should your future wife be a virgin ??

[CoolCartoon]

THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENT BRO. BUT LET ME ASK SIMPLE QUESTION FROM YOU.
ARE YOU VIRGIN??????

ill reply for him......

hf no idea yet!!
and btw im virgin

http://www.elakiri.com/forum/showthread.php?t=91859&page=3

 

[CoolCartoon]

dude,

i think its a good topic to discuss..i am sure u getting so much respond.

what i think is da same way u think...its not fare v expect girls to be virgin and us not to be...

v all kno how much bugging v get as a virgin guy.. so we all want to get laid b4 v get married.. and c in dat way v need to loos our virginity to a gal.. so dat girl marry after dat according to the ppl who expect the wife to b virgin.

so i dont understand dat part...

is any care to explain??

it is not fare....but when it comes to u...to ur life...r u expecting that ???

 

[Asitha-K]

But I got a question for you.

Do you think having sex before marriage is a SIN ?

can't say that so sure but it is told that
"Having sex with other than the married partner is a sin"

But having sex before marriage is not a smart thing to do! for a girl specially!
sometimes there are more valuable things than the pleasure...

 

[hirushan]

ow appa ehema wenawanam hodai............

etha ehema ewa hoyaganna eka tamai dan thiyena lokuma gataluwa........

 

[Nash_Node]

can't say that so sure but it is told that
"Having sex with other than the married partner is a sin"

But having sex before marriage is not a smart thing to do! for a girl specially!
sometimes there are more valuable things than the pleasure...

NO. you didn't answer my question there.

1. Do you believe it's a SIN or not ?

2. Or if it's wrong or not ?

After marriage, yes, it's wrong and a sin.

But before?

3. again, just because YOU are a virgin, what right do you have to ASK another person to be the same...just so that "she" can qualify to marry you.

(ok... you know I am not going "personal"..but answer me to those three questions)

 

[Jack_Sparrow]

Ehema wenna oni,(thama mata GF kenek neee)

But lankawa me yana wdiyata kohoma weida danne ne,

 

[chamithal]

I don't care - i'm not a narrow minded person...

 

[Sampath17]

We should not play with girls. That's my idea. I mean if you saying to a girl that you are really love her and gonna marry her and after all the thing happen you going away from her that's a very bad thing. Because she is having that deep relationship only if she trust you.

Think.. that can be your sister..!! What do you think if that kind of thing happen to your sis. What you gonna do...???

But if a girl wanna relationship that kind of it's doesn't matter.

Don't betray a girl who is really love you.

Thats the Spirit Machan..... Tats da way u sud b....!!!!

I Look for a Virginity From a girl.... That shows the girl is pure.....

 

[dacoolest]

virginiawen ekkenek hoyagaththa nam wede iwaraine.

 

[Asitha-K]

NO. you didn't answer my question there.

1. Do you believe it's a SIN or not ?

2. Or if it's wrong or not ?

After marriage, yes, it's wrong and a sin.

But before?

3. again, just because YOU are a virgin, what right do you have to ASK another person to be the same...just so that "she" can qualify to marry you.

(ok... you know I am not going "personal"..but answer me to those three questions)

I'm sure its wrong!
this is the case

I'm a Buddhist I believe i live according to my religion!
And the girl that i expect to marry could be in any religion or race..
But she should be so disciplined as i am! and the ability to control emotions (that is a effect of intelligence)
so that's why i expect a virgin
(i know ur not going personal bro!:jk

 

[CoolCartoon]

dude,


v all kno how much bugging v get as a virgin guy.. so we all want to get laid b4 v get married.. and c in dat way v need to loos our virginity to a gal.. so dat girl marry after dat according to the ppl who expect the wife to b virgin.

so i dont understand dat part...

is any care to explain??

that is sri lankan ego...... it is hard to explain...
but if it comes to u... do u really care ????

nothing personal.

