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Eranda200 said:
u knw i think itz not the gal who got the problem; itz d guys.:)


well, i guess thr is a so called "limit" for evrything.. our behaviour shouldnt be extreme :)


It is not a recent argmnt, this issue itz been talkd since the humanity were on ds Earth. This is human psycology and our life shouldbe balanced or it might be harmful :yes:
 
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jess said:
i absolutely agreee. but one thing that i have seen with my own eyes and even i find very trashy, are alot of girls wearing shorts with their butt cheeks hanging out the bottom. or a skirt so short that if they bend over u will see all they have. there has got to be a boundary, otherwise u will look like, not a prostitute, but that u will give it away for free.
now once when i was in sri lanka, i went to a few clubs there, h2o being on that i saw the most discusting thing that i would never in this world wear, not even to the beach (and im all for a 2 peice bikini). this chick in h2o, had on a shirt, that was completely backless, it had no back to it, and it only covered her boobs in the front, all the rest was exposed, her shorts were so short her buttcheeks were out and they were so tight she looked like it was hard for her to walk. that was gross, okay it wasnt the most discusting thin i have ever seen, but it was damn close.

the most important thing to me is respect. i would not want to go out somewhere with my husband and my children and have to watch a woman who have her tits hangin out or her ass. a little respect for decent families like us.

my sister used to work at rok ola cafe here in the states, and they had to wear low cut shirts and short shiort skirts, and i told her that if i ever camr to eat tehre, i would make a huge scene, b.c i would want someone clean looking to serve us our food, not looking like she is working a brothel.

another time i was in coney island beach in brooklyn, a family beach keep in mind, this nasty puerto rican bitch was on the beach in a thong, YES A THONG..... she wasnt even cute, her legs and her ass was sooooo fat and full of stretch marks, and everyone on the beach was all looking and laughing at her. no one even said anything to her that their children had to be out on that beach looking at her nasty stretchy jiggly ass that should have been covered. lmao....


anyways. to me that is where the line should be drawn, and u should have ur ass beat for walking out of the house lookin like that!

im american so dont think im saying that women should be dressed in traditional or watever, i just think women should be more aware of the reputation they are giving themselves and being respectful of people who have to look at them thats all. i still say show some leg show some cleavage, but keep the rest to the imagination!

yep the limits shud b ther whn u choose clothes that every1 shud agree.even this goes 2 many guys.. i hav seen my school m8s cumin 2 d class wid their trousers soo low 4rm their undyies.. u can actually tell the color f their boxers!!! mind u diz z school!!:lol:
d teacherz pay really litl attention 2 wot they do so they hav enuf freedom 2 wear wot they lyk.datz ok but they look too cheap in their dresses no matter hw expensive their clothes r.:)
 

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Eranda200 said:
yep the limits shud b ther whn u choose clothes that every1 shud agree.even this goes 2 many guys.. i hav seen my school m8s cumin 2 d class wid their trousers soo low 4rm their undyies.. u can actually tell the color f their boxers!!! mind u diz z school!!:lol:
d teacherz pay really litl attention 2 wot they do so they hav enuf freedom 2 wear wot they lyk.datz ok but they look too cheap in their dresses no matter hw expensive their clothes r.:)



omg i hattte people who dress with their pants hanging down to thei knees. it does look so cheap and so ghetto. people should take pride in their clothes and how they wear them cuz that is wat makes first impression on people is how they dress and present themselves. my old school had to make a dress code cuz the girl were dressing so hoochified and the boys pant were literally around their knees!
 

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aye_sha90 said:
well, i guess thr is a so called "limit" for evrything.. our behaviour shouldnt be extreme :)


It is not a recent argmnt, this issue itz been talkd since the humanity were on ds Earth. This is human psycology and our life shouldbe balanced or it might be harmful :yes:

in historic times i gez we wer all cloth-less. so i gez ther was no big deal on hw they looked. just wot they ate.:P
after d civilization peple wore clothes datz when d troubl started. :lol:

anywyz religion,traditions n superstitious beliefs r dangerous things 2 question.
 

