the medical expenses not in the pure business perspective of reinvestment and value addition.that might ultimately lead to a business failure.

Brother In this case I dont think I can get the similar salary in a new job as i am not qualified.

 

[Arkham Knight]

Superb Brother. Thanks alot. Will check on that e bay thing as well. As I am planning to start the garment business I might get some deals from e bay as well. isn't it?

yeah but it can be a bit tough at the beginning because it needs a little bit of trust from the clients unless they might not risk their money for someone they have no idea about. first sell some cheap stuff and earn a good reputation in ebay and maintain a clean profile make sure to mention your fb profile somewhere to gain more trust from clients so they know for sure you are a legit person.

 

[GoodHeart123]

yeah but it can be a bit tough at the beginning because it needs a little bit of trust from the clients unless they might not risk their money for someone they have no idea about. first sell some cheap stuff and earn a good reputation in ebay and maintain a clean profile make sure to mention your fb profile somewhere to gain more trust from clients so they know for sure you are a legit person.

Ok Bro will follow your idea on ebay. Thanks a lot. If I need any help on registering or selling I will message you.

 

[නැකැත් රාල]

brother first of all U have to understand CIMA is not the only thing that is going to make U a successful person.. so stop worrying about it for now.. first find out the problem U have to solve ASAP and take action on that

this will help U..

 

[Arkham Knight]

 

[giggee]

More or less same here with me i too did cima n now doing a job at one f d most attractive government working places tht most f d ppl wud b happy to be in for rest f their life bt i feel im going nowhere with this underperforming job. From my childhood i wanted to be a businessman where u can let ppl work for u n sleep bit longer n go to office bit late I too had to do al at 16 n deg. N so for due to family pressure n somehow manages to start my own business while wrkng . same problem here Thy dnt like me becoming a full time businessman coz in society there r things call respect n status they think tht business ppl r uneducated n corrupt ppl n they think that tag of accountant, finance analysis n cfo z more respectable n show more status. Even wht u wear to go to office matters fr them bt i hv made my mind to give up this job in 1 yrs time n go all out for business . Mach if u want to retire young n retire rich u needs to be a businessman .take that leap mach evry great thing z just out f ur comfort zone i hv lian closer to 3 times as my age. I sold car my father bought fr me whn i got through an xam n started d business n went to wrk by bus n frds cars n bought a car lately my own n bit f lease toget rid f business taxdnt rerire at age f 60 with gold medal n wonder wht wud b d interest im getting for my epf funds.

 

[dinchad]

මගේ අදහස නම් මචන් අනවශය රිස්ක් එකක් ගන්න එපා මේ වෙලාවෙ බිස්නස් වලට අතගහල .මොකද මට පේන හරියට උබ මානසිකවත් වැටිල ඉන්න වෙලාවක බිස්නස් එකක් ගැන තීරණය කරන්න අමාරුවෙයි ,,පුලුවන් විදිහකින් තියන දේවල් වලින් ශේප් වෙන්න බලපන් පොඩ්ඩක් උබ සෙට්ල් වෙනකන් .,
ප්‍රශ්නඉක්මනින් විසදේවා කියලා පාර්තනාකරනවා ..

 

[wall-e]

Bump.....

 

[doonga]

I only can wish u better luck brother as I'm in no position to advise u. Anyway if u have a CIMA related question post it on this thread http://www.elakiri.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1466267 or PM to someone who giving advices on that thread, those guys might help u to finish ur exam..

 

[asylum]

bump.

 

[after]

Bump machan

 

[mldarshana]

bump ... we're living in a worst time ever

 

[thilihare]

මචං එන විදියට මූණ දීපං.
මොකද දැන් මොනව කරත් වහා ගොඩ ඒමක් නෑනේ. මූලික වරද තමා උඹ හම්බ කරු දේවල් ඉන්වෙස්ට්මන්ට් පැත්තට නෙවෙයි, වැලලෙන පැත්තට ගිහින් තියෙන්න (ගෙවල් හැදිලි, වෙඩින්)
මුලින් ම සිමා දා ගනින්, හිත එක තැනක තියා ගෙන. පොඩ්ඩක් අඩුවෙන් යැපිලා, මේ නරක කාලෙ උත්සාහයෙන් වැඩ කරල ගොඩ දා ගනිමු.

ධෛර්යය පිරිහෙලා ගන්න එපා. එහෙම වුනොත් සියලු දේම අවසන්.
සියළු දේම වන්නේ මිනිසුන් ට.
හොදින් මතක තියා ගන්න, ඔබ ඔය නගින්නේ කන්ද, අමාරුයි තමා....නමුත් ඕක ඉවර වෙන්නේ පල්ලමෙන්. එතකං අල්ල ගෙන ඉදිමු..........


සියලු දේම යහපත් අතට හැරේවා!!!

Sirawatama ettha kathawa machan