Friend's problem

[mirissanew]

If they gonna live in SL, boy has to bare hints and disgraded treatments from others due to marrying such one. If he confident enough and girl is perfectly matching go-ahead.
Since today Samitha Gathri etc have made unorthodox culture with their affairs SL people too becoming normal attitude towards such cases. As society becoming complex and erotic future may be different

Yeah this is a reason to concern. Both have the opportunity to migrate. But my friend don't like since the life is so good here.

 

[tupac97]

You, as a good friend, should insist him to get something brandnew.

 

[mirissanew]

Why did she divorce ?

Because they are very much ideologically different. I knew they are not gonna live together for long even before the marriage. Marriage lasted for about three months

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වලියක් ගිය දාට ගෑනිට බනී
තෝ මාව දාල ගිහින් අරූව බැන්ද. කෙල උනාම අයේ මගෙ පස්සෙන් ආවා කියලා
මොකද ගෑනිව අම්මල බලෙන් ඇදන් ගිහින් බන්දන්නේ නැතුව ඇතිනේ

එකිගෙ අම්මල එක්ක මල පැන්නම
මතක් වෙයි උබව හලල එකෙකුට බන්දලා දුන්න එක.

ඔය මගුල යරියන්නේ නැත

බලෙන් බැන්දුවෙ නෑ බං. ඒ උනාට අම්ම මේකට කැමති උන් නැත්තන් මං මැරිල යයි කියද්දි ඒ කෙල්ල මොනා කරන්නද?.. නැකත් කාරයෙක් ලෙසටම අන්දල
------ Post added on Nov 21, 2021 at 4:48 PM

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You, as a good friend, should insist him to get something brandnew.

How to find a brand new one ? just kidding. The girl and boy are both good that's why i have posted this thread. Thanks for the reply
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[SLK_sri]

His parents are ok. They know about the girl for a long period of time. Only my friend hesitate

then don't do, ask him to get marry another girl soon and get ride from this girls

after marrage paw pin balana eka wenama deyak

 

[IMMuhandiram]

Yeah this is a reason to concern. Both have the opportunity to migrate. But my friend don't like since the life is so good here.

Main issue is whether he is confident enough to face family and social hints and gossips about grl. As he asked opinion from friends it proves he has less confidence to face the challenges. If confidence is there this is not a problem for him. He is in double mind and then he will worry even for a simple mistake from a grl smday.

 

[nimesha95]

You said that your friend having second thoughts... If he is really having them, just ask him to don't go through with it.
Lol otherwise like someone posted above "waliyak giyama oken thamai kelalla arinne"

 

[mirissanew]

Main issue is whether he is confident enough to face family and social hints and gossips about grl. As he asked opinion from friends it proves he has less confidence to face the challenges. If confidence is there this is not a problem for him. He is in double mind and then he will worry even for a simple mistake from a grl smday.

Yes i also think. Thank you

 

[SLhuman]

run away never turn back.....she will anyway like your friend because her value is down she just wants to hang on. tell your friend to think of his career and move on in life...trust me even he marries her she will not be the woman he wanted to marry...she is spoilt milk !!

 

[mirissanew]

You said that your friend having second thoughts... If he is really having them, just ask him to don't go through with it.
Lol otherwise like someone posted above "waliyak giyama oken thamai kelalla arinne"

Yes

 

[chami2015]

Is she unboxed? How many times has she had sex with her husband? Is that Okay for your friend?

When your friend married her, he can have sex while remembering the things she had with her husband

 

[niranga1989]

Uuta uge decisions ganna kiapan rata wateyn ahanne nathuwa

 

[ElaBaba]

උඹ වගේ හොඳ යාළුවෙක් අපිටත් හිටිය නම්....
උඹේ යාළුවට කියපං කරන දෙයක් බුද්ධිමත්ව තීරණය කරන්න කියල...

 

[tha123]

ooka hriynne nthiwei.. wena mkuth nisa newei kiyanne aruuge hithe kossak thyn nisa... uge hithe kossak nththm pora aya hihta hitha inne nha kelinm marry krnva thman love krpu ekne.. ehem nokrnne uge hithe kossak thyn nisaane...

meknm dngnn ahnne - ayi ithm marry krpu ekth ekka devorce une reason ek mkkd???

 

[hichchiputha]

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How to find a brand new one ? just kidding. The girl and boy are both good that's why i have posted this thread. Thanks for the reply
------ Post added on Nov 21, 2021 at 4:50 PM

@tupac97 wants you to give him lassana podi kollek

 

[mirissanew]

run away never turn back.....she will anyway like your friend because her value is down she just wants to hang on. tell your friend to think of his career and move on in life...trust me even he marries her she will not be the woman he wanted to marry...she is spoilt milk !!

Thank you for the reply

 

[ruchira55]

යාළුවට තීරණය කරන්න දීලා උබ පැත්තකට වෙලා ඉඳපන්.

 

[mirissanew]

Is she unboxed? How many times has she had sex with her husband? Is that Okay for your friend?

When your friend married her, he can have sex while remembering the things she had with her husband

She lived with her husband for two months. My friend has no problem with that. Plz don't be rude

 

[tharakaf]

One of my best friends had an affair with a girl for about 8 years. The girls family opposed to the affair and arranged a marriage to another boy. Now they are divorced.

The girl now likes to marry my friend. He is now hesitating because she is now once married. He is asking me some advice and i have no idea about those things.

Can you plz put some advice here so i can get an idea. I personally know the girl and she has a very good character . She earlier had to stop the affair due to the health concerns of her mother. Her mother believed about horoscopes too much and suffered from high blood pressure.

Ps. Divorce is finalized and girl has no children

Don't get involved hukanno, end of the day it is his/their lives. Will you or anyone take responsibility if something goes wrong again?

Puka nodi pathakata wela hitapan. Let them decide. Marriage is a huge matter that should be decided by the people who will get in to the marriage not anyone else.

 

[mirissanew]

ooka hriynne nthiwei.. wena mkuth nisa newei kiyanne aruuge hithe kossak thyn nisa... uge hithe kossak nththm pora aya hihta hitha inne nha kelinm marry krnva thman love krpu ekne.. ehem nokrnne uge hithe kossak thyn nisaane...

meknm dngnn ahnne - ayi ithm marry krpu ekth ekka devorce une reason ek mkkd???

Incompatibility. They had different tastes.

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යාළුවට තීරණය කරන්න දීලා උබ පැත්තකට වෙලා ඉඳපන්.

I am concerend cuz he asked me. I know both of them for very long period of time
------ Post added on Nov 21, 2021 at 5:41 PM

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Don't get involved hukanno, end of the day it is his/their lives. Will you or anyone take responsibility if something goes wrong again?

Puka nodi pathakata wela hitapan. Let them decide. Marriage is a huge matter that should be decided by the people who will get in to the marriage not anyone else.

Your language is third class. Mind your own business. No more replies from you are expected
------ Post added on Nov 21, 2021 at 5:43 PM

 

[SLK_sri]

යාළුවට තීරණය කරන්න දීලා උබ පැත්තකට වෙලා ඉඳපන්.

ehema be meka uge prashnayak , mu methane apita athal denawa ban. muge parana thread delete karala.

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