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Djwathila

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    ඕක හිතෙන්නෙ මචං අතේ ගහපුවාම නැත්තම් එහෙම නෑ
    කෙල්ලගෙ ඔලුව පපුව උඩින් තියාගෙන තුරුල්කරන් නිදා ගන්නව
     

    SunSilk

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    meka marawedakne
    ubata kotanna lajja naa
    yawanna thamai lejja
    yawanna nemai yawwata passe
    මට නම් එහෙම අවුලක් නැහැ.
    :love::love::rolleyes:
    ඕක හිතෙන්නෙ මචං අතේ ගහපුවාම නැත්තම් එහෙම නෑ
    කෙල්ලගෙ ඔලුව පපුව උඩින් තියාගෙන තුරුල්කරන් නිදා ගන්නව
    ehema kerenna mata 1 min wage yanawa thurulu keren inna..eyanam ehapatteta harila inne..
    ඒක හරි තියපු ගමන් ගියොත්නම් මූන බලන්න ලැජ්ජයි යකෝ:P:P
    man 5 secs kiwe badu yana time eka..ehema nathguwa gahana welawa nemai
    වෙස්මුනක් දාගනින් :dull:

    :confused::confused::sorry:
     
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    Believe it or not, it's common for men and women to feel depressed after sex, even if it was awesomely mindblowing. So the next time you get it on and your partner turns away or doesn't want to participate in pillow talk, he's not just being an insensitive jerk.

    There's actually a real name for this condition. It's called post-coital tristesse (PCT). It comes from the Latin phrase post-coital and the French word tristesse, and it literally means "sadness." Many people who suffer from PCT will experience strong feelings of sorrow, anxiety, or uneasiness anywhere from immediately after sex to up to two hours later.

    Why does this happen? It involves the hormone prolactin. Women have this hormone to make milk, but men have it, too. Your body creates it after an orgasm to counteract the release of dopamine, the hormone responsible for sexual arousal. So the prolactin is believed to cause these feelings of melancholy.

    Why else might a person feel sad after sex?

    Sex is all about connecting with someone, and while the dopamine surging through your body makes you feel great while you're having sex, afterwards, reality might sink in. You may feel scared or nervous about commitment, so you may want to be alone, or get some emotional (and even physical) distance from the person you were just with. Sex also makes us say things in the heat of the moment, so while your loins made you say "I love you and want to have your children," later on that may not seem like such a good idea.:yes:

    — Additional reporting by Alexis Nordby
     
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    blue_in_rio

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  • බන්චි පුතා;20031468 said:
    Believe it or not, it's common for men and women to feel depressed after sex, even if it was awesomely mindblowing. So the next time you get it on and your partner turns away or doesn't want to participate in pillow talk, he's not just being an insensitive jerk.

    There's actually a real name for this condition. It's called post-coital tristesse (PCT). It comes from the Latin phrase post-coital and the French word tristesse, and it literally means "sadness." Many people who suffer from PCT will experience strong feelings of sorrow, anxiety, or uneasiness anywhere from immediately after sex to up to two hours later.

    Why does this happen? It involves the hormone prolactin. Women have this hormone to make milk, but men have it, too. Your body creates it after an orgasm to counteract the release of dopamine, the hormone responsible for sexual arousal. So the prolactin is believed to cause these feelings of melancholy.

    Why else might a person feel sad after sex?

    Sex is all about connecting with someone, and while the dopamine surging through your body makes you feel great while you're having sex, afterwards, reality might sink in. You may feel scared or nervous about commitment, so you may want to be alone, or get some emotional (and even physical) distance from the person you were just with. Sex also makes us say things in the heat of the moment, so while your loins made you say "I love you and want to have your children," later on that may not seem like such a good idea.:yes:

