senewimala1988

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    Machan, umbalata dan bandina wayasa harida? :lol: mama ithin danne nathi nisai ahanne
    Umbata user name eka dakkoth decide karanna puluwan ne. Eth true love ekak wen wena kota umbata oya wage hina wenna bari wei. Mama affair eka patan gaththe 2004 wala. Dan 2009 machan.2005 wala break vuna. Aye patan gaththe 2009 wala. Ethakan mata wena kisima affair ekak thibuneth ne. Ehema kemathith ne. So this is the FIRST and LAST!!!
     

    prabaths

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    Umbata user name eka dakkoth decide karanna puluwan ne. Eth true love ekak wen wena kota umbata oya wage hina wenna bari wei. Mama affair eka patan gaththe 2004 wala. Dan 2009 machan.2005 wala break vuna. Aye patan gaththe 2009 wala. Ethakan mata wena kisima affair ekak thibuneth ne. Ehema kemathith ne. So this is the FIRST and LAST!!!

    OK 21 years. Podima na :lol::lol::lol: just joking.

    My advice:

    1) kelin hitaganna puluwan thathweta enna. Rassawak, inna thanak hoyagena stable wenna. Studies karanawanam okkoma hariyata karaganna.
    2) dennata denna anduraganna. Awurudu 5ka affair ekak nam anduraganna kale athi.
    3) Dennata marry karala ekata inna puluwanda kiyala balanna. Machan love karanakotai, marriage life ekai kiyanne dekak. love karana kaale thiyena resposibility ekata wada siya guanayaka responsibilities enawa marry kalata passe.
    4) partner wenuwen sacrifice (time, habbits, money, etc, etc) karanna puluwan wenna one. yaaluwoth ekka set wena ewa ehema samaharawita adu karanna wei.

    oya wage dewal okkoma harinam ithin bandinna puluwan. e kiyanne degollongema parents lata kiyanna kale hari. Umba kiyapu widiyata wirudda wenna loku hethuwak nane? Thaththa strict kiyanne wirudda wenawa kiyana eka nemeine? mage steps tika harinam ithin parentsla wirudda wunath awulak na. ;););)
     

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    සුදු මහත්තයා;5260517 said:
    :eek::eek: මේක මම දෑකපු ලියුමක තිබුන සීන් එකක් ( මගේ අත්දෑකීමක් නෙමෙයි ) කෙල්ලෙක් කොල්ලෙක්ට ලියපු ලියුමක්. ඒකෙ තිබුනෙ මෙහෙමයි.. .....මට හෑමදාම ඔයා වෑඩට යන්න කලින් ඔයාට සාදු කියන්න විතරක් අවසර දෙන්න. මම ගොඩක් වෙලාවට මේ වගෙ සීන් දෑකල තියෙනවා. එයාල ( කාන්තා පාර්ශවය ) එහෙම කරන්නෙ ඈයි ?

    මෝඩකමට[FONT=&quot].

    [/FONT]අනික මෙහෙ සංස්කෘතියෙනුත් බලකරනවනෙ ගෑනුළමයින්ට දෙවන පෙළ පුරවැසියො වගේ හැසිරෙන්න[FONT=&quot]-[/FONT]පිරිමින්ට ඉස්සෙල්ල සහ වැඩිපුර කන්න දෙන්න[FONT=&quot], [/FONT]පිරිමි කියන දෙවල් අහන්න[FONT=&quot].... [/FONT]ගෙවල්වලත් අම්මලගෙන් මොනවට හරි අවසර ගන්න ගියොත් බරපතල දෙයක්නම් තාත්තගෙන් අහන්න කියනව[FONT=&quot]. [/FONT]නිසා ඔය තත්වෙ බරපතල පවුල්වල ගෑනුළමයින්ට ආත්මවිශ්වාසයක්[FONT=&quot], [/FONT]ආත්මගෞරවයක් නැතුව ඇති[FONT=&quot].

    [/FONT]එහෙම නැත්තම් කොල්ලගෙන් එක දාගන්න ඔහොම කියනව වෙන්නත් පුලුවනි[FONT=&quot].

    [/FONT]මළවිකාර
     
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    senewimala1988

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    OK 21 years. Podima na :lol::lol::lol: just joking.

