Marriage Proposal ප්‍රශ්නයක්

Esh95 said:

මම Senior Software Engineer කෙනෙක් (Male, Degree holder) Sri Lankan based foreign IT company එකක. මට වයස 30.
මට Marriage ප්‍රොපොසල් 2ක් ඇවිත් තියනව. Teacher කෙනෙක් හා Doctor කෙනෙක්.
හොද Family Life එකක් හා අනිත් ඒවා සලකා බැලු විට හොද කාව තොර ගත්තෝත්ද?
දෙන්නම පෙනුමින්/ගතිගුනෙන් එකම ලෙවෙල් වගේ. ප්ලස් හෙල්ප් මී Guys !!!!!!!!!

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devops said:

In this situation, I would choose the teacher. My reasoning is based on my personal values. I believe that providing financially is primarily a man’s responsibility, and I also want to have children in the future. Because of that, I think the mother should have the space to focus on caring for and nurturing them.

If I chose a doctor, it would be difficult to expect her to stop working, since she would have invested so much time, effort, and sacrifice into her career. Asking her to give that up would feel unfair and unethical. In contrast, with a teacher, there may be more flexibility in balancing work and family, and having that conversation would feel more reasonable.

At the end of the day, after considering everything, I value peace of mind above all else.

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Peace for All said:

First of all you are a lucky, healthy and established guy to get proposals from women who are of that much standing in the society..

Thing with proposals is they are based on matching qualities such as designation, religion, height, caste etc., and not necessary love over the moon..

If you marry the Doc, you will be exposed to a more high/ powerful society than the Teacher - always think about the life of your future kids, when it comes to marriage..

Regardless, always be a gentleman, understand your role as a supportive husband, don't argue, carry their bag and walk beside them just like the late Queen Elizabeth's husband, Prince Philip did fashionably for 70 plus years of unbroken marriage life..

Remember the quote - behind every successful man there's a woman..

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JohnWick said:

Carry the bag? Eww. Dude he is going to marry a woman. He is not getting a job as a porter.

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nnp327 said:

I would pick teacher.

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devops said:

In this situation, I would choose the teacher. My reasoning is based on my personal values. I believe that providing financially is primarily a man’s responsibility, and I also want to have children in the future. Because of that, I think the mother should have the space to focus on caring for and nurturing them.

If I chose a doctor, it would be difficult to expect her to stop working, since she would have invested so much time, effort, and sacrifice into her career. Asking her to give that up would feel unfair and unethical. In contrast, with a teacher, there may be more flexibility in balancing work and family, and having that conversation would feel more reasonable.

At the end of the day, after considering everything, I value peace of mind above all else.

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2osama said:

Jobs දෙකම චොර ගුරුවරුන්ගේ වැඩේ කනක් ඇහිලා ඉන්න වෙන්නේ නැ ඉතින් ඩොකාලගේ වැඩේ කොයිවෙ ලාවෙත් ගෙදර නැ සතියකට සැරයක් අලුත්ම වයිරස් එකකුත් ගෙදරට ගෙන්ැල්ලා බොකරනවා

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Erzo said:

ටිචර් බැන්දොත් පිනා මේසෙ උඩ තියන් ගහන්නෙ. ඌ නැතත් ස්කෝලෙ සර් කෙනෙක් ගහනවා ඉන්ටර්වල් එකේ හරි.

එහෙම නැත්නම් ඒලෙවල් කොල්ලෙක්ගෙ කටට අරන් පුකේ අරින්න හරි දෙනව ආර්ට් රූම් එකට ගිහින්.

ඩොකියක් බැන්දොත් සදා සොත්ති. ඇටෙන්ඩන්ට්ගෙ ඉදන් ලොකු ඩොකා වෙනකම් ගහනවා.
නයිට් ෂිෆ්ට් වල නම් කොහොමත් හුකනව කාමර අස්සෙ දාගෙන එකට වැඩ කරන ඩොකාල. දන්න හින්ද කියන්නෙ.

අනික ඕව හෙන ස්ට්‍රෙස්ෆුල් ජොබ්. ස්ට්‍රෙස් එක වැඩි කමට කොහොමත් casual sex කරනවා ගොඩක් උන්. නැද්ද @olu bakka

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