Pls post ur view (age 21 and above only)

[heshan123]

Sorry, I mean hurt by some people. Family ekka traditional nang etha kote girl/boy (mostly for girls) will have a hard time with them afterwards. Even though it may be kept a secret.

Macho if this thing is kept as a secret then no one will know. If thats the case, no one will try to question the girl about her virginity. neda ??

 

[crazyfool]

Macho if this thing is kept as a secret then no one will know. If thats the case, no one will try to question the girl about her virginity. neda ??

Ah I see. Habi mang kiyane personal perspective eken. Mage hitahe api denna not on the same page.

I dunno man... personally it's up to you. If someone has to marry a virgin then they better ask before they get married nathang x-pert ayya Qwa wage, don't ask.

 

[KishanW]

sorry.com
mama thaama 19(coming soon 20)

 

[Wal Bada]

Nice post... NO...

Marriage is not a pre-request for sex in ma point of view.. in other words you are asking whether its correct to have sex before marriage ryt???

All defines you how do you define sex. You can have flirting, oral sex or genital sex (anal sex if you are a bit of a variant)

It's up to two partners to decide on it. Sri Lankan culture (wrongly) expects every bride to be a virgin (fuck the relatives off! ) Losing virginity may become an issue. If two partners are sure enough that they are going to marry or the girl's virginity is not going to be an issue for her, why not go and drill it!

Sex helps so much for bonding between a couple. Why should it start only after marriage?

On the other hand you should be mature enough to address the consequences like un-wanted pregnancies. Condoms or other contracetives should be used. Postinor within 24 hours of sex will reduce un wanted pregancies by 99.8%.

Then you should always be sure your partner is not promiscus. Otherwise you'll end up with cascade od sexually transmitted diseases and even with HIV, Hepatitis B or Herpes.

 

[Wal Bada]

hBut dont ever do it to a girl I mean when you marry a person dont ever try to check whether she is a virgin or not... Thats my point machang...

Ela kathawa! Eth pusa hora maalu wala raha danna kota, horaama kanna purudu wenawa! Meka kaasiye anik paththa. Oya pathi dekama mama elatama athdakala thiyenawa.

 

[chamithal]

haah uba kiyanne prevention is better than cure kiyala ne??

Owu society eke widihata eeka hari...

But dont ever do it to a girl I mean when you marry a person dont ever try to check whether she is a virgin or not... Thats my point machang...

Yeah! Of course! As long as I love... it doesn't matter even she's married b4 Love is the thing! yeah boss! I agree!

 

[shanX]

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[DIRTY X]

meka nagala yanawa wage..
ela eloooo....

 

[heshan123]

meka nagala yanawa wage..
ela eloooo....

 

[heshan123]

All defines you how do you define sex. You can have flirting, oral sex or genital sex (anal sex if you are a bit of a variant)

It's up to two partners to decide on it. Sri Lankan culture (wrongly) expects every bride to be a virgin (fuck the relatives off! ) Losing virginity may become an issue. If two partners are sure enough that they are going to marry or the girl's virginity is not going to be an issue for her, why not go and drill it!

Sex helps so much for bonding between a couple. Why should it start only after marriage?

On the other hand you should be mature enough to address the consequences like un-wanted pregnancies. Condoms or other contracetives should be used. Postinor within 24 hours of sex will reduce un wanted pregancies by 99.8%.

Then you should always be sure your partner is not promiscus. Otherwise you'll end up with cascade od sexually transmitted diseases and even with HIV, Hepatitis B or Herpes.

Hmmmmmmmm............ good comment macho. Keep it up.

 

[heshan123]

sorry.com
mama thaama 19(coming soon 20)

Better stay off the thread macho. Sorry.

 

[nAPs2JAAN]

sex is something that important 4 lovers.it doesn't mean that all lovers should have sex b4 marriage but if both agree i mean if both feel like doing so its ok to have some cz it can make the relationship more stronger and always it will be a sweet memory for a couple. but marriage is the most important thin in a life for a couple as i think.
so what i recommend is to do big things after the marriage.
bt never do sex with a guy or a girl that u r not sure of marring bcz that will be a very very bad memory if u marry some1 els later on ur life

 

[ruchira_jay]

ummmm.. nice thread!! well, machangla, my point is this, if the guys have the freedom to get out there and explore the sexuality why not girls?.. Sexual urge is a natural cause and it dosent vary from men to women.

