Mawa therum ganna......

IKL

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    Ade ohma ahanawa kiynne kella mokak hari awlakn ina hnda ne. Shape eke Uba karana wade pathakin thyla kellage storyta ahum kam diyan.

    She needed someone to listen to her deeply.

    simply it means 2 things "i need you to hear me out" and i need you to LISTEN to me CLEARLY and with an open heart.
     

    War Fighter

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    Scenario 1
    Bro, she has a problem and she needs someone to listen to her and share her grief. If you consider her as a friend, listen to her and give her some advice.

    If you genuinely have feelings for her, listen to her carefully, paraphrase her matter in your own words (උදා: ඔයාට දැන් කාවවත් විශ්වාස නැති හින්ද ලොකු තනිකමක්, ලෝකේ ගැන කලකිරීමක් නේද තියෙන්නේ?) and give her your emotional support. Don't remind her problem again. Ask how she feels and let her feel you are concern about her well-being. Within a few days bird will be in your shoulder.

    But never ever take advantage of her. ඒකිට ඒ ප්‍රශ්නේට සපෝර්ට් කරනවා කියල අයුතු ප්‍රයෝජන ගන්න යන්න එපා. ඒක මහ කැරි වැඩක්.


    Scenario 2

    She is searching for a guy that understands her. If you have feelings for her, always paraphrase her ideas in your own words to her. And always remind her likes and dislikes. Give her some suggestions that she likes (ex- films, songs, meals, etc). Remember not to talk on subjects she dislikes. That way she will be amazed how accurately you understands her. By building that confidence in her mindset, gradually show that you are concerned and having feelings for her.
     
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    Emios

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    E kiyanne uba hariyanne ne.ekige sihina kumaraya uba newe.wena ekak hoyagannakan side eken idapan kiyala tamai oya kiyanne:P hambunata passe ubawa ballek wage eliyata dannan kiyala
     
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    topkollek

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    නංගී මට අවස්ථාවක් දෙන්නකො ඔයාව තේරුම් ගන්න කියල කියපන්.
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    Mohowk

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    නංගී මට අවස්ථාවක් දෙන්නකො ඔයාව තේරුම් ගන්න කියල කියපන්.
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    Ooma pollayo wage najen adna unta kmthi nabn kello. Boradiye malu baanne nathiwa eyage duka ahuwanm passe kellama yaluwenna ahnwa :yes:
    Athdakimen kiynne
     

    psenarath

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    meke maara experts la ne yako inne balan giyahama
    all the best bro
    listen to her story

    ow yako , , me widiyata baladdi lankawa goda dala denna puluwan specialist la tikak meke innawa , , mekenma ekekwa janadhipathi kalanam hari , , superb service for free :D :D :D