    My advice:

    1) kelin hitaganna puluwan thathweta enna. Rassawak, inna thanak hoyagena stable wenna. Studies karanawanam okkoma hariyata karaganna.
    2) dennata denna anduraganna. Awurudu 5ka affair ekak nam anduraganna kale athi.
    3) Dennata marry karala ekata inna puluwanda kiyala balanna. Machan love karanakotai, marriage life ekai kiyanne dekak. love karana kaale thiyena resposibility ekata wada siya guanayaka responsibilities enawa marry kalata passe.
    4) partner wenuwen sacrifice (time, habbits, money, etc, etc) karanna puluwan wenna one. yaaluwoth ekka set wena ewa ehema samaharawita adu karanna wei.

    oya wage dewal okkoma harinam ithin bandinna puluwan. e kiyanne degollongema parents lata kiyanna kale hari. Umba kiyapu widiyata wirudda wenna loku hethuwak nane? Thaththa strict kiyanne wirudda wenawa kiyana eka nemeine? mage steps tika harinam ithin parentsla wirudda wunath awulak na. ;););)
    Machan mama echchara social ne..Ekane elakiri thiyenne.. He he..E hinda mama wadiya yaluwoth ekka kaalaya gatha karanne ne...E avula harine..
    Parents la wirudda vunath avulak ne kiayan eka thama avula. I dont know how to explain..Mata meka gedaraya kiya ganne kohomada kiyalavath hitha ganna be..Aduma tharame gedara aya danne ne mama nikamatawath kellek aashraya karanava kiyalawath..Ohoma deval maath ekka katha karannevath ne..Ithin eka paratama kohomada mama ohoma ekak kiyanne???
    Umbata nokivvata kella me sare thama Exam liyanne..Mama inne Moratuwa Uni eke.. Kella exam pass wela mokak hari uni ekakta giyoth risk eka tikak hari adu wenawa.. Eth kella pass wenawa kiyamuko. Kellage dad and mom mata kivva kellava campus yavanne ne kiyala..Ithin balapan mata wena de. Eya campus yanavaa nam thava advantage ekak thama I will get more time to plan.(kellage mom and dad mama hithanne thama danne ne.mama nathath unta avulak ne.Kella hena lassanai.Oni kenekta denna puluwan e parents la.Me punchi kellata kalin proposal ekakuth avilla..:frown:Ekata vath parents la answer ekak deela ne..So mama inne gini godaka..)

    Anika umba hithanava wage nemei banz ape thaththa..harima bite case ekak thama. Maavath hemathissema bite karanava..He he..Eth ohoma deyak dena gaththoth mona weida kiyala hitha ganna be...:(:(

    Responsibilities gena kiyanava nam oni ekek marry kalaama ehema thiyenava ne..Mata eke avulak ne..I know kochchara responsibilities enavada kiyala...
     
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    මෝඩකමට[FONT=&quot].

    [/FONT]අනික මෙහෙ සංස්කෘතියෙනුත් බලකරනවනෙ ගෑනුළමයින්ට දෙවන පෙළ පුරවැසියො වගේ හැසිරෙන්න[FONT=&quot]-[/FONT]පිරිමින්ට ඉස්සෙල්ල සහ වැඩිපුර කන්න දෙන්න[FONT=&quot], [/FONT]පිරිමි කියන දෙවල් අහන්න[FONT=&quot].... [/FONT]ගෙවල්වලත් අම්මලගෙන් මොනවට හරි අවසර ගන්න ගියොත් බරපතල දෙයක්නම් තාත්තගෙන් අහන්න කියනව[FONT=&quot]. [/FONT]නිසා ඔය තත්වෙ බරපතල පවුල්වල ගෑනුළමයින්ට ආත්මවිශ්වාසයක්[FONT=&quot], [/FONT]ආත්මගෞරවයක් නැතුව ඇති[FONT=&quot].

    [/FONT]එහෙම නැත්තම් කොල්ලගෙන් එක දාගන්න ඔහොම කියනව වෙන්නත් පුලුවනි[FONT=&quot].

    [/FONT]මළවිකාර


    1. kawuru hari kenek thawa kenekuta thiyena gawrawayata hari aadarayata hari wandinawa kiyanne, wandum labana pudgalaya anikwa paagagena innawa kiyana ekada? api athare thiyena bandima western countries walata wada wadi ape me sanskruthiye thiyena me wage wadagath dewal nisa nemeida? ewa wikara wenne kohomada?

    2. Machan umbe font eka podi wadi. kiyawanna amarui.
     

    prabaths

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    Machan mama echchara social ne..Ekane elakiri thiyenne.. He he..E hinda mama wadiya yaluwoth ekka kaalaya gatha karanne ne...E avula harine..
    Parents la wirudda vunath avulak ne kiayan eka thama avula. I dont know how to explain..Mata meka gedaraya kiya ganne kohomada kiyalavath hitha ganna be..Aduma tharame gedara aya danne ne mama nikamatawath kellek aashraya karanava kiyalawath..Ohoma deval maath ekka katha karannevath ne..Ithin eka paratama kohomada mama ohoma ekak kiyanne???
    Umbata nokivvata kella me sare thama Exam liyanne..Mama inne Moratuwa Uni eke.. Kella exam pass wela mokak hari uni ekakta giyoth risk eka tikak hari adu wenawa.. Eth kella pass wenawa kiyamuko. Kellage dad and mom mata kivva kellava campus yavanne ne kiyala..Ithin balapan mata wena de. Eya campus yanavaa nam thava advantage ekak thama I will get more time to plan.(kellage mom and dad mama hithanne thama danne ne.mama nathath unta avulak ne.Kella hena lassanai.Oni kenekta denna puluwan e parents la.Me punchi kellata kalin proposal ekakuth avilla..:frown:Ekata vath parents la answer ekak deela ne..So mama inne gini godaka..)

    Anika umba hithanava wage nemei banz ape thaththa..harima bite case ekak thama. Maavath hemathissema bite karanava..He he..Eth ohoma deyak dena gaththoth mona weida kiyala hitha ganna be...:(:(

    Responsibilities gena kiyanava nam oni ekek marry kalaama ehema thiyenava ne..Mata eke avulak ne..I know kochchara responsibilities enavada kiyala...


    Aththa. apita ithin hari situation eka penne na. Okkotama issella degree eka complete karala indapan. ita passe rassawak hoya gaththata passe wade 75% withara goda. habai education eka upset karagaththoth okkoma iwarai. umba hondata exam karala 1st class gaththoth thaththawa shape karaganna wadeth 90% withara goda. Uni eke last year ekedi withara shape eke gedarata dana ganna arinna. wade hariyai. umba ithin Mora uni eken out wenawanam kellage paththenuth kamathi weine....

    habai kella igengannawanam ewa iwara wenakan inna wei.


    Ko mekata wena kawuruth support karanne nane. Thread eka patan gaththu Sudu mahaththayath sadda nane. mama hithuwa sudi mahaththaya mewa gana hondata dannawa athi kiyala :):)
     

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    1. kawuru hari kenek thawa kenekuta thiyena gawrawayata hari aadarayata hari wandinawa kiyanne, wandum labana pudgalaya anikwa paagagena innawa kiyana ekada? api athare thiyena bandima western countries walata wada wadi ape me sanskruthiye thiyena me wage wadagath dewal nisa nemeida? ewa wikara wenne kohomada?

    2. Machan umbe font eka podi wadi. kiyawanna amarui.

    2. sinhalen type karanna giyama poddak case. samahara welawata translator window eka nikamma close wenawa. :( akuru size mama haduwa, hari gihin na.

    1. demawupiyo, wadihitoyo, pujya pakshaya sambandayen wandeeme waraddak na. eth kellek-kollek athare, naththam marriage partnersla athare thiyenna one samaana sambandhayak. ekkenek anik ekkenata wada lokkek newei; denna sahakaruwo. ethendi wandagena inna awashya na. denna athare thiyena anyonya gawrawaya hithe saha kathaa karana, kriya karana dewalai thiyenna one. wadapu gaman, ekkenek anek ekkenata wada adu thathweka kenek wenawa. wiwahekadi ehema wena eka hari na.
    kellata gawraweta wandina kollo kawuruth na neda? e kiyala kellata garu nokaranawa neweine.



     

    senewimala1988

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    Aththa. apita ithin hari situation eka penne na. Okkotama issella degree eka complete karala indapan. ita passe rassawak hoya gaththata passe wade 75% withara goda. habai education eka upset karagaththoth okkoma iwarai. umba hondata exam karala 1st class gaththoth thaththawa shape karaganna wadeth 90% withara goda. Uni eke last year ekedi withara shape eke gedarata dana ganna arinna. wade hariyai. umba ithin Mora uni eken out wenawanam kellage paththenuth kamathi weine....

    habai kella igengannawanam ewa iwara wenakan inna wei.