 

[Nash_Node]

I'm sure its wrong!
this is the case

I'm a Buddhist I believe i live according to my religion!
And the girl that i expect to marry could be in any religion or race..
But she should be so disciplined as i am! and the ability to control emotions (that is a effect of intelligence)
so that's why i expect a virgin
(i know ur not going personal bro!:jk

1. Does your religion says to marry a virgin ?

2. Or according to you, since she can be of any religion.. what if THAT religion doesn't believe in such a practice ... would you still accept her ?

3. Sex is a primal instinct of any living thing, so can you justify such an action by a MAN made thing such as religion, race or education ?

I allege you something. (law point)

1. Your request for a virgin is purely based of personal prejudice.

2. That request is rational and totally biased as well as SELFISH in all accounts.

3. You cannot EXPECT or DEMAND another free human being to behave or act according to your own wishes,. thus nullifying your claim for any "future request OR any future expectations of demanding the girl you going marry should be a VIRGIN"

I Say something to you. (Fellow EK member point)

1. You cannot expect a girl to be the same just because you didn't get "LAID" ... so get a life dumb fu_k.. go out there and GET LAID.

I Say something to you. (As a Older brother.)

The day you fall head over heels in love with a person... all those things are immaterial bro.

Trust me. That's personal advice straight from the heart (yeah.. Nash_node got a heart too )

 

[bhai4uanu]

My answer is yes my future wife should be a virgin!
because i'm a person who know the limits very well and I expect a intelligent and a wise girl as my bride.
If she is intelligent and wise she will never attempt a sexual relationship before marriage so i do care if she is a virgin

මම බලාපොරොත්තුවෙන්නෙ කුමරි බඹ සර රකින්නියක්

100% agreed

 

[yasaswan]

''I don't care who you are
Where you're from
What you did
As long as you love me ''

 

[henderson]

I need virgin simply bcoz I am one, why should I marry for less? If she can't control her emotions or whatever the reason I simply don't need her.

 

[cj4ever]

I'm sure its wrong!
this is the case

I'm a Buddhist I believe i live according to my religion!
And the girl that i expect to marry could be in any religion or race..
But she should be so disciplined as i am! and the ability to control emotions (that is a effect of intelligence)
so that's why i expect a virgin
(i know ur not going personal bro!:jk

mamath ubath ekka ekaga venava macho

 

[Asitha-K]

1. Does your religion says to marry a virgin ?

2. Or according to you, since she can be of any religion.. what if THAT religion doesn't believe in such a practice ... would you still accept her ?

3. Sex is a primal instinct of any living thing, so can you justify such an action by a MAN made thing such as religion, race or education ?

I allege you something. (law point)

1. Your request for a virgin is purely based of personal prejudice.

2. That request is rational and totally biased as well as SELFISH in all accounts.

3. You cannot EXPECT or DEMAND another free human being to behave or act according to your own wishes,. thus nullifying your claim for any "future request OR any future expectations of demanding the girl you going marry should be a VIRGIN"

I Say something to you. (Fellow EK member point)

1. You cannot expect a girl to be the same just because you didn't get "LAID" ... so get a life dumb fu_k.. go out there and GET LAID.

I Say something to you. (As a Older brother.)

The day you fall head over heels in love with a person... all those things are immaterial bro.

Trust me. That's personal advice straight from the heart (yeah.. Nash_node got a heart too )

I agree with the last point as a brother
Love can make magic if i fell in love with a porn star I'll marry her!

But i know and believe my fate and some good girl deserve me!

 

[yasasrd]

no comments

 

[CoolCartoon]

1. Does your religion says to marry a virgin ?

1. religion does nt say to marry a virgin. but it says "Do not Indulge in Sexual Misconduct"

I Say something to you. (Fellow EK member point)

1. You cannot expect a girl to be the same just because you didn't get "LAID" ... so get a life dumb fu_k.. go out there and GET LAID.

most of they do. but they don't wanna say. our people are so good to act like white characters.

 

[northtech]

It’s so simple.
Imagination & thoughts are different from one to another. That’s what our great Buddha also told.
One would say YES I need virginity from my future wife or one may say I don’t need.
But the fact is
if you are really respecting to your religion either Buddhist or Catholic .Then before marriage having sex for both parties not acceptable.