    — Additional reporting by Alexis Nordby

    ටහිකෙයි කිව්වලු :sorry::sorry:
     

    charith84

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    මට නම් හිතෙන්නෙහ් ඔක සාමාන්ය දෙයක් මොකද එජැකුලෙශන් එකකට පස්සේ මොලේ කෙමිකල්ස් වෙනස් වෙනවා ලි0ගිකත්වය තියෙන හැගිම් අඩු වෙනවා එහෙම උනේ නැත්තම් මෙහ් ගහලා අනිත් පැත්තට ආයේ ගහන නිසාහ් :rofl: එක සාමාන්ය දෙයක්
    උබටහ් ලැජජා හිතෙනවා ඇති එහෙම හැගිමක් නැති උන වෙලාවටහ් මොන මගුලටදහ් එබුවේහ් කියලා
    යකො ඔච්චර හිතන්නහ් දෙයක් නෙමෙහ් ලැජ්ජයි නම් අහක බලාගෙන ඉදපන් නැත්තම් කොට්ටෙන් එකිගේ මුන වහපන්
     

    SunSilk

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    බන්චි පුතා;20031468 said:
    Believe it or not, it's common for men and women to feel depressed after sex, even if it was awesomely mindblowing. So the next time you get it on and your partner turns away or doesn't want to participate in pillow talk, he's not just being an insensitive jerk.

    There's actually a real name for this condition. It's called post-coital tristesse (PCT). It comes from the Latin phrase post-coital and the French word tristesse, and it literally means "sadness." Many people who suffer from PCT will experience strong feelings of sorrow, anxiety, or uneasiness anywhere from immediately after sex to up to two hours later.

    Why does this happen? It involves the hormone prolactin. Women have this hormone to make milk, but men have it, too. Your body creates it after an orgasm to counteract the release of dopamine, the hormone responsible for sexual arousal. So the prolactin is believed to cause these feelings of melancholy.

    Why else might a person feel sad after sex?

    Sex is all about connecting with someone, and while the dopamine surging through your body makes you feel great while you're having sex, afterwards, reality might sink in. You may feel scared or nervous about commitment, so you may want to be alone, or get some emotional (and even physical) distance from the person you were just with. Sex also makes us say things in the heat of the moment, so while your loins made you say "I love you and want to have your children," later on that may not seem like such a good idea.:yes:

    — Additional reporting by Alexis Nordby

    :yes::yes: ledak nemai
     

    blue_in_rio

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  • යකො ඔච්චර හිතන්නහ් දෙයක් නෙමෙහ් ලැජ්ජයි නම් අහක බලාගෙන ඉදපන් නැත්තම් කොට්ටෙන් එකිගේ මුන වහපන්

    :yes::yes: කොට්ටෙන් මූන වහලා තද කරන් හිටපන්.ඒකි දැඟලුවොත් තව ටිකක් තද කරපන්.ටික වෙලාවකින් දඟලන එක නතර වෙයි. :sorry::sorry:
     

    SunSilk

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    මට නම් හිතෙන්නෙහ් ඔක සාමාන්ය දෙයක් මොකද එජැකුලෙශන් එකකට පස්සේ මොලේ කෙමිකල්ස් වෙනස් වෙනවා ලි0ගිකත්වය තියෙන හැගිම් අඩු වෙනවා එහෙම උනේ නැත්තම් මෙහ් ගහලා අනිත් පැත්තට ආයේ ගහන නිසාහ් :rofl: එක සාමාන්ය දෙයක්
    උබටහ් ලැජජා හිතෙනවා ඇති එහෙම හැගිමක් නැති උන වෙලාවටහ් මොන මගුලටදහ් එබුවේහ් කියලා
    යකො ඔච්චර හිතන්නහ් දෙයක් නෙමෙහ් ලැජ්ජයි නම් අහක බලාගෙන ඉදපන් නැත්තම් කොට්ටෙන් එකිගේ මුන වහපන්

    man ahala baluwe anith untath mehemada kiyala..ela ela
     

    SunSilk

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    :yes::yes: කොට්ටෙන් මූන වහලා තද කරන් හිටපන්.ඒකි දැඟලුවොත් තව ටිකක් තද කරපන්.ටික වෙලාවකින් දඟලන එක නතර වෙයි. :sorry::sorry:

    man umbe wayasata garu kerela mokuth kiyanne na:confused::confused:
     

    ctooi

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    oka samanya deyak athe gahala badu giyahamath samaharunta ganu
    sanhathiyama epaa venavaa, oka lajjava neme epaa vena eka venne
    me deval mahaa jaravak vage hagimak enne