should your future wife be a virgin ??

should your future wife be a virgin ?

  • Yes... im..so she must be

    Votes: 221 49.4%
  • yes.... im not a virgin but she must be.....

    Votes: 37 8.3%
  • nah... im not so why she is ??

    Votes: 32 7.2%
  • nah.... im but i dunt care

    Votes: 34 7.6%
  • i dont care...

    Votes: 123 27.5%

  • Total voters
    447

KishanW

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If i could love a girl entirely, it'll be unconditional if i'm gonna marry her. Cos after that she's the one who's gonna be there for me. If i love her entirely, that means i love her as a person not for her vagina. So i think i don't care if i can trust her and if she doesn't break my trust more than 3 chances. :)
 

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    Nash_Node said:
    Oh, the guy who's doing a PHd In PORNO wants a virgin girl to marry ?

    Man, you aren't you a damn hypocrite.

    whoa clarification :i am not that much of an expert..and anyway most sri lankan girls arent like that..and its a way of showing respect to your partner if you are virgin..it bonds the trust..I AM NOT PORN FREAK!!:shocked: :shocked: :shocked: :shocked:
     

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    Yaarnick said:
    We should not play with girls. That's my idea. I mean if you saying to a girl that you are really love her and gonna marry her and after all the thing happen you going away from her that's a very bad thing. Because she is having that deep relationship only if she trust you.

    Think.. that can be your sister..!! What do you think if that kind of thing happen to your sis. What you gonna do...???

    But if a girl wanna relationship that kind of it's doesn't matter.

    Don't betray a girl who is really love you.
    wow...what a idea...you r absolutely correct..!!
     

    KishanW

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    Yaarnick said:
    We should not play with girls. That's my idea. I mean if you saying to a girl that you are really love her and gonna marry her and after all the thing happen you going away from her that's a very bad thing. Because she is having that deep relationship only if she trust you.

    Think.. that can be your sister..!! What do you think if that kind of thing happen to your sis. What you gonna do...???

    But if a girl wanna relationship that kind of it's doesn't matter.

    Don't betray a girl who is really love you.
    But there are girls who use you sometimes .....:) ;)
     

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    Nash_Node said:
    I lost mine when I was around 14 :oo:

    Ok, not boasting mate. Just that...well.. it's me :P

    But nice to hear that there are still guys out there who really stick to it.
    14??? wow. U must be some "guy" mate. Im not sure whether I should congratulate you or say "My deepest sympathies". :oo: :oo:
     

    x-pert

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    :lol: I think there were few more threads regarding the same scenario.

    Personally I don't really care about the virginity. But as a human I would love to have that experience :)

    But in case if she wasn't a virgin, I don't mind though.
     

    Eclipse

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    icreations said:
    Very Good Topic Macahng Coz this Can Educate some one...

    Well If U ( the BOY ) has done some thing like wat u hav told.. it's not fare..
    eekata hena gahanawa.. ehema karanawa nam....
    But the thing is with girls... paw..
    recently i saw a thread " derana miss univerce.. Etc.. " in that some one told..
    " karaganna ekak danma karaganilla , anagathe lankawe kellek nathi wenawa kiyala badaganna "...
    Golden Coz ada kello balanne publicity, Sexy, How many boys are coming for her, how many nights....... etc, rather than Virginity... or " sanwara kama, hadiyawa " :(

    now the Question u asked... well for me i would really like it to be.. as i'm not in da above mentioned category.. :) but there are also some possibilities for a girl to loose their vir. so some Question is there.. but living true to your heart, loving from the heart ( not By The D!*k ), will never come between any 2...

    but.. there is always a " But "........ :yes:
    So mate thats what i think..
    Good topic which is very important in SL these days..
    Yaarnick said:
    We should not play with girls. That's my idea. I mean if you saying to a girl that you are really love her and gonna marry her and after all the thing happen you going away from her that's a very bad thing. Because she is having that deep relationship only if she trust you.

    Think.. that can be your sister..!! What do you think if that kind of thing happen to your sis. What you gonna do...???

    But if a girl wanna relationship that kind of it's doesn't matter.

    Don't betray a girl who is really love you.
    lasanka said:
    lol wot an odd thread.. i guess a guy hu is a virgin has all the right to expect the same from his future wife... and even if some idiot has gone around being "happy" he has the right to want what he wants lol. it depends on the girls point of view... and then again dont worry abt other ppl's ideal just consider ur own thats the best thing...
    CoolCartoon said:
    thanx bro.....some people just read the topic and reply.

    gals paw kiyanna be machan..cuz man danna samahara gals la ( SL ) innawa..they want relationships only for sex. thats the main thing. Love is not imporatant.

    " karaganna ekak danma karaganilla , anagathe lankawe kellek nathi wenawa kiyala badaganna "...

    a kathawa nam sahenna kattiya kiyanawa dan...specially colombo wala situation eka worse i think.

    thanx for ur comment bro.

    yes, i have nothing more to say after reading these comments and i agree for most of them n some of my friends r experiencing it!!coz most of them r true n proving..

    yeh i agree which cool cartoons comment n highlighted it cz u know ? there is a friend of mine hes having n affair with a girl like u have mentioned before!! u know wt she said 2 my friend?? she sed she cant marry him n she wanted him 2 stay with her like forever!! i was confused wt she was expecting from him!! but i know n i believe all the girls rnt like dat!! n for ur question.. it depends on peoples point of view.. well as for me i expect that my wife be a virgin. bcz its mentioned in lasanka's comment!

    this is a good work bro.. good thread!!
     

    pamithK

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    x-pert said:
    My X GF was good. But she wasn't a virgin... Good not equals to virginity. People do mistakes ;)

    well we all know we shouldnt exactly do it till our marriages..so if the girl decides to break the trend i think its wrong..

    but the thing is you cant find out whether the man is a virgin..:oo: :oo:
     

    x-pert

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    pamithK said:
    well we all know we shouldnt exactly do it till our marriages..so if the girl decides to break the trend i think its wrong..

    but the thing is you cant find out whether the man is a virgin..:oo: :oo:

    Don't care about what others say bro ;)

    If you're virgin, then so be it. If you're not, then don't give a shit.

    Life is not fair always.

    (Anyway Gay people are not virgins :P)
     

    Nash_Node

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    pamithK said:
    how can a girl be 'good' if she has lost her virginity?:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

    So does that mean a girl / woman CANNOT be good if she's not a virgin.

    Dude, why do you just base your self on the PREJUDICE that all girls who don't have the virginity are WHORE's and BITCHES.

    May be she's doing sports.. like gymnastics or cycling... or she was born without one, may be she was raped, may be she was cheated by a bastard.

    There could be billions and billions of reasons.

    Again, I tell you the same thing I told Asith K ... bro, fall in love with a woman and you will see ALL SUCH things are immaterial.

    Infact, you will never bother about any of those things.

    So, that's what Nabil said. If the girl is good, screw the virginity !:lol: