How do you diffrentiate between your skanda and others skandha if you loss your identitiy of own.Arent these just one element.its like skandha teaching to itself
yup, eventually all nothing but, skandas - consciousnesses, mental factors, forms and nibbana.
Think of an AI computer game. There are different ppl in a city. Each of them are made by variables such as, feeling, excitement, perception, (lets say 52 variables). There characters think they are real they have, happiness, sorrow, etc... Oneday one guy cracks his code and finds he is nothing but a set of variables. He also sees the pain, happiness everything are just variables. He understands, all the trouble/struggle he puts in is worthless. He knows, the other characters in the city are the same. So, he passes the massage so they can find themselves truth.
-again an example only (for idiots)
its like skandha teaching to itself