sexual romantic feeling නැති කරගන්න

[Pessimist]

උබ හරි . ඒ උනාට ඕක නීති හදන උන්ට තේරෙන්නෙ නැති වෙයි

කාටද බැන්කි මූන්ටද

 

[JohnSnow]

තියෙනවා

 

[KasunKDP]

එහෙම ඉතිං සමාජෙ හිතන විදිහ බලන්න ගියොත් කිසිම එකෙක්ට වෙනස් විදිහකට හිතන්න බෑ. සමාජ රැල්ල දෙයක් හරිද වැරදිද කියල තීරණය කරන්න ගන්න එක වැරදියි කියල මම නං කියන්නෙ. අනික sex කරන එක මාර ලොකු ජයග්‍රහණයක් කියල දකින උන් වැඩිහරිය ජීවිතේ හැමදේකිංම වගේ අසාර්ථක වුන අය. ඕනෙම සතෙක් කරන සරල දෙයක් කල්ල ඒක කරන්න ඕනෙ නැති උන් පිරිමි නෙමේ විදිහට දකින්නෙ උන්ට තමන්ගෙ තත්වය ගැන ලොකූ අවතක්සේරුවක් තියෙන නිසානෙ බං. උන්ට ඒවගේ දෙයක් කලේ නැත්තං තමන්ගෙ යථා ස්වභාවය ටික ටික දැනිල ජීවිතේ එපා වෙන එක වෙන්නෙ. උඹ අපරාධකාරයො ගැන සානුකම්පිතව බලනව වගේ ඒ මිනිස්සු ගැනත් පොඩ්ඩක් සානුකම්පිතව බලපං ඒ මිනිස්සුන්ට තමන්ට කරන්න පුලුවන් තමන් දක්ශ මොකක් හරි field එකක වැඩ කරන්න අවස්ථාවක් දුන්න නං අර වගේ අනික් මිනිස්සුන්ව පහත් කල්ල තමන්ට වටිනාකමක් ආරෝපණය කරගන්න තියෙන අවශ්‍යතාවය නිකංම නැති
වෙලා යනව

romantic feelings තියෙනව කියන්නෙ sex කරන්න ඕනෙ වෙනව කියන එක නෙමේනෙ බං. romantic attraction එක වෙනයි sexual attraction එක වෙනයි. sexual desires නැතුව කොහොමද sexual attraction එකක් ඇතිවෙන්නෙ ? අපිට කන්න කැමති නැති ලස්සන කෑමක් තියෙනවනං ඒ කෑම එක දකින්න ආසාව ඇතිවුනාට රස බලන්න ආසාවක් ඇතිවෙන්නෑනෙ. කැපුවාම sex කරන්න තියෙන ආශාව නැතිවෙනවං sexual attraction එකත් නැතිවෙන්න ඕනෙ

the thing is this, most human beings arn't rational beings like u are. Most of them are emotional beings. actually sex is the most important part of most of
the people. if u look carefully they do most stuff, go through most pains because of sex. people marry because its the only way that u are guaranteed to have consistent safe sex.... most people achive things in their lives to get sex(seriously)

to change that u would have to genetically modify all of them, its not problem about their opinions its about that basic physical need that they cant control.

romantic feelings lead to sex, if u feel romantic love towards a woman u want to have sex some day. But if u know u will never get that , it will lead to un imaginable psychological despair

 

[Pessimist]

the thing is this, most human beings arn't rational beings like u are. Most of them are emotional beings. actually sex is the most important part of most of
the people. if u look carefully they do most stuff, go through most pains because of sex. people marry because its the only way that u are guaranteed to have consistent safe sex.... most people achive things in their lives to get sex(seriously)

to change that u would have to genetically modify all of them, its not problem about their opinions its about that basic physical need that they cant control.

romantic feelings lead to sex, if u feel romantic love towards a woman u want to have sex some day. But if u know u will never get that , it will lead to un imaginable psychological despair

first of all i don't consider myself as a rational being. I even believe our modern culture is overemphasizing the importance of rationalism. everyone is guided by emotions and as I understand emotional biases and feelings are integral part of consciousness.

while it might be true that most people do things solely because of sex, i don't see why it's a valid reason to criticize forced castration. if people lose their desire to achieve non-sexual goals after going through such an operation, so be it. not all people shouldn't achieve material goals. there are thousands who have abandoned that path voluntarily. If that's what they desire, what could possibly be the problem with that ?

I can't disagree with you more on ur statement on romantic attractions leading to sexual relationships. there are thousands of heteroromantic, biromantic and homoromantic asexuals out their proving ur assumption is simply wrong.

 

[KasunKDP]

first of all i don't consider myself as a rational being. I even believe our modern culture is overemphasizing the importance of rationalism. everyone is guided by emotions and as I understand emotional biases and feelings are integral part of consciousness.

while it might be true that most people do things solely because of sex, i don't see why it's a valid reason to criticize forced castration. if people lose their desire to achieve non-sexual goals after going through such an operation, so be it. not all people shouldn't achieve material goals. there are thousands who have abandoned that path voluntarily. If that's what they desire, what could possibly be the problem with that ?

