should your future wife be a virgin ??

should your future wife be a virgin ?

  • Yes... im..so she must be

    Votes: 221 49.4%
  • yes.... im not a virgin but she must be.....

    Votes: 37 8.3%
  • nah... im not so why she is ??

    Votes: 32 7.2%
  • nah.... im but i dunt care

    Votes: 34 7.6%
  • i dont care...

    Votes: 123 27.5%

  • Total voters
    447

miyuru4u

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    In the eyes of my girl
    ane manda machanla
    i dont have much experience about girl
    but all my friends are good..
    so i think
    when i marry a girl .. if she loves me truly, virginity is not a problem..
    Love doesn't need a reason
     

    just

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    its like asking "if you can buy a reconditioned and a brand new vehicle for the same price what would you go for.."

    i think everyone will expect a virgin regardless of they are one or not. cos that the natural way humans think...:lol::lol:

    but i understand the situation like this. if we are in society where nobody cares about it we are moving towards a disaster fast.

    its duty of every human if he cannot make the society at least not to damage it. so in that base humans need decepline, the issue of virginity come at this place for me. cos i think family is the strongest unit that makes a good society. and people who make that unit are not strong enough to take controls of themselfs then its not a good thing.

    so i do think it should be expected from both guy and girl for the sake of a healthy future. but it shouldnt be narrowed down to blood spots etc only for girls cos if so guys always have the advantage.:frown:

    the solution should com as a collective effort. EDUCATION mainly. this of course will solve lot of more issus like STD etc.:)

    seems with new ways of thinking people cannot even imagine there are virgin guys/gals until marriage.but there are lot out there..still i think so called "free thinkers" are minority but there voice more heard thats all..:oo:

    i first expect a girl who appreciates me for having that discipline, then i know she too does.rather than checking for bloodspots or whatever ;);)
     

    CoolCartoon

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    northtech said:
    if you are really respecting to your religion either Buddhist or Catholic .Then before marriage having sex for both parties not acceptable.

    yes...im not sure about catholic.but if yes... 99% of people not respecting to there religion.
     

    CoolCartoon

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    just said:
    its like asking "if you can buy a reconditioned and a brand new vehicle for the same price what would you go for.."

    i think everyone will expect a virgin regardless of they are one or not. cos that the natural way humans think...:lol::lol:



    most of ( probably all ) will agree with this. :)
    human nature....
     

    just

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    CoolCartoon said:
    most of ( probably all ) will agree with this. :)
    human nature....

    yes but what i wanted to tell was unless we make ourself deserving for what we want the future of the society/country/world is not gona b a good one...:no::no:
     

    dacoolest

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    In a community where the virginity has no demand, a non virgin girl will be ok. but in a community where the virginity is demanding, a girl who isn't a virgin is a whore, or someone who don't believe in virgin system, or someone who can't control herself, or someone who want to behave as the mind says and want to have fun of the life.

    i dont like those type of girls. cos, it will increase the potential of happening problems in the future, as that girl may can have mischief addictions, too much dependence on sex can which cause problems in married life, inability to control herself, lack of belief in marriage system or cultural accepts.
     

    upulcranga

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    Yaarnick said:
    We should not play with girls. That's my idea. I mean if you saying to a girl that you are really love her and gonna marry her and after all the thing happen you going away from her that's a very bad thing. Because she is having that deep relationship only if she trust you.

    Think.. that can be your sister..!! What do you think if that kind of thing happen to your sis. What you gonna do...???

    But if a girl wanna relationship that kind of it's doesn't matter.

    Don't betray a girl who is really love you.

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    nj542

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    henderson said:
    I need virgin simply bcoz I am one, why should I marry for less? If she can't control her emotions or whatever the reason I simply don't need her.

    well said bro...........:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
    same here.........:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

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