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All this depends on the point sof view which and anotha thing, are such clothes appropriated to the place? World changes, certainly; but if we are so influenced by this globalization and we follow others like sheeps? Well, how this world will be ? specially, that will be the future of our ancient and respectable culture?
 

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Eranda200 said:
in historic times i gez we wer all cloth-less. so i gez ther was no big deal on hw they looked. just wot they ate.:P
after d civilization peple wore clothes datz when d troubl started. :lol:

anywyz religion,traditions n superstitious beliefs r dangerous things 2 question.


Nope Mr .. ;)
Yes, in historic times people were totally or half naked.
but this prob was also at that time, i mean .. the prob of "women" :yes: :yes:
Not about clothes, but about their behaviour :yes:


a detail "unconscious", which is the deepest part of our mind. This unconscious remains the same 1. Yes, people are changed coz of the level of intelligence which men acquired, the culture, the world, the technology. Facts; still few populations, in the 2008 live like our ancestors. another example? Our ancestors liked wars, started frm tribes, then Romans who loved see the combats (violence, blood).today people watch the violence as well. This is stimulated in fact by our unconscious . The way we react, our behavior, the way of thnking, thes things are changed, but the message we get has always been the same :).
We are only influenced by this world,family, world; but the deep meaning of our acts r based on our psycology and unconscious.
 
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aye_sha90 said:
All this depends on the point sof view which and anotha thing, are such clothes appropriated to the place? World changes, certainly; but if we are so influenced by this globalization and we follow others like sheeps? Well, how this world will be ? specially, that will be the future of our ancient and respectable culture?

i agreed on d limits on clothes but i dnt agree wid givin too much pressure on peopl over wot they wear n wot they do... kids at sch get a lot f pressure 4rm class m8s on d new fashion (which so much resembles following d sheeps lyk u say). itz not so easy 2 resist. plus i wudnt b called a "nerd" at any cost.
 

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Eranda200 said:
i agreed on d limits on clothes but i dnt agree wid givin too much pressure on peopl over wot they wear n wot they do... kids at sch get a lot f pressure 4rm class m8s on d new fashion (which so much resembles following d sheeps lyk u say). itz not so easy 2 resist. plus i wudnt b called a "nerd" at any cost.


i'm a person who's always been abroad. I have grown up abroad and lived abroad. I did not know anything abt my culture. Exactly, da influenz we get frm outside is rilevant!:yes:
Most of our acts depend also on dat influence and honestly thy are not totally done based on our own thoughts an ideas, but on wot we would like to be and 2 show to the world ;)
da clothes and da style is decided by da person, who, most of the times follow the conformism, but as civilizd people, we should know when a cloth is appropriated or not. Better if we didnt cross our limits, a thing a person should know.

The education starts frm our family! The Kids follow the teachings an the rules of their parents.:yes: parents dont have much time 2 dedicate to their children,becoming always more n more permisssive. Children are left on their own .the normality is this. Pressure of what they see outside and what the world does "Force" em 2 be.
 

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i get the impression this is turning out to be a sexist thing, i keep seeing comments "this is to our girls" or "its mostly the girls" well listen honies, like eranda and i were talking about, its not all about women, guys dress trashy as well. i dont think this thread was meant to point fingers at anyone in particular, it was a picture asking wat we thought of it, but some of the replies im reading kinda makes me wonder.... im sure no girl in elakiri community would dress trashy, its alot of respectful girls in here i guess. so reading "this is to our girls" is irrelevant i believe. guys dress trashy as well. they act trashy as well. some are just trashy. no matter wat color, religion, origin, sex, or how much money that person has. some people just dont have a good eye for fashion, or simply dont have mirrors in their homes :)
 

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First of All.. Eranda nd Jess ... This pic is not only talking about Dress code.. just get into the correct track first..

this is the exact idea of this image...

The covered Lolly pop Illustrates a decent Girl

The Uncovered Lolly pop shows a indecent girl

Fly illustrates Men with evil intentions

So men with Evil intentions get attracted to indecent girls

Decent Dress as well as the behaviour nd stuffs includes here ... Not only the Dress code..