    Ko mekata wena kawuruth support karanne nane. Thread eka patan gaththu Sudu mahaththayath sadda nane. mama hithuwa sudi mahaththaya mewa gana hondata dannawa athi kiyala :):)
    Mama degree eka ivara wenne 2012 di machan. Mama campus gihin ivara wenakan kella mona karaida eya campus yanne nathnam.. Eyage gadarin kemathi vunoth hondai. Nathnam mokaata hari deela dai.. Kello 18yrs idan marry karanne.:lol:Siraawata kivve. Umbata maava therenavaada danne ne..Mage hithe thiyenne kellata wadiya bayak....Eya campus yanne nathi ekata mona karanna weida mama danne ne. Kohoma hari eyage gedara aya kemathi kara ganna oni honda reult ekak avoth campus yavanna..

    Umba danne na ne.mama davasak eyata class ekak karanna ape amma gen permission ganna giya mama adurana nangi kenekta kiyala. Amma mukuth kivve ne..Ithin passe davasaka amma ge decsion eka dena ganna mama ahuwa yannada kiyala.Amma benna machan aye kiyala wedak ne...Passe hoyala baluwaama amma gen nemei avula. Dad gen..Dad thama hondatama benala thiyenne.. Mama edain passe kello gena monama topic ekak genavath katha karanne ne gedaradi...Eth mama gedarata bicycle padinna yanava kiyala gihin eyata classses keepayak kale..Eken hondata giya..He he...
     

    prabaths

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    2. sinhalen type karanna giyama poddak case. samahara welawata translator window eka nikamma close wenawa. :( akuru size mama haduwa, hari gihin na.

    1. demawupiyo, wadihitoyo, pujya pakshaya sambandayen wandeeme waraddak na. eth kellek-kollek athare, naththam marriage partnersla athare thiyenna one samaana sambandhayak. ekkenek anik ekkenata wada lokkek newei; denna sahakaruwo. ethendi wandagena inna awashya na. denna athare thiyena anyonya gawrawaya hithe saha kathaa karana, kriya karana dewalai thiyenna one. wadapu gaman, ekkenek anek ekkenata wada adu thathweka kenek wenawa. wiwahekadi ehema wena eka hari na.
    kellata gawraweta wandina kollo kawuruth na neda? e kiyala kellata garu nokaranawa neweine.




    E kiyanne umba "pithru mulika" pawul jiwithaya piliganne nadda?

    onama thanaka leader kenek inna one. ehema nathi wunoth e community ekata issarahata yanna ba. society eke podima eka thamai family eka. ithin ekatath leader kenek inna one. api piligath sammathaya thamai piya mulikaya kiyana eka. ithin eyata gawrawa karana eke kisi waraddak na. mama danna samahara families wala mulka wela wada karanne wife. ithin e wage family ekaka husband wifeta wanda kiyala eke kisima waraddak mama dakinne na. habai eka samaja sammathayata wiruddai.

    habai umba kiyana widiyata wife and husband dennama leader widiyata wada kaloth e pawula saarthaka wenne na. pawule hama thissema randu thiyei. mama kiyanne husband wife wa paagagena, yatath karagena innawa kiyana eka nemei.

    Western countries wala family lives walata hena gahala thiyenne eka thamai. ammai thaththai denna thama thamanta one widiyata thirana aran wada karanawa. mulu pawulama anathai.
     

    prabaths

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    Mama degree eka ivara wenne 2012 di machan. Mama campus gihin ivara wenakan kella mona karaida eya campus yanne nathnam.. Eyage gadarin kemathi vunoth hondai. Nathnam mokaata hari deela dai.. Kello 18yrs idan marry karanne.:lol:Siraawata kivve. Umbata maava therenavaada danne ne..Mage hithe thiyenne kellata wadiya bayak....Eya campus yanne nathi ekata mona karanna weida mama danne ne. Kohoma hari eyage gedara aya kemathi kara ganna oni honda reult ekak avoth campus yavanna..

