Relationship issues

Dexter011

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    Gf ge gedara denmama proposal ekak balanava lu...im just 20...i cant even think about marriage and other stuffs...she is crying like i cant give more memories and leave you kiyala...den she called back and saying im sorry i cant leave u...idk what to do...im so scared kiyala adanava...

    Same campus eke love karapu kattiya kohomada geval dekama convince kare? How u guyz got settled ? Idk how can i make her wait...eki wait karath geval valin pressure karai marry karanna...im just blank guyz...gon athal denna epa plz...give suggestions...
     

    Nanosudha

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    Gf ge gedara denmama proposal ekak balanava lu...im just 20...i cant even think about marriage and other stuffs...she is crying like i cant give more memories and leave you kiyala...den she called back and saying im sorry i cant leave u...idk what to do...im so scared kiyala adanava...
    fuck and move bro, kella ge parents la ta kanna denna beda. 30 wenakm wath badinna epa.
    ubata salli da?
     

    Gwynbleidd

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    Lol mge ex ge kalin kolla unge gedarata awit kiyala ekiwa badinawa kyla gewal dekenut ok mn danagatteth breakup unata passe 😂
    Break up with mutual understanding without making more memories 😉
     

    Dexter011

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    unge gedarata gihilla ganiyek illanna tharam im not matured yet...im not settled also...i need 3-4 years to be settled...

    Ekita ethakan gedara convince karanna therenne nahe lu...she is crying...she is saying like ekita maava daala yannath bahe lu...

    Denmama geval dekama katha karala love karana tharamata mn matured nahe...i have lots of works to do more than that...denmama marry karana topics gedara adinna bahe...bcz mn thama kanne gedarin...im just 20...ganiyek ganna tharamata mama lokkek nemei ne thama...

    Unge gedara gihilla gammata kellava illannavath mama thama settled nahe...im just doing my studies....

    fuck and move bro, kella ge parents la ta kanna denna beda. 30 wenakm wath badinna epa.
    ubata salli da?
    Ow shape...have money...have a land for me..doing a degree...good family...time is the issue.
     

    tha123

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    Denmama geval dekama katha karala love karana tharamata mn matured nahe...i have lots of works to do more than that...denmama marry karana topics gedara adinna bahe...bcz mn thama kanne gedarin...im just 20...ganiyek ganna tharamata mama lokkek nemei ne thama...
    ubta 20+ kiynne marry krnna bri unaata... love krnn plwnne.. kellata kynn kypan kollek innv kyala.. uda kyl thyen wdht uba undergrad nehh... undergrad kollek ekka kella ylu wela inne after degree jobak thynv marry krnn plwn kyla unge ammalata therenn epai..

    uba ynna one nha.. kellt kynn kynna mehem kollek ekka dntma affair ekk thynv kyla.. that's it
     
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    Dexter011

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    ubta 20+ kiynne marry krnna bri unaata... love krnn plwnne.. kellata kynn kypan kollek innv kyala.. uda kyl thyen wdht uba undergrad nehh... undergrad kollek ekka kella ylu wela inne after degree jobak thynv marry krnn plwn kyla unge ammalata therenn epai..

    uba ynna one nha.. kellt kynn kynna mehem kollek ekka dntma affair ekk thynv kyla.. that's it
    She is just 18...unge gedara nikan denamam kollek ekka katha karala thiyala ekige studies ivara vechcha gaman bandanna vage line ekk denne...
     

    gihand4r

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    unge gedarata gihilla ganiyek illanna tharam im not matured yet...im not settled also...i need 3-4 years to be settled...
    talk to her parents and ask for more time. tell em your plans , how you gonna build up the future and howmuch u care for etc. even after that if they not gonna budge ehenam itin wena karanna deyak na ne. or the best option be girl making em convince that she need atleast another 2-3 years of freedom. and after that she will agree to whatever they say kiyala inna kiypan. and with that time you can build up your life and talk to them directly ne
     

    Dexter011

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    talk to her parents and ask for more time. tell em your plans , how you gonna build up the future and howmuch u care for etc. even after that if they not gonna budge ehenam itin wena karanna deyak na ne. or the best option be girl making em convince that she need atleast another 2-3 years of freedom. and after that she will agree to whatever they say kiyala inna kiypan. and with that time you can build up your life and talk to them directly ne
    Thanks machan..godak ma negative and low vidihata feel una...thanks for ur words.
     

    Himazharin

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    unge gedarata gihilla ganiyek illanna tharam im not matured yet...im not settled also...i need 3-4 years to be settled...
    ඕවා මොනාද මගෙ exගෙ කොල්ලා ex එක්ක සෙට් වෙලා සතියෙන් ගෙදරින් කැමැත්ත ඉල්ලන්න ගියෙ:lol:
     

    thanujaka

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  • U have plenty of time, no need to rush.
    The main reason u hesitate is bcz u are not independent yet, so the others too.
    My man, u are just 20,
    No one is perfect and earning enough to maintain a family life at 20, even her parents can understand that, but it doesn't mean that u aren't growing up.
    talk to her parents, tell them to give u sometime like 3 4 years to settle in your life.
    They definitely will give u a positive answer.
    No parent will expect a lil boy like u to be perfect at 20.
    It's ok for u to overthink like this at 30, but definitely not at 20.
    So just go and meet her parents asap, and talk to them.
     

    olutanji

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    ඕවා මොනාද මගෙ exගෙ කොල්ලා ex එක්ක සෙට් වෙලා සතියෙන් ගෙදරින් කැමැත්ත ඉල්ලන්න ගියෙ:lol:
    Ape wysedd??? Ado mata ohom seen ekak karanna thiya hithnwth bhe bng :(

    18di proposal 🥲🥲🥲
    ------ Post added on Dec 27, 2022 at 1:27 PM
     

    preamble

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    ඔබට ඕනෑ තරම් කාලය තිබේ, ඉක්මන් වීමට අවශ්ය නැත.
    ඔබ පසුබට වීමට ප්‍රධාන හේතුව bcz ඔබ තවමත් ස්වාධීන නොවීමයි, එබැවින් අනෙක් අයද.
    මගේ මිනිහා, ඔයාට යන්තම් 20 යි,
    වයස අවුරුදු 20 දී පවුල් ජීවිතයක් පවත්වාගෙන යාමට තරම් කිසිවකු සර්ව සම්පූර්ණ නැත, ඇගේ දෙමාපියන්ට පවා එය තේරුම් ගත හැක, නමුත් එයින් අදහස් වන්නේ ඔබ හැදී වැඩෙන්නේ නැති බව නොවේ.
    ඇගේ දෙමාපියන් සමඟ කතා කරන්න, ඔබේ ජීවිතයේ පදිංචි වීමට ඔබට වසර 3 4ක් වැනි කාලයක් ලබා දෙන ලෙස ඔවුන්ට කියන්න.
    ඔවුන් නිසැකවම ඔබට ධනාත්මක පිළිතුරක් ලබා දෙනු ඇත.
    කිසිම දෙමව්පියෙක් ඔයා වගේ කොල්ලෙක් අවුරුදු 20දී සර්ව සම්පූර්ණ වෙයි කියලා බලාපොරොත්තු වෙන්නේ නැහැ.
    ඔබ 30 දී මේ ආකාරයට සිතා බැලීම කමක් නැත, නමුත් අනිවාර්යයෙන්ම 20 දී නොවේ.
    ඒ නිසා ඉක්මනින් ගොස් ඇගේ දෙමාපියන් හමුවී ඔවුන් සමඟ කතා කරන්න.