I can't disagree with you more on ur statement on romantic attractions leading to sexual relationships. there are thousands of heteroromantic, biromantic and homoromantic asexuals out their proving ur assumption is simply wrong.

u have to understand when a new law is considerd the logic isnt the only thing that matters, what matters more are ethics and other stuff.

for example look how its impossible to legalize homosexuality in this country even though its logically very straight forward.

same goes in this matter, eventhough its a kinda good thing to lose sexual attraction if society believe its not the right thing it will never gonna happen,

being naturally heteroromantic/biromantic/homoromantic and this are totally different things.

how can u be sure, for example a hetrosexual person will become a heteroromantic after castration?

their are many instances of people suffering alot after losing genitals

 

[Pessimist]

u have to understand when a new law is considerd the logic isnt the only thing that matters, what matters more are ethics and other stuff.

for example look how its impossible to legalize homosexuality in this country even though its logically very straight forward.

same goes in this matter, eventhough its a kinda good thing to lose sexual attraction if society believe its not the right thing it will never gonna happen,

being naturally heteroromantic/biromantic/homoromantic and this are totally different things.

how can u be sure, for example a hetrosexual person will become a heteroromantic after castration?

their are many instances of people suffering alot after losing genitals

we aren't trying to legalize castration here. so law is completely unrelated in this matter nor do I think such a practice would ever be legalized in our country so this is basically a matter of ethics.

how do u say born asexuals and castrated asexuals are different ? any findings that proved castrated people feel sexual desires as before ? I mean even if they had that urge, what stops them from having sex ? their genitals are undamaged. they can choose to have sex anytime they want if that;s what their desire. so in that sense nothing is taken away from them

as ive mentioned above genital and testicles are 2 different things. i think it's only the testicles they remove in castration.

 

[KasunKDP]

we aren't trying to legalize castration here. so law is completely unrelated in this matter nor do I think such a practice would ever be legalized in our country so this is basically a matter of ethics.

how do u say born asexuals and castrated asexuals are different ? any findings that proved castrated people feel sexual desires as before ? I mean even if they had that urge, what stops them from having sex ? their genitals are undamaged. they can choose to have sex anytime they want if that;s what their desire. so in that sense nothing is taken away from them

as ive mentioned above genital and testicles are 2 different things. i think it's only the testicles they remove in castration.

It's hard to get a ejaculation after a castration.
Hard to maintain a ejaculation
Imagine wanting to have sex but can't maintain an ejaculation, that would suck

 

[Pessimist]

It's hard to get a ejaculation after a castration.
Hard to maintain a ejaculation
Imagine wanting to have sex but can't maintain an ejaculation, that would suck

hard ? wtf dude. sperms are stored in the testicles. there would be no sperms to ejaculate

 

[KasunKDP]

hard ? wtf dude. sperms are stored in the testicles. there would be no sperms to ejaculate

Sorry
I meant erection

 

[Anemanda1]

oka balapan

 

[Hyaenidae]

relationships and breakups make me unhappy.

A sane person wouldn't consider committing hara-kiri because of a stomach ache

 

[Pessimist]

Sorry
I meant erection

well. y would one want his penis to erect if he is not interested in either having sex or masturbating ?

 

[apita mokada v2]

Kella rena hati menehi karapan ... ethakot kello epama wela yanawa

 

[pavithra_uk]

Estrogen injection ekak ganin

 

[ruchira55]

Uba oya ahanne aro ace kenek wenne kohomada kiyalane? Baha Machan. Ubata balen ehema inna ba. Aro kenekge romantic feelings Athi nowenne naturally. Asexual kenekta sexual desire ekak Athi Novi thiyenne naturally misak. E aya balen mata meka epa kiyala hitha control karanna yanne na. Samaharawitq eka gift ekak wenn Athi.


Mama dannawq uba catholic kiyala. Eth buddha dharshanaye sexual desire eka control karanna bhawana kiyala deela thiyenawaa. awashYa nam sampuurNayenma nAthi karannath kiyala deela thiyenawaa. Asexual ayata romantic feelings thiyenne puLuwan. Eth budu dhahame ugannana widiyata sexual desire eka nAthi karanna mahansi unoth, romantic feelings nathikara ganeeme hakiyawa ibema enawa. kAmathi nam awashYa welawata witharak wage. Control ekak ganna puluwan hithata.

 

[Chootyputha2014]

කෙල්ලගෙ පවුලෙ අපත යක්කුන්ට නෑදෑකම් කියන්න ඔනෙ නෑ.

 

[Nice_guy]

උඹ කැමති දෙයක් ඇතිනෙ බැහැල ඔලුව පාවිච්චි කරල කරන. මටනන් ඔය පට්ට කතා පොතක් හම්බුනාම නියමයි. මන් කියවන්නෙත් හෙන හිමින්. මෙලෝ දෙයක් මතක් වෙන්නැ ඒවගේ දෙයක් කරද්දි.

අන්න ඒ වගේ උඹට සෙට් වෙන මොකක් හරි මතක් කරපන්. ඔය පොඩි කාලේ කැමති දේවල් තමයි ගොඩක් හරියන්නේ.

antidepressant කියන්නේ විහිළුවක් නෙවෙයි. අන්තිමට උඹ පිස්සෙක් වෙලා නවතියි ඕව ගත්තොත්. long term depressant effects කුඩුකාරයෙක් වුනා හා සමානයි. ඒව ගැන ටිකක් ඉගෙනගෙන තියෙන හන්ද කියන්නෙ.

 

[tupac97]

you can't , බඳින්න අකමැති කෙල්ලෙක් හොයා ගනින් ටෲ ලව් කියලා ලබ්බක් නෑ, අපි ආදරේ කරන්නේ හේතුවකට, හේතුව නැති වුණාම ලව සුන්

 

[other guy]

vasectomy and castration are two totally different things.
vasecomy wont affect testosterone production.

 

[Kolama]