    Umba danne na ne.mama davasak eyata class ekak karanna ape amma gen permission ganna giya mama adurana nangi kenekta kiyala. Amma mukuth kivve ne..Ithin passe davasaka amma ge decsion eka dena ganna mama ahuwa yannada kiyala.Amma benna machan aye kiyala wedak ne...Passe hoyala baluwaama amma gen nemei avula. Dad gen..Dad thama hondatama benala thiyenne.. Mama edain passe kello gena monama topic ekak genavath katha karanne ne gedaradi...Eth mama gedarata bicycle padinna yanava kiyala gihin eyata classses keepayak kale..Eken hondata giya..He he...

    machan, ammala owata wirudda wenna hethuwak hoya gannawane. dan me case ekata thiyena hethuwa mata pena widiyata umbe studies. ithin ewa hariyata karagaththoth wirudda wenna hethuwak na. Eka nisa hondata degree eka karaganin. godak ewata eken uththara labenawa. Habai kellawa wena kenekta nodi beraganna ekatanam mata help karanna amarui. :sorry::sorry: eka ithin kella athe thiyena wadak. kellage ammala umbata kamathinam wade goda.
     
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    E kiyanne umba "pithru mulika" pawul jiwithaya piliganne nadda?

    onama thanaka leader kenek inna one. ehema nathi wunoth e community ekata issarahata yanna ba. society eke podima eka thamai family eka. ithin ekatath leader kenek inna one. api piligath sammathaya thamai piya mulikaya kiyana eka. ithin eyata gawrawa karana eke kisi waraddak na. mama danna samahara families wala mulka wela wada karanne wife. ithin e wage family ekaka husband wifeta wanda kiyala eke kisima waraddak mama dakinne na. habai eka samaja sammathayata wiruddai.

    habai umba kiyana widiyata wife and husband dennama leader widiyata wada kaloth e pawula saarthaka wenne na. pawule hama thissema randu thiyei. mama kiyanne husband wife wa paagagena, yatath karagena innawa kiyana eka nemei.

    Western countries wala family lives walata hena gahala thiyenne eka thamai. ammai thaththai denna thama thamanta one widiyata thirana aran wada karanawa. mulu pawulama anathai.

    :yes::yes::yes:
     

    senewimala1988

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    machan, ammala owata wirudda wenna hethuwak hoya gannawane. dan me case ekata thiyena hethuwa mata pena widiyata umbe studies. ithin ewa hariyata karagaththoth wirudda wenna hethuwak na. Eka nisa hondata degree eka karaganin. godak ewata eken uththara labenawa. Habai kellawa wena kenekta nodi beraganna ekatanam mata help karanna amarui. :sorry::sorry: eka ithin kella athe thiyena wadak. kellage ammala umbata kamathinam wade goda.
    Machan mata eyalage parents la therum ganna amarui banz. Kella kivve gedarin thama danne ne kiyala.eyata langadi kollo set ekakin case ekak giyane ban meya kemathi wela nathuwa. E asse mama gedara enavata eya echchara kemathi vune ne..Mama hithuwe exam hinda kiyala..Eth mama ahuwaama kivve ara case eka hinda eyage parents kollanta dan echchara kemathi ne kiyala..
    Eth davasak kella iskole giyata passe eyage mom mata call karala ahanava dan katha karanne naththe ai, apith ekka tharaha welaada,......etc.
    Maru wade thama..mama pahuwadaama giya machan gedara.After about 1 1/2 years.Giyata passe maara kathaava machan..Kella nemei amma..Magen ahanava age eka,degree eka gena,out wena year eka..2012 kivvaama wadi kal ne neda ahanava.he he..
    But mata hithenava kella eyage dad inna welaawata mama enavata kemathi ne kiyala.Mata nikan hithenne.Eth dad math ekka hodata katha karanava.
    Ane manda..Hema dema honda paththata vunoth hondai..
    Mata badagini...Uni eke inne...Kanna yanna oni..Umbata hithena de post karala thiyanna..mama passe balannam..BYE!
     

    sudunone

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    E kiyanne umba "pithru mulika" pawul jiwithaya piliganne nadda?

    onama thanaka leader kenek inna one. ehema nathi wunoth e community ekata issarahata yanna ba. society eke podima eka thamai family eka. ithin ekatath leader kenek inna one. api piligath sammathaya thamai piya mulikaya kiyana eka. ithin eyata gawrawa karana eke kisi waraddak na. mama danna samahara families wala mulka wela wada karanne wife. ithin e wage family ekaka husband wifeta wanda kiyala eke kisima waraddak mama dakinne na. habai eka samaja sammathayata wiruddai.

    habai umba kiyana widiyata wife and husband dennama leader widiyata wada kaloth e pawula saarthaka wenne na. pawule hama thissema randu thiyei. mama kiyanne husband wife wa paagagena, yatath karagena innawa kiyana eka nemei.

