My girlfriend is sexually abused ... PLS HELP....

MACAVITY

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    machan uba "Sihina Dumaraya" kiyana novel eka kiyawala thiyanawada?

    elakiri eke dala thibuna link eka

    eka kiyawala hitapan poddak, kelle gena theeranayak ganna kalin
     

    Sefirosu

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    machan uba "Sihina Dumaraya" kiyana novel eka kiyawala thiyanawada?

    elakiri eke dala thibuna link eka

    eka kiyawala hitapan poddak, kelle gena theeranayak ganna kalin
    සිහින දුමාරය පෙනෙයි මැරි කරලා රණ්ඩු වෙද්දි:P
     

    MACAVITY

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    සිහින දුමාරය පෙනෙයි මැරි කරලා රණ්ඩු වෙද්දි:P

    eka thama machan math kiyanne

    uba ea novel eka kiyawala thiyanawada kiyapan

    eke thiyanawa kello kiyanne kawda kiyala
     

    Sefirosu

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    eka thama machan math kiyanne

    uba ea novel eka kiyawala thiyanawada kiyapan

    eke thiyanawa kello kiyanne kawda kiyala
    මම ඕවා කියෝලා නැහැ බන්!
    ඕවාගේ තියෙන ඒවා අපේ ජීවිත වළට සමාන කරන්නත් බැහැ
     

    thilangr8

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    හෝම් ස්වීට් හෝම්
    life isnt depend on promises

    but what i say is if you dont feel honest about her don't go further.
    make sure you feel the same way and otherwise you would have suffered in future.

    well , who cares abt da past ......
    she z been truthful and that'd be more than enuf ; if this is a real situation which I seriously doubt

    besides I don't remember any damn thing that happned when I was @ age 4 ... do U ??

    so I think this story woud've been creative if it was a bit older girl

    the story looses it's interest when the age comes into play

    otherthan that I hav 2 accept this is a nice story :)
     

    kal00

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    Machan appreciate her for being truthful to you. If you feel the same way as b4 about her keep ur love & trust upon her. If this happens in age 4, may be (may be not) there won't be any probe with her virginity. Machan better you can consult a doctor. He/She will give lots of answers for you.
     

    shylock

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    life isnt depend on promises

    but what i say is if you dont feel honest about her don't go further.
    make sure you feel the same way and otherwise you would have suffered in future.

    are u even a girl? and what do u mean if u dont feel honest dont go further, what would have happened if this happened to u? thats like the shittiest reply on this thread and its totally pathetic bcz it comes from a person who i think might be a girl. (guessing from that dumb profile picture)
     

    korn

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    but who gives a fuck about her virginity, as long as u love her.

    Its like this... If a guy gives priority to the "Virginity" (Which should not be a major issue at all) its very pathetic...
    but mostly it depends on the metal status developed by each individual. It differs from one to another...
    some guys cannot bare or tolarate tht fact that his gf/wife (the person he loves the most) was abused or sexually assalted or used for some ohter persons plesure.. and each time he see the girl the whole thing haunts his mind torments him where he suffers a lot from it.thats because of the love he has for her.But some guys can tolarate it get on with her...
    so if this kind of thing happens to a guy who falls under the first type which i said then the best thing is to stop the affair redardless of how much they love each other.. or else both the lives of the girl and the boi would be messed up if they are married... it doesn't mean he doesn't love her or he gives priority to virginity. these are the kind of things happen around the society..
    what do you say R girl??
     

    shylock

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    Its like this... If a guy gives priority to the "Virginity" (Which should not be a major issue at all) its very pathetic...
    but mostly it depends on the metal status developed by each individual. It differs from one to another...
    some guys cannot bare or tolarate tht fact that his gf/wife (the person he loves the most) was abused or sexually assalted or used for some ohter persons plesure.. and each time he see the girl the whole thing haunts his mind torments him where he suffers a lot from it.thats because of the love he has for her.But some guys can tolarate it get on with her...
    so if this kind of thing happens to a guy who falls under the first type which i said then the best thing is to stop the affair redardless of how much they love each other.. or else both the lives of the girl and the boi would be messed up if they are married... it doesn't mean he doesn't love her or he gives priority to virginity. these are the kind of things happen around the society..
    what do you say R girl??

    totally agree with u man!
     

    sachii

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    well , who cares abt da past ......
    she z been truthful and that'd be more than enuf ; if this is a real situation which I seriously doubt

    besides I don't remember any damn thing that happned when I was @ age 4 ... do U ??

    so I think this story woud've been creative if it was a bit older girl

    the story looses it's interest when the age comes into play

    otherthan that I hav 2 accept this is a nice story :)
    :yes:
    as i see this guy suffering of consequences of honesty thats the utter truth of this story aint it?
     

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    ඊ මොකද කියලා කුමාරට විතරයි දැනගන්න ඕනෙ උනේ ඒනිසා කුමාරටම උත්තරය කියන්නම් මටත් ඔය වගේ ගෑණු ළමයෙක් සෙට් උනා. ලස්සනයි, ක්‍රියාශීලියි, සමාජ ශි,ලී කඩිසරයි , කතාව කියුට්..බ්ලා බ්ලා...... ඔය ඔක්කෝම ඔහොම තියෙද්දි හැමදාම මෙයා මට යම් සර්ටන් පොයින්ට් එකකදි කියනවා ඒත් අයියේ මම මෙහෙම කෙනෙක් කියලා.. ඉතින් මම හොයලා බැලුවා.. ඇත්තටම එහෙම කරපු කොල්ලෙක් ඉදලා තියනවා ඒත් කියන විදිහට බලහත්කාරයක් නෙවේ අනික ඊට පස්සේ ඒ කෙල්ල කීප දෙනික් එක්ක යාලු වෙලා එයාලත් එක්කත් ඔය වගේ ඉදලා තියනවා.. මම දන්නේ නෑ උන් අවස්ථාව ප්‍රයෝජනයට ගත්තාද කියලා. නමුත් කෙල්ලේකුට ඔය වගේ දෙයක් මුවාවට තියාන කොල්ලා රවට්ටන්න හදන එක කපටි කම මිස අහිංසක කම නෙවෙයි.. ඉතින් කොල්ලව අතහරින්න බලාගෙන කීවනම් ඒ කියන විදිහත් අපි දන්නවා.. මෙතන තියෙන්නේ එහෙම සීන් එකක් නෙවේ... ඉතින් හොදම දේ වීර වික්‍රමාන්විත් පොරක් වෙන්න යන්නේ නැතිව සාමාන්ය පොරක් විදිහට කෙල්ලට කෙලින්ම කියලා අයින් වෙන්න පුලුවන් වෙලාවෙදි අයින් වෙන එකයි.. පරක්කු උනාට පස්සේ මොනාවත් කරගන්න විදිහක් නෑ..මොකද එයා තුරුම්පු ගහලා තියෙන්නේ;)