Thanks to the bloody victorian culture embeded to the traditional sri lankan way of life, now many men expect their bride to be a virgin yet they could go around and have sex with who ever they want..

I know many lankan girls out here do everything else except the "real thing" and find some nice "original" sri lankan boy to marry!! Well, "technically" she's a virgin, apart from all the male genitalias she's handled..!! .. ..is she really a virgin or not?.. you decide!

WELL...the bottom line is, pre-marital sex IS NOT & SHOULD NOT be an issue.. Sex is a basic human need and it must remain that way ..its nothing sacred and nothing to be scared of..!!

 

[nAPs2JAAN]

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[heshan123]

sex is something that important 4 lovers.it doesn't mean that all lovers should have sex b4 marriage but if both agree i mean if both feel like doing so its ok to have some cz it can make the relationship more stronger and always it will be a sweet memory for a couple. but marriage is the most important thin in a life for a couple as i think.
so what i recommend is to do big things after the marriage.
bt never do sex with a guy or a girl that u r not sure of marring bcz that will be a very very bad memory if u marry some1 els later on ur life

By 'big things' you meant the real course right? So what u actually mean is its ok to explore a bit around the sex world but with no serious commitments ???
Is that what u mean macho ?
Oh and by the way are u over 21 ??? Ur 19 as far as i can remember. Having a GF is not a qualification to post in this thread.....

 

[nAPs2JAAN]

By 'big things' you meant the real course right? So what u actually mean is its ok to explore a bit around the sex world but with no serious commitments ???
Is that what u mean macho ?
Oh and by the way are u over 21 ??? Ur 19 as far as i can remember. Having a GF is not a qualification to post in this thread.....

ahhh im ganna cry

u said im not qualified to post in here

 

[heshan123]

ummmm.. nice thread!! well, machangla, my point is this, if the guys have the freedom to get out there and explore the sexuality why not girls?.. Sexual urge is a natural cause and it dosent vary from men to women.

Thanks to the bloody victorian culture embeded to the traditional sri lankan way of life, now many men expect their bride to be a virgin yet they could go around and have sex with who ever they want..

I know many lankan girls out here do everything else except the "real thing" and find some nice "original" sri lankan boy to marry!! Well, "technically" she's a virgin, apart from all the male genitalias she's handled..!! .. ..is she really a virgin or not?.. you decide!

WELL...the bottom line is, pre-marital sex IS NOT & SHOULD NOT be an issue.. Sex is a basic human need and it must remain that way ..its nothing sacred and nothing to be scared of..!!

Fully agreed macho. But does that mean, that u would not feel bad if you find ur newly wedded wife is not a virgin ???? Most of the Sri Lankan people are good at saying things but when they get down to the real deal, they are the same way as the very people who they talked against.

 

[heshan123]

ahhh im ganna cry

u said im not qualified to post in here

Didn't you see the name of the thread ??? There is an age limit specified. Anyway since you seem to have some background on this I think its ok for u to keep on posting. The thing is macho these things are not relevant for an under-aged guy. It will only confuse him trying to figure out the big deal here.

 

[nAPs2JAAN]

Didn't you see the name of the thread ??? There is an age limit specified. Anyway since you seem to have some background on this I think its ok for u to keep on posting. The thing is macho these things are not relevant for an under-aged guy. It will only confuse him trying to figure out the big deal here.

ok im out

 

[ruchira_jay]

Fully agreed macho. But does that mean, that u would not feel bad if you find ur newly wedded wife is not a virgin ???? Most of the Sri Lankan people are good at saying things but when they get down to the real deal, they are the same way as the very people who they talked against.

Machang, its like this...if i've led a life of a monk (no sex, etc...) and if i find my wife's not a virgin and if im naive enough to judge her based on JUST the virginity, YES, there will be an issue..

BUT, my view is, regardless whether i;ve had sex (with someone else) or not, and if my newly wedded wife is not a virgin and if she's open and humble enough to admit it, then i have NO problem with it..

It all comes down to what you expect from a women/wife...