    Western countries wala family lives walata hena gahala thiyenne eka thamai. ammai thaththai denna thama thamanta one widiyata thirana aran wada karanawa. mulu pawulama anathai.

    apoi naha. ekkenekwath thaniyama theerana ganna ekata mama wiruddhai. denna ekathu wela katha wela, agree wela theerana ganna one. thaniyama theerana gannanam partner kenek one na ne.
    eka nayakayek inna one na; ai ahala nadda Vajji kumarawarunge samuhaanduwa? decision making power eka bedila thiyena tharamata theerana saadaranai.

    Each one has thier own beliefs. Perhaps we should discuss with the potential partners what they believe in before stepping into marriage.
     

    prabaths

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    Machan mata eyalage parents la therum ganna amarui banz. Kella kivve gedarin thama danne ne kiyala.eyata langadi kollo set ekakin case ekak giyane ban meya kemathi wela nathuwa. E asse mama gedara enavata eya echchara kemathi vune ne..Mama hithuwe exam hinda kiyala..Eth mama ahuwaama kivve ara case eka hinda eyage parents kollanta dan echchara kemathi ne kiyala..
    Eth davasak kella iskole giyata passe eyage mom mata call karala ahanava dan katha karanne naththe ai, apith ekka tharaha welaada,......etc.
    Maru wade thama..mama pahuwadaama giya machan gedara.After about 1 1/2 years.Giyata passe maara kathaava machan..Kella nemei amma..Magen ahanava age eka,degree eka gena,out wena year eka..2012 kivvaama wadi kal ne neda ahanava.he he..
    But mata hithenava kella eyage dad inna welaawata mama enavata kemathi ne kiyala.Mata nikan hithenne.Eth dad math ekka hodata katha karanava.
    Ane manda..Hema dema honda paththata vunoth hondai..
    Mata badagini...Uni eke inne...Kanna yanna oni..Umbata hithena de post karala thiyanna..mama passe balannam..BYE!


    Mata hithena de......

    umba anthimata kiyala thiyena de dakkama matanam hithenne, kella kese wethahth amma kamathi umbawa pawlata sambanda karaganna. Saamanyayen kellekge amma kenek oya wage dewal ahanne thamange duwa kollata denna puluwanda, kochchara kal balan inna oneda kiyala dan ganna ona wunama :lol::lol::lol:

    umbata mama ekak kiwwoth karala balanna kamathida? habai umba sampurna wagakima ganna one....;);) Kellage ammata umba kellata aadare karana bawa angawapan. habai umbe gedarata danma aaranchi nowena widiyata.
     

    prabaths

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    apoi naha. ekkenekwath thaniyama theerana ganna ekata mama wiruddhai. denna ekathu wela katha wela, agree wela theerana ganna one. thaniyama theerana gannanam partner kenek one na ne.
    eka nayakayek inna one na; ai ahala nadda Vajji kumarawarunge samuhaanduwa? decision making power eka bedila thiyena tharamata theerana saadaranai.

    Each one has thier own beliefs. Perhaps we should discuss with the potential partners what they believe in before stepping into marriage.


    aththa. katha wela thmai thirana ganna one. 100% agreed. E wunata samahara deawl thiyenawa kawurujari mulika wela wada karanna wena. (magen ahanna epa e monawada kiyala...married aya experience eken dannawa).

    Machan Samuhanduwaka paalayai, family ekaka paalayai 100% compare karanna ba. samuhanduwak kiyanne pradesha walata bedala wena wenama paalaya karana ekane (according to what i know). ehemanam e eka aanduwaka paalanayata inne ekkenai neda? dethun denek paalanaya karanne nane? Nikan hithala balapan mokak hari thiranayak gannakota dethun denek ideas dunnama samahara welawata eka thiranayakwath kriyathmaka karanna bari wenawa. eth ethana hari leader kenek hitiyoth eyata puluwan ewain hondama thiyranya kriyathmaka karanna.