Living In - (without getting married) Is it good or bad ?

Is it Good or Bad to Live-in without getting married ?

  • It's GOOD and I like to do it too :-)

    Votes: 23 35.9%
  • No, It's BAD. V ery very bad and you will sufer in HELL for it

    Votes: 41 64.1%

  • Total voters
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CoolCartoon

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Nash_Node said:
Well, let's say that this "guy' is blessed with parents who appriciate the decissions of their son and the "girl" is blessed with parents who are not here in "SL" to know anything :P


in that case u can think about it.....but it is hard with our culture and society....there is a couple which i know very well they have bleessings of parents and they living together now nearly 5 years. now they finish all studies and doing good jobs. soon they gonna marry.
 

Asitha-K

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  • Dec 20, 2007
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    just said:
    yep good point...makes me wonder.
    will this guy be ok if the girl has tried this with several other guys before..:dull:

    If the guy was ok I don't think the marriage will least
    Those kinds of girls are waiting for catch another
    they don't satisfy from a 1!!!:P
     

    DANEWMEN

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    The place I love to live....
    i think its not bad as we think, its opens an another windows to the couple to see that its really work out or not,

    without getting marry and suffer.

    practically its an good idea.

    the main problem is with srilanka tradition and the people around.

    i cant vote as im already married so i don't wont to try the first one, if there is an box with "yes" then i will vote.
     

    Nash_Node

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    Asitha-K said:
    Bad
    Think If it worked out its ok! But what happens if its not?
    Will any other guy accept that girl who lived with another guy for a month?
    She can tell that nothing happened but will other guy believe it?
    NO! I will not marry a that kind of girl! I think other Lankan guy will not marry that kind of a girl either.
    Possible in US not in SL!

    That's crazy.

    I mean one should be fare in his dicission right? at the end of the day, I don't think it's possible/viable or ethical for any guy to ask for a girls virginity if he him self is not one !

    So I believe your argument is baseless !
     

    psyche

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    Does it matter!

    Well giving too much of freedom for people in these countries like ours has corrupted the minds enough already 'coz putting that freedom into good use hardly ever happen.

    Most people in these type of countries are really bad at making solid judgements. They easily get distracted by various things and lose complete attention to what they thought of earlier later on.

    So the concept of living together in my view is not suited at all to a country like this 'coz most people in this nation tend to abuse the freedom they get specially when it comes to relationships.

    BUT I must say living together concept is a really good way for an unmarried couple to practice as long as they are quite wise, have a very good understanding between each other and most importantly who don't get distracted easily and allow for short term pleasures. :)
     

    DJ.Parker

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    Nash_Node said:
    That's crazy.

    I mean one should be fare in his dicission right? at the end of the day, I don't think it's possible/viable or ethical for any guy to ask for a girls virginity if he him self is not one !

    So I believe your argument is baseless !

    but thats wot the sri lankan community is;) at least 95% of them
     

    djzac

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    datz ok machan if gal z ok with dat... but da scenario z if gal getz pregent, thr z big fu**ing problem will try to com n fu** whole lyf f both.. specily frm "vatapitave vatti ammalaz".. using proper protecs systm will avoid diz.. but machan if doing dat itz bettr to keep her virginity